Phil,
We both know the anxiety that you are going through. Go to our Home Page and click on Site Index and the go to Stories. Read Christine and Paula's stories. We both had brain mets 5 years ago and both are doing fine today.

There are also several other women on this site who have had brain mets or are currently being treated. I am sure they also will answer you.

Also go to our Metastatic Brain Tumor section, it contains a lot of information about treatments there.

Hugs and well wishes,
Christine

thanks for your reply...I read both stories and thet were inspiring.I'm just scared ...the thought of raising two little girls alone terrifies me but I know I will have to be strong and do my best if the worst happens.

I am sure the thought of you raising your two girls alone scares your wife even more. Leaving my daughter is my greatest fear and has been the most difficult issue in my life. This issue has caused me to question my family and my faith. Be strong and know that you and your family are being prayed for right NOW!