My wife has passed away

[alexandra1]

My wife alexandra has passed away today. All of you women are very brave. My wife was very brave and never complained. I would like to thank all of you for giving me the answers that I needed answered which helped keep my wife alive for over 2 1/2 years. I would like to give special thanks to A few people. Rolepaul who at one point was my mentor. Thank you for your private messages I wish Nina all the best and you are a great caretaker. You gave me the drive and knowlege I needed. Lani your abstracts and data that I always read kept me on the cutting edge of technology. NeDenise your the best. You made my wife and I look at breast cancer and laugh with your jokes on you know your a breast Cancer survivor when....... Keep on smiling and always be positive Thank you Marviss for your input. All of you women I commend and I know God shall follow you every step of your lives. This is Alexandra1 signing off. Love you all and thank you.

[IrvineFriend]

I'm so very sorry for your loss. I hope you have support to help guide you through the next few months. You're in my thoughts and prayers.

-Julie

[Mandamoo]

I am so sorry for your loss. I am pleased you found support here.
I hope that with time, your memories give you joy.
How wonderful that your wife had your support.

[Redwolf8812]

I'm sorry for your loss. I pray for your comfort in your emotional healing. It's obvious you love her so much. You are definitely one of the good guys. Hang in there.

- Penny

[Ellie F]

So sorry for your loss. May you get comfort at this difficult time. My thoughts are with you.
Ellie x

[NEDenise]

Oh...I am so sorry to read about the loss of your beautiful wife. The pain right now must be unbearable. She was certainly a lucky woman to have such a devoted husband, friend, and care-giver. And it's clear that you have always felt fortunate to have her in your life too! I'm confident that the love you shared...and all your happy memories will soon help you smile through your tears.

I am so glad that you and Alexandra found laughter here. I wouldn't trade chemo, radiation...etc...as first line treatments. But, there's no doubt that laughter is good medicine too!

You and your family are in my prayers as you heal...
Denise

[suzan w]

I am so sorry to read of your loss. Yesterday I lost a dear friend, Judy, from California, to breast cancer. Alexandra has met a great new friend!!!Judy was a 30 year survivor who fought each recurrence with a vengeance. She has written several books on her experience and has mentored many fellow survivors, myself included. One of her last deeds here on earth was to officiate at the wedding of her step daughter 3 weeks ago.
As your grief plays out, remember the courage shared on this site. Thank you and Peace.

[sarah]

I am so sorry to hear this news. This is such an awful disease.
Take care of yourself.
A big cyber hug
love sarah

[SusanN]

Know that I am already lifting you up in prayer for strength, peace and healing in the days ahead!!

[Mtngrl]

I'm so sorry. I'm glad you and Alexandra found it helpful to belong to this community. I agree with all the kudos you gave to the particularly helpful members.

I hope you remember to take care of yourself during your grieving process. It is a process, with a beginning, a middle, and an end. Don't rush it, but don't despair. You will never get over the loss, but you will learn to live with it. And I firmly believe that love never really dies.

[Adriana Mangus]

I'm sorry to hear your wife has passed away.

Glad to hear you found the support through this website to help you navigate the sometimes complicated system of dealing with doctors and learning all cancer terminology.

You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Love,

Adriana

[tricia keegan]

I'm so very sorry for your loss:( xx

[Ceesun]

I am so sorry for your loss, I know that this disease is so very difficult for spouses and significant others...please do take care of yourself. Ceesun

[evergreen]

The way you cared about and for your wife will turn out to be a gift, as you keep her in memory and your heart....

[KsGal]

Im so sorry to hear the sad news. May God bless you and bring you comfort and peace.

[Bunty]

My heart goes to you and your loved ones at this very sad time. I will remember you and Alexandra in my prayers.

[Pamelamary]

So sorry to hear of your loss - may peace come to you and your loved ones.... Pam

[Laurel]

Thank you for your kind words regarding the many who populate this wonderful support group. Bless you and please be good to yourself as you navigate the grief process. You both fought the good fight.

[sassy]

My thoughts and prayers are with you.

[ElaineM]

I am so sorry for you and your family. Thanks for sharing with us for 2 1/2 years.

[Jackie07]

So sorry for your loss.

[conomyself]

I am very sorry about your loss. I'm glad she had your support...love and prayers to you.

Rachael

[Rolepaul]

This is the type of situation that causes me to get angry that the industry is not doing more to help patients like your wife. I am sorry that there was such a reluctance by your wife's medical team to try the things I suggested. My thoughts are with you and your family. I know this inspires me to work harder on getting help for others.