My situation was similar to Mary Jo's in that at my diagnosis I was told that my other breast had "suspicious" areas that would need biopsy, further evaluation etc. And, even if negative, would require close monitoring. I had the sense I would always be waiting for the other shoe to drop. My surgeon said she is usually more conservative but understood why I wanted to have both sides done. I am in my 60s and did not want to experience additional surgical proceedures so have opted for no reconstruction. I am fine with that.

Hi again Celeste! I can see you are a warrior indeed! I replied to your earlier post before I saw this one, so will just add that I think the bilateral is the wisest choice. The onc thought I shouldn't because my left breast looked healthy, but precancerous calcification was found in the left breast tissue after the surgery. I don't know of anyone who did just the one breast and then found BC later and had to go through it all again, but I am sure there are some and it would be harder, I think, to have to go through it twice. So we will all be thinking of you and praying for you on the 28th instead of the 21st. You are brave and strong and you will do fine! Again, God bless you and keep us informed. Hugs, TriciaK

I am glad you have decided on double. I was at the same cross roads last year and decided to go for double even though I only had cancer on the left side. I have two little ones and I just did not want to takes any chances. I have no regrets! Love the freedom that comes with it! :)