Cathy,
I am so sorry to hear of your news. Reading your post, coincidentally, I see on the breastcancer.org site that there is an "Ask the Expert" on-line conference tomorrow evening from 9:30 to 11:00 pm EST on the topic, "Working During Treatment." Here is the link:
http://www.breastcancer.org/communit...ex.jsp#current Maybe you can ask a question or get some information that will help you with your decision.
Best of luck to you,
Hopeful