Lolly,
I am very optimistic that gemzar is going to work for you, based on several reports of its effectiveness.
For a possible extra boost check this (with your onc's blessing ,of course):
http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/entrez/query.fcgi?db=pubmed&cmd=Retrieve&dopt=AbstractPlu s&list_uids=16645328&query_hl=9&itool=pubmed_docsu m
Zoledronic acid (Zometa) enhances the cytotoxic effect of gemcitabine and fluvastatin: in vitro isobologram studies with conventional and nonconventional cytotoxic agents.
Oncology. 2006;70(2):147-53. Epub 2006 Apr 26.
http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/entrez/q...=pubmed_docsum
Effect of n-3 fatty acids on the antitumour effects of cytotoxic drugs.
In Vivo. 2004 Sep-Oct;18(5):543-7.
Although this lab test shows no synergy between fatty acids & Gemzar (but also no antagonism), Omega-3's in animal studies have been effective against lymph nodes. The very least to expect is a reduction of inflamation.