Have to share this

[Jackie07]

http://www.purposefairy.com/3308/15-things-you-should-give-up-in-order-to-be-happy/

[NanaJoni]

Jackie - I love this...and I'm up to maybe 12 of them (having trouble with giving up control, fear (only very occasionally now) and the past. But for me the past is made up of my memories of loved ones lost, happy times, wonderful friends, etc. - nice thing about "chemo brain" - it's easy to not remember the bad stuff. Thanks for posting.

[Jackie07]

Thanks for the feedback. I like all of them except I'm not 'giving up complaining'! :)

[I'm a strong believer in the healthy aspect of 'venting'. People need to be able to 'complain' when they 'couldn't help it'. There's no use suppressing/hiding our feelings. It'll be much worse to wait till the problem/feeling eventually 'explodes'.]