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Believe51 · 08-17-2007, 09:48 AM

I as so sorry to hear about your Mother's passing, I am all choked up with tears and sorrow for you and the family. I know getting alone without someone we love, especially our parents must be the hardest thing one can go through. My parents are still married and here but my father has ailing health. I push away thoughts from time to time about what will I do without my husband?? I cannot phathom it!! I have lost people I love and grieved before but I feel so helpless hearing your voice.

We will always be here for you Chelee, I know we are not Mom but I am sure we can help you through this. I really wish I could give you a hug, for you as well as for me!! Do not be afraid to ask for help with this one Darling, ask your doctor for help, ask your family, ask us; if you need help just ask for whatever you need to help you cope with this matter. Looks like your plate is full from here.

We love you and I shall continue sending prayers for your family and yourself. Keeping you close to heart to see you through.>>Believe51

08-17-2007, 09:48 AM	#30
Believe51 Senior Member Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: RHODE ISLAND (Ed getting me a latte on 2nd Cancerversary Cruise 2008) 'BELIEVE': To accept as true or real, To have faith in, To presume ALWAYS BELIEVE Posts: 3,000	My Dear Sweet Chelee I as so sorry to hear about your Mother's passing, I am all choked up with tears and sorrow for you and the family. I know getting alone without someone we love, especially our parents must be the hardest thing one can go through. My parents are still married and here but my father has ailing health. I push away thoughts from time to time about what will I do without my husband?? I cannot phathom it!! I have lost people I love and grieved before but I feel so helpless hearing your voice. We will always be here for you Chelee, I know we are not Mom but I am sure we can help you through this. I really wish I could give you a hug, for you as well as for me!! Do not be afraid to ask for help with this one Darling, ask your doctor for help, ask your family, ask us; if you need help just ask for whatever you need to help you cope with this matter. Looks like your plate is full from here. We love you and I shall continue sending prayers for your family and yourself. Keeping you close to heart to see you through.>>Believe51 __________________ 9/7/06Husband 50yrs=StageIV IBC/HER2+,BoneMets10/06TaxotereX10,'H'1X wk,Zometa,Tamoxifen4/12/07Last Tax5/18/07Pet=Rapid Cell Activity,No Organ Mets,Lytic Lesions,Degeneration,Some Bone Repair5/07ChemoFail6/01/07Pleural Thoracentisis=Effusions,NoMalignantCells6/19/07+7/2/07DFCI 6/25/07BrainMRI=BrainMets,Many<9mm7/10/07WBR/PelvisRad37.5Gx15&Nutritionist8/19/07T/X9/20/07BrainMRI=2<2mm10/6/07Pet=BoneProgression 10/24/07ChemoFail11/9/07A/Cx10,EndTam12/7/07Faslodex12/10/07Muga7512/13/07BlasticLesions1/7/08BrainMRI=Clear4/1/08Pet=BoneImprovement, NoProgression,Stable4/7/08BrainPerfect5/16/08Last A/C8/26/08BrainMets=10(<9mm)9/10/08Gamma10/30/08Met=5mm12/19/08Gamma5mets5 12/22/08SpinalMets1/14/09SpinalRads2/17/09BrainMRI=NoNewMets4/20/09BoneScan5/14/09Ixempra6/1/09BrainMRI=NumerousMets6/24/09DFCIw/DrBurstein6/26/09Continue Ixempra/Faslodex/Zometa~TM now lower7/17/09Stop Ixempra By Choice9/21/09HOSPICE10/16/09Earned His Deserved Wings And Halo=37 Month Fight w/Stage 4 IBC, Her2+++,My Hero!!