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karen z 12-31-2011 11:05 PM

New year's resolutions (2012)
 
(1) What will they be this year?

(2) What will it take for you to keep them?

karen z 01-01-2012 09:12 AM

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(1) Exercise on a regular basis.
(2) Given the nature of my work (prof. who is sitting at a computer a lot), I will need to schedule exercise times each week into my calendar and will start this wee. I will also set realistic goals. A little afraid to go public on this.

notamrnpsn 01-01-2012 10:02 AM

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Well if my hands and feet getback to normal, go on my daily walks . Live life to the fullest, enjoy family and friends. Travel a lot, Jeanette

karen z 01-01-2012 04:44 PM

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Hi. The daily walks sound wonderful. And so do the rest of your plans!
karen z

tricia keegan 01-02-2012 01:42 PM

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I began my New Year resolution to finally quit smoking a week earlier than usual, hubby and I are now a full week off cigs and I feel so much better on my daily walks and swimming I can't imagine ever not being a non smoker:)

jml 01-02-2012 03:29 PM

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1) clean up my diet - been too lenient with yummy treats & desserts, not to mention all that sugar just isn't good for me/anyone!
2) walk my dog regularly & get some scheduled, structured exercise in

Karen - I know of a GREAT Pilates studio to help you get going on your resolutions! Seriously, let me be a part of your success;)
TriciaK - Bravo to you & your husband. One full week off cigs is just the beginning of the rest of your life!

Keep the Faith~

Jml

notamrnpsn 01-02-2012 04:02 PM

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Way to got Tricia. I was a smoker for many years. I really did not have a problem quitting either. The price of them now is outragious, don't know how people can afford them. I know of one young man who lives in Scotland and he takes holidays in Spain and stocks up over there. He says they are a lot cheaper too. Keep up the good work, Jeanette

karen z 01-02-2012 04:15 PM

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Tricia,
Keep going girl- do not go back!
karen z

karen z 01-02-2012 04:16 PM

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o.k., Jessica,
You KNOW I need this and you KNOW I will not be too great at the beginning. Give me the name and address (here or in a private message). How you doing well ! ! ! ! I so miss everyone from San Antonio.

karen z 01-02-2012 04:18 PM

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Oh boy,
Does anyone besides me feel like it is going to take a village??
k

sassy 01-02-2012 06:51 PM

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I'm rooting for Karen!! Gonna see if I can live vicariously on your success!! That way its easier for me!HAHA

CoolBreeze 01-02-2012 07:26 PM

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Organize all my photos. My oldest son is 25 and I still have them in various boxes, unorganized, scattered in closets and under the bed, etc.

Scrapbook them. I know I won't finish them all this year but I'd like to do a couple. I am a very artistic scrapbooker and each page takes forever and costs a fortune, so my goal is to get them in albums and worry about the art later.

I start tomorrow with my trip to Hawaii back in '08. I am starting there because I have all the photos in one place. Almost all, anyway. ;)

I am going to spend an hour tomorrow digging through a plastic bin of photos and trying to sort them somehow. Since they can't be chronological (no dates on them) I'll just do generic. Child #1, baby. Child #2, baby. Child #1, Shool years. Holidays. Vacations. etc., best I can.

I also need to decide if I am going back to work or not. And, I need to gain ten pounds. :)

What it will take is not procrastinating and overthinking it and being an overacheiver. Simple is OKAY!!!!

rinaina 01-02-2012 07:54 PM

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Work out more regularly and pay it forward,(helping others diagnosed locally with breast cancer).

karen z 01-02-2012 08:39 PM

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Oh Rhonda, lets just try together. That way it will be half as difficult (at least I think so, I was never a math person).

karen z 01-02-2012 08:41 PM

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Cool Breeze,
Yes, one thing at a time: "First things first".

karen z 01-02-2012 08:42 PM

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Rina,
Sound like good plans!
I like your pay it forward.

tricia keegan 01-03-2012 01:19 PM

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Thanks ladies and wish we had had the courage to do it a long time ago but better late than never:)

Good luck to Karen and everyone on their new resolutions!!

Henny 01-03-2012 03:17 PM

Re: New year's resolutions (2012)
 
I'm starting with one week off all refined sugar-I love/hate all those cookise I gobbled during the holidays
And then it's back to the whole grain mostly veggie diet!

karen z 01-03-2012 04:30 PM

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Tricia,
You are so right. Always better late than never!
k

alicem 01-03-2012 08:48 PM

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Okay Rhonda and Karen, I'm in. Time to schedule my exercise time. Am I too late to join you guys???

karen z 01-03-2012 08:56 PM

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Hi Alice,
What a great picture ! ! !
No, you are right on time. Welcome aboard!!!!
karen

sassy 01-06-2012 10:00 PM

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OK--looks like we need to make a pact. Can we help each other along this road with a reunion of our "lesser" selves next year?

I can't seem to make any headway alone!

alicem 01-06-2012 10:49 PM

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Thanks Karen!

Yes, Rhonda, I think a pact will definitely help me. For me, I need to just get moving - something like 30 minutes a day or 3 - 4 times a week, an hour each day. My daughter - granted she is is 26, lost 30 pounds in 6 months last year just by walking an hour a day.

