I was really responding to what your husband said-"When people admit some of the things they have done MAY have made it easier for them to get cancer, they are simply being HONEST." I just thought it might be helpful not to focus on the cause. My surgeon in New York who is one of the top doctors there told me that she thought BC is an environmental disease. There are many theories out there. I used to obsess about why I got cancer. I just feel alot better now that I've dropped it. It freed up alot of healing energy for me. Just trying to be helpful. Wishing you all the best, Carol