[KellyA]

Ron,


I am writing you because you really struck a note when you talked about how your wife felt. When I first found out, I researched just long enough to see the "poor prognosis" on a few sites and immediately had a very serious talk with my hubby about what he should/needed to do for his and our children's future if I wasn't around.

Now, eight months later, I feel completely the opposite. I am not only hopeful of beating this disease, but am feeling like things are on my side- not a guarantee, but definitely better than I thought at diagnosis. There are so many new incredible drugs to fight Her2, and it is quickly becoming better to have it as the treatments are so targeted. This sight is WONDERFUL, and the people are so knowledgable and helpful, and can guide your wife through everything.

Now, instead of having the horrible talk we had early on, we talk about our dreams and what we plan for our future. The beginning is the hardest time. It really is. It will get better as your wife goes- small baby steps and one day at a time. My thoughts and prayers are with you both. Please let us know if you have any questions or need anything at all.

Kelly