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MGordon 12-16-2006 10:07 PM

Light a candle for Lisa tonight
 
Angels -

News is not good in Colorado right now. After an absolutely terrible night spent with the home hospice nurse, this morning we had to move Lisa into in-patient hospice. In short, her bowels, intestines, and stomach have all stopped functioning and we are left with only alleviating her pain and misery. As I type Lisa is getting the first real sleep she has had in several days/nights - all in a super-dosed morphine induced haze.

The doctor has given us a prognosis of "days" and we are gathering friends and family to the hospice center. We can no longer provide her with any food/drink as anything that goes into the stomach worsens her condition.

Please light a candle for Lisa and remember her courage and love. Carry on her fight! She loves all of you and would be typing to you all now if she were able.

I wlll to my best to keep you all posted but my greif comes in waves and I am so numb I cannot promise much.

Love and Light
Mel

suzan w 12-16-2006 10:11 PM

so sorry to hear this, Mel. I have lit a special candle for you both.

Lolly 12-16-2006 10:27 PM

Oh Mel and Lisa, I'm in tears reading your missive. Words are inadequate to express my feelings, but you are both in my prayers tonight.
Love and Light.

<3 Lolly

Chelee 12-16-2006 10:32 PM

Mel, Finding the right words at a time like this is so difficult, if not impossible. I just want you to know how truly sorry I am to hear this. I can't even imagine what Lisa and you are all going through right now. This just breaks my heart to hear such news.

I will certainly have you all in my thoughts and prayers.

Chelee

Bev 12-16-2006 10:32 PM

Candle is lit. So sorry. I'm having a hard time with words. Don't worry about posting for us. Do what you need to do. Bev

tousled1 12-16-2006 10:54 PM

Mel,

I don't know what to say but rest assured Lisa will be in my prayers. I can only imagine the pain and anguish that you and the family are now enduring. I will pray for a miracle.

StephN 12-16-2006 10:55 PM

Power outage
 
Mel -
We are experiencing a long power outage and the oil lamps and candles have been lit since you first posted about Lisa. I have been calling them "Lisa's lights."
I am now at my sister's where they have power, but left one lit when we left our house. I had hope for Lisa.

This is undoubtedly the worst time in your life, and we appreciate a few moments to let us know what has happened.

Sending you both all the love and light we can muster.

Tom 12-17-2006 02:06 AM

God bless you Mel for the boundless love and caring of your dear Lisa. I pray that He will give you both strength as you walk this difficult path together. Remind her how much we here all love her.

Sincerely,
Tom











lili7 12-17-2006 02:12 AM

Lisa
 
So sorry to hear the news. Will lit the candle and think of Lisa, you and the whole family. Love and eternal peace.

chrislmelb 12-17-2006 02:27 AM

Mel and Lisa, thinking of you in this hard time.

Christine

RhondaH 12-17-2006 02:56 AM

Mel...
 
nothing I say could take away your grief so I won't even try. Lisa has been such a GREAT source of support and love to many (she has ALWAYS held a special place in my heart). My prayers will continue with her, you and your family and friends. Take care and God bless.

Rhonda

tricia keegan 12-17-2006 03:07 AM

Done!
...And I'm so sorry to hear this news.
I pray Lisa will be comfortable and free of pain.
Thinking of you both at this sad time.
Tricia

Merridith 12-17-2006 03:42 AM

My candle is lit. Our house is now full of of light and love.

My condolences to you Mel.

Merridith

lightsteve 12-17-2006 06:54 AM

Our thoughts are with Lisa, family and friends. Candles are burning.

Steve and Sarah

Kimberly Lewis 12-17-2006 07:57 AM

I am joining in with everyone here as we lift you up.... Thanks to you both for being such a wonderful supportive part of this site.
candle is lit here in NC...kim

saleboat 12-17-2006 08:05 AM

I'm heartbroken to hear all that Lisa and you are enduring. I'm lighting a candle for Lisa, and wishing the both of you some peace and comfort.

Jen

Mary Anne in TX 12-17-2006 08:06 AM

Mel, your courage is amazing to me. I light my candle to you both with love and light, as much as I have in me. May God bless your faithfulness and may He come for Lisa in His perfect timing. May the angels surround you with love and strength. Thank you for being you.

kimber 12-17-2006 08:17 AM

Candle is lit. I pray that her suffering will end. She deserves peace now. My heart is breaking. No one deserves this kind of suffering. We have to continue the fight to find a cure.

God bless you Mel. - kim

PatS 12-17-2006 08:30 AM

I'm so sorry to hear this news....wishing comfort and peace to Lisa and her family.

