Shame on you for blaming your wife for her cancer. And suggesting that we are also at fault for our cancer because of what we did or didn't do.

If you didn't have such tunnel vision, you would have found how many people have followed a 'strictly healthy' life style, doing ALL THE RIGHT THINGS....AND STILL GET CANCER!!!

For some reason, our natural tendency is to 'blame' ourselves....you do no good to your wife, or anyone else, by reinforcing this wrong thinking.

SHAME ON YOU!!

pattyz