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Hi Sherry, I believe you need to speak to your brother too, it need'nt be in a confrontational manner but let him know you do feel hurt about this..
maybe you could also drop a hint that you're really not expecting to go anywhere for quite a while to come!!
For some it can be a touchy subject but only if you make it so..good luck and I hope he understands.I too would be hurt at this whether I needed money or not,yourbrother has misread the situation and I'm sure it did'nt mean to hurt you.
Another idea is maybe have someone else tell him you're hurt if you really can't face the discussion yourself!
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Tricia
Dx July '05 IDC 1.9cm Triple positive 3/9 nodes positive
A/C X 4 ..Taxol/Herceptin x 12 wks then herceptin 1 yr
Rads x 36 ..oophorectomy August '06
Currently taking Arimidex..
June 2011 osteopenia/ zometa x1 yearly- stopped Zometa 2015 as Dexa show normal bone density.
Stopped Arimidex July 2014- Restarted Arimidex 2015 for a further two years on the advice of my Onc.
2014 Normal Dexa scan
2018 Mammo all clear, still NED!
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