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I think you are the best friend that she could have right now! I know it must feel as though she could not confide in you as a friend through this time of need and that is confusing, but it sounds to me like she just wanted to spare you unnecessary worry. Sometimes, eventhough we are there for our friends, they worry about taxing us when we have a lot on our own plates! It sounds to me like she is a good friend to you and you to her. In that thought, keep nagging her! Also let her know that we are all in this together! I had some good news yesterday and I am NED after being stage 3! So let her know that there are a lot of women out there that have been in her shoes.
Alice
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