Chelee
The Y-Me Foundation as well as the American Cancer Society was very helpful when I called them about a friend who had an oncologist similar to yours. Believe it or not, there is more than one of those!
www.y-me.org/
They can help by talking to you and may have some ideas as to what to do next. Let us know who you talk to. At least you got through to one person at your HMO.
Hugs and prayers,
Janet