[CLTann]

I replied last time but the messages were all lost in the Forum computer problem. Anyway, I will repeat on what I wrote.

You have many serious problems. Let us sort them out:

1. Your husband is not able or capable to find work.
2. Your household income (from your work) cannot cover your expenses.
3. You have exceedingly high debts.
4. Most of all, you have serious cancer problem yourself, plus your daughter's cancer problem.
5. Your husband and in-laws cannot be counted on for help.
6. You cannot leave your job.

Solutions:
1. Marriage separation or divorce.
2. Joint custody of three kids.
3. Stay at the subsidized facility and get as much aids as you can.
4. Most importantly, get your cancer problem in control. Get your daughter's cancer problem in control.
5. Keep your job and work as long as you physically can handle.
6. Don't get involved with your husband, or better, ex husband. You are not in a position to help a no-good trash.

I may sound harsh but this is what I have analyzed and made conclusions.

Best luck.