I am like your wife, only I had a bigger tunour and 20/30 nodes positive. ER&PR -ve, HER2 3+ve. I had the standard FAC and radiotherapy, with herceptin only available for a recurrence or mets. I am 18 months down the track and feeling great.... NED....I think of myself as "cured". I'll let you know if things change.
Vicki