Dear Kelly,
 
I certainly hope it goes well wth the radiation and reconstruction.  I'm learning a lot.  I did not have a total mastectomy but a partial and asked my surgeon if I should see a plastic surgeon before my surgery so he could see how I was before.  He advised against it.  In the beginning I was going to do reconstruction of some type, now I've decided not to.  At my age and all that I've been thru, am going to leave things alone.  I don't think I could go thru more stuff.  If I was young, in 30's, 40's, or even 50's, I would definitely consider it.  But at this point in time don't think so.  I just want to get thru what I'm dealing with.  I do herceptin/aridia every 3 weeks and don't have a clue how many treatments I have left plus I'm dealing with a malignant tumor on spine that is shrinking from radiation but slowly.  
 
Good luck and keep me informed as to your progress.
 
hugs,
ginkott1@aol.com