Candle has been lit...

http://www.gratefulness.org/candles/enter.cfm?l=eng

janet/FL 12-17-2006 08:51 AM

Mel
Lisa has always been an inspiration to me. The two of you still are. May she go peacefully knowing how much she was loved by those left behind.
I will light a candle.
Janet

Audrey 12-17-2006 08:54 AM

Mel, I am so sad and sorry to hear this latest news about our dear Lisa...Candles are lit for both of you. I hope she can feel all the love being sent her way right now.

Joy 12-17-2006 09:10 AM

don't know what to say...
 
that hasn't already been said. My heart is heavy and my stomach aches for you both. My prayers are strong, but my sorrow for you and for Lisa is so great. Thank you for thinking of us and, yes, please remind Lisa of how very loved she is.

newgg 12-17-2006 09:36 AM

Together
 
Thank goodness that Brave and Strong and Warrior Lisa has you.....Brave and Strong and Warrior Mel by her side. We share your sorrow and send you both love and strength. For you and all your family and friends.....peace, love and {{{{{{ HUGS }}}}}}. Bonnie

IRENE FROM TAMPA 12-17-2006 10:26 AM

My candles are lit and my prayers are strong....
 
Mel, I do not even know what to say to you at this time but that I think so much of Lisa, even only knowing her through this web site.

Her smile remains in my memories always.

I wish her peace....

Heart Sutra 12-17-2006 10:28 AM

Mel,

We'll light the candle, with the hope that peace of mind, and of heart, finds a place with you and your family, and especially with Lisa. There are no words, and everything falls short. Our thoughts are with you, and if there is ever a way for love to be sent, it is being done now by many for you, for Lisa.

Thank you for being here, it makes all the difference.

---Kevin and Sue---

Karen W 12-17-2006 11:08 AM

Love and healing prayers being sent to both of you.

Karen

gin-tx 12-17-2006 11:28 AM

Light a candle
 
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this difficult time.
ginkott1@aol.com

sassy 12-17-2006 11:41 AM

Mel and Lisa,

May you be filled with the light of love....
And may God hold you in the palm of his hand.....

Lisa is a special inspiration to me.
Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers,
________
buy condo Pattaya

Julie 12-17-2006 01:16 PM

my prayers to you both for strength and courage to face what comes, and for freedom from pain. My heart aches for you.

Soccermom 12-17-2006 01:56 PM

Mel, please add my prayers to the chorus of "love and light" being sent across the miles.
I am so terribly saddened...

Marcia

Liz J. 12-17-2006 02:33 PM

Thoughts and prayers
 
Dear Mel,

I am sending along thoughts and prayers at this time. May God give you the strength you need to bear this.

Sincerely,

Liz J.

rinaina 12-17-2006 03:29 PM

It is with a very heavy heart that I light this candle for Lisa and as I do I pray for her peaceful comfort at this time. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this most difficult time. Let her know the love and support we all feel for her. I am so sorry.

Yorkiegirl 12-17-2006 03:33 PM

Sending Prayers and Love
 
Mel my hearts hurts so badly for you during this difficult time for both you and Lisa. Please know that you both have my prayers being sent to you.

(((((((((((((((((( HUG'S))))))))))))))

Montana 12-17-2006 04:15 PM

Sending good and restful thoughts Lisa's way tonight.

R.B. 12-17-2006 04:44 PM

Mines been lit.

So hard to find any words


RB

SusanV 12-17-2006 05:42 PM

Mel,


I have lit a candle in Pittsburgh for you & Lisa.....I cannot find the right words to type, but know that my heart aches for you both.

Love to you

Ruth 12-17-2006 06:58 PM

Mel ~ words are not adequate at a time like this but she will always hold a special place in so many hearts & minds. She will always be remembered as a beautiful and courageous soul that gave herself to so many others. I enjoyed coming back to this website for 3 years and reading her thoughtful, funny and generous insights into the life we live in....this special bond that holds us together & makes none of us strangers.

Peace, Ruth

Vanessa 12-17-2006 10:01 PM

I agree that it is so hard to know what to say. My thoughts and prayers are with you Lisa and the rest of your family. I am deeply saddened by Lisa's condition. I am praying for the best.

lindaw 12-18-2006 12:08 AM

Dear Mel

I am so sad from this news. As you can see Lisa is so loved on this board.I have no words .Lisa is so lucky to have your support.

love
linda

rosie 12-18-2006 02:05 AM

Candles have been lit. While my heart grieves for both of you, it is at least a small measure of peace that Lisa is at last sleeping and more comfortable. You have been a wonderful partner in all of this and I know how very hard you have worked, Mel. God bless you for the love and loyalty showed this first class lady. I will truly miss her warmth and wisdom on the board.


Rose


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