I had always worn my hair long and described it as "Frizzy" rather than curly. I had cut it fairly short when it started coming out in clumps in the shower. Like you Kriss, it matted up and couldn't get rid of it! My husband had to come into the shower and cut the clumps from my head! I have always buzzed my boys hair short, so after the shower--I buzzed my own. I thought it would be the worst time for me--but it was almost a relief. I didn't have to dread it any more. Afterwards I wore my wig for a while, then just switched to wig for special occasions and made hats and scarves a fun activity. Loved trying to come up with different "looks". And I did have three or four wigs--long, short, curly, etc. You'll never have a better time to try whatever look you want.
My hair now is darker, curlier and I like it better than ever. So try to have fun with it and you have brand new hair to look forward to.
Best of luck to you,
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HoneyMila cam