I plan on looking at it 5 pounds at a time. Much more doable that way!

~alice

karen z 01-06-2012 10:52 PM

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Rhonda,
I think your idea is very good. I too am struggling. I think part of my problem (o.k., I am just saying part) is that I am recovering from a nightmare of a cold (extremely congested, coughing badly- especially in cold air, etc.) but I realize that my resolution is going to be difficult for me (yet I feel I must be determined and not give up now). I think a bigger problem in my case is that I need to lose weight and have been depressed lately and these two factors are making each other worse. I will definitely sign a pact with you (and others) to meet next year with our "lesser" selves. Let me know if you want/need other subgoals along the way as I will now sign anything put in front of me. My daughter's volleyball coach is willing to meet with me next week to try and figure out a regimen that will help. I have told her "yes.......please".
Know that I am there with you.
K

karen z 01-06-2012 10:59 PM

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Alice and Rhonda
I think a definite goal per week is good. A while back (not that long ago) I simply tried to increase my steps per day (wore a pedometer for a couple of months non stop) and it was remarkable. The weight did come off. When I quit wearing the pedometer each and every day (and having specific goals with that) I promptly put the weight back on. So, I KNOW that moving works. o.k., I am going to think about what my weekly walking goal will be to start and get back to you guys tomorrow. o.k., three in the pact so far and we definitely need to meet up.

sassy 01-07-2012 01:32 PM

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I was doing well and had lost some weight last spring, then had a bad case of bronchitis early summer that literally took the wind out of me. Then started exemestane and had the hip issue, so I kept going down hill. Now I'm back at my heaviest weight (haven't surpassed it yet!) and just walking up the stairs gets me winded.

The hip issue is mostly resolved so I have no good excuse! (Notice I say "good". I can always seem to find an excuse!)

Help me with a goal/daily or weekly workout. We have a treadmill-outside walking isn't always possible for me here now. I need to be accountable to someone. I'll sign a pledge too!

karen z 01-07-2012 01:54 PM

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Rhonda,
I, too, am at my heaviest weight ever (and haven't surpassed) so we are in the same boat- but we have oars !! o.k., still thinking about subgoals (like Alice's idea of focusing on 5 pounds at a time). As I continue to think (sorry to be slow- need to get both of my syllabi done by tomorrow) I wanted to send along the info below about what I believe may be one of the greatest pedometers I have seen. It is easy to "set up" (has gotten near ceiling ratings from thousands of users), records all steps (as well as brisk steps), and resets at midnight. It also "stores" the last 7 days of information in case you forgot to chart your progress the day or two before. I bought mine at REI but it can be purchased through Amazon (in either case a little less than $20):
Omron HJ-112 Digital Pocket Pedometer
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karen z 01-08-2012 03:20 PM

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Hi Rhonda and Alice,
From things I have been reading I think Alice's comments about just starting to move are "right on" but the "specifics" of an exact plan may vary among the three of us (we are unlikely starting at the exact same place and have different aches/pains perhaps). But, all programs I am looking at from Mayo/NIH, etc. stress just starting to move and working one's way up gradually. So, for example, one of us (I am thinking me) might have this schedule the first four weeks (starting this week):
Week 1 (4 days/30 minutes each day- note this could be 15 min plus 15 minutes according to everything I am reading- in other words- we must just do what we can do each time).
Week 2 (4 days/35 minutes each day)
Week 3 (5 days/40 minutes each day)
Week 4 (5 days/45 minutes each day).
Note that for this plan these times would be the minimum times you might "pledge" and you could always do more if you felt like it and felt able.
I think it would be good if we start this week and report back to each other on our progress re "is this doable" for us (and what we need to adjust). For example, perhaps the first week my back starts killing me at 20 minutes. If so, I might move to a similar plan but with 20, 25, 30, 35 minutes a session). I don't think we can set the first week in "stone" as we may be able to do less or more than we are now believe. But I think there might be benefit to laying out a four week plan, adjusting, and reporting back to each other weekly on whether we are moving (and, of course, signing a pledge after week 1- I will send private messages about how we might do that). I think my ultimate goal would be to be walking 5 hours a week. That is what I aspire to if possible. At some point, perhaps fairly soon, I would also like to begin to do at least some exercises for my arms/perhaps other areas that are not "attacked" as much by walking. But other than my arms to start and maybe some simple stretching and flexibility exercises, I am going to start with the walking program. I hope this helps. Please let me know (here or in pm) what you think!! I think we can do this!!!!!!!!!!!

karen z 01-08-2012 03:31 PM

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Oh boy, that last post was long.
One more thing.
Everyone: Please wish us luck. We need to do this.

sassy 01-08-2012 03:43 PM

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I'm all in. Time for change.

I know Alice is probably farther along this road--her biking stands her in good stead.

Everybody wish us luck-----

AND HOLD ME ACCOUNTABLE!!!!!

karen z 01-11-2012 05:39 AM

Re: New year's resolutions (2012)
 
Anyone who has starting a fitness program as a resolution should check out Harrie's new thread called the "single best thing to do for your health". You will see a very informative (and cute) video there. karen


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