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Hi Sheila,
You're usually so positive that I was surprised to see your post title; there are certain people on the board that I use as a measuring point for myself, and you are one of them, so I'm really sad to find you sad.
My husband is great, but there are definitely times when I know he is having problems with my cancer, usually when I'm feeling low or looking at things bleakly.
I know this. If my husband had cancer I would be worse with that than I am with my own. I honestly don't know how I would cope as I would be worrying 24 x 7, whereas for myself I go days without worrying. Perhaps if you tell him how you feel. Also, I know in my marriage sometimes it's me, as I find myself asking if he still loves me or finds me attractive. He always comes back and asks the same of me. It may just be his way of coping with the stress.
I'm so sorry you're having an off time, but if anyone has a right it's you. Very best.
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