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Sheila,
I was happy too, to read your updated post this am. You are so beautiful, inside and out. I am sure he fears losing you; his best friend. It's hard to focus on your partners needs sometimes when you are fighting to stay strong and healthy enough to go through txs.
When I was first diagnosed, my husband was so attentive and really took total care of me and the kids. Once I started on my chemo and feeling stronger, like I maybe had a chance to survive this, he started to get back to his old self. He needed me to take care of him like I always did before. And it was okay. It was good and I felt good be able to take care of him and the kids. I am rambling now LOL. Anyway, I guess I am just trying to say that even though we may be going through yucky stuff, our husbands still want to be babied and loved on and made to feel special. Sometimes it feels like work, but I guess I wouldn't want it any other way.
Be good to yourself and know that we think you are AWESOME.
Hugs,
Lexi
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