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Lisa 08-06-2006 11:14 AM

WBR cause memory issues?
 
Friends,

I'd just like to hear from those of you who've had WBR. I had mine 2 years ago and I now feel like an Alzheimer's patient. It is SO frustrating, not just for me, but for my husband, too. I can't remember basic words, I forget movies we've seen or conversations I've had. And let's not talk about my terrible typing.

Prior to chemo and WBR, I'd had a 20 year career in public relations and fundraising. I did lots of training (which I loved) and lots of public speaking. Now, I'd be afraid to even attempt these things. Afraid I'd lose what I was saying or even what I was talking about.

Please let me know if you've had WBR and what your side effects were, if any. I want to know if I'm alone in this boat.

Love and light,

Lisa

IRENE FROM TAMPA 08-06-2006 12:56 PM

I have never had WBR
 
OR brain mets...

but I can say that I have experienced and still do, loss of a simple word right in the middle of a conversation. Sometimes I have a little difficulty remembering if I actually did what I was thinking of, and a bit of confusion, example if I see someone that I know, my mind might becomes a bit confused on the name (and I know their name).

And I have been doing this for some time now and have attributed to the chemo's I have taken. I function fine at work and that is where I have the most pressure so I can't explain this. It's once in a while and I can relate about being hesitant to speak out in a group, etc. since I never know when I will be in the middle of a sentence and all of a sudden, stop to think about and can't find the word I was about to say. I always thought I was a terrific speller, but sometimes I can't even remember what the most simple word begins with. It will come to me, but I have to really think about it.

It is scarry, but I really think its all about the chemo's and treatments we have been on. I try to keep my mind active by doing a word puzzle daily (which I have always loved) and reading, anything to challenge the mind.

Hopefully this will resolve for you, or it will be just "another" obstacle that we have to learn to live with.

Take care Lisa

pattyz 08-07-2006 05:15 AM

Lisa,

I've had these same concerns with all you've mentioned. No WBR but as you know, many focalized rads to brain.

I think it is so hard to know just what the cause/s have been... The loss of estrogen can really do a number alone.

The only positive I've found is: I can re-read and enjoy a book from the past... or see that same movie and get a 'new' thrill.

I beg people's forgivenesss and forebearing upfront now, but it is more than frustrating.

anyway,
I do understand,
hugs,
pattyz

al from Canada 08-07-2006 09:08 PM

Lisa,

I agree with all of the above. There is a supplement called DMAE, which may help resolve some of these issues. It can be found at some health food stores but seems to be a little bit obsure. From personal experience, it does work.
Good luck,
Al

Sandy H 08-08-2006 08:06 AM

I have never had WBR or brain mets but I am with Irene. Can't remember anything! Mine is from chemo brain. Mine mind goes blank in the middle of a conversation and I get confused over what I have said and want to say. Have trouble typing and spelling, thank goodness for grammar and spell check, as I do a monthly newsletter for our church and need to do it correctly. Some times my husband will want information immediately and have to tell him I need time to think about it. I get confused on days of the week and what days I did what. I have to start with yesterday and back up with each day. To make matters worse my husband is as bad or worse then I am and he has never had chemo!!!!! I think his is from medications for depression. At least this way he understand me and so it is not a problem for us to deal with. Many times we laugh it off. We both are only 59 years old can't imagine being 70 or 80 years old. hugs, Sandy


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