~Mighty Oak Has Earned His Wings And Halo...

[Believe51]

My Mighty Oak just passed at 1:25 on October 16, 2009. I write in my fighting color because although an end to his body, his soul and mine will continue to fight breast cancer.

I thank you all for joining us on this horrific journey, for sharing your love and education. We could have never done this without you all. I know I am already forgiven for my abscence from my family for the time to come.

I will post funeral plans as I know some have inquired. I am so relieved for him, his fight has been anything but simple. For the lives I am about to save and prolong at work in the cancer foundation, I do it in his honor....in all of your honors, for the memories of those we have loved and lost.

Please accept a special thank you for the newbies and quiet family that have stepped to the plate to let their voice be heard at the times I have needed it the most. For the outpour of help and offers of rides....for loving me through the worst moments of my life. I love you all!

Thank you Ed, for teaching me things even moments before your death. I will be alright until we meet again and that all comes from loving you! I will continue to make you proud! I love you forever!
Marie...aka Believe51!!!

[hutchibk]

My heart is just shredded and broken, but the minute I read this I got a vibration through my body, and I know our newest angel has already started his new job... he let me know.

Marie, all the love in the world. Prayers, comfort and peace through the next few days, weeks, months... your Mighty Oak is standing tall and protective over us all, especially you.

Today is my dear big brother's birthday, and I know that Ed is going to a fantastic party today... I know you know that it's a good one. My brother will make sure they say a toast to us. My bro was a mighty oak as well... standing 6'10" tall. He too was my protector and I know he is always keeping a good eye on us.

[sarah]

Our deepest sympathies.
big hugs and love
sarah

[mcgle]

Though not a religious person, I send my send my sincere condolences for your loss. Ed's suffering is now over, Marie, and I wish you well for the future.

Mcgle (UK)

[Karen W]

Marie, I am so sorry to hear about Ed. He knew he was loved and he loved you back. Both of you hold a special place in my heart and will never be forgotten.

Sending Strength, hugs and healing prayers.

Karen

[RhondaH]

Marie:( My thoughts already on FB and again, HUGE HUGS from me...

[tricia keegan]

Marie, I saw your sad news on FB where I replied also.
I'm so sorry..there are no words to express my sympathy and sadness. xxx

[Brenda_D]

So sorry to hear. You are both in my prayers

[michka]

Marie, I send you love and hugs to help you find peace. I have tears in my eyes because Ed and you fought with all the love you had for one another. The way you write all your posts is exceptional and translates what a fine person you are. I understand all the feelings you have and admire the way Ed and you went through these terrible months. Marie, we love you here. I hate this sickness. Michka

[Mary Anne in TX]

Marie's & Ed's struggles, triumphs, and never-ending efforts have already blessed so many. I too believe that his arrival must have brought great celebration above! For your tasks at hand, I offer my love and prayers. You're one terrific lady.
Much love to you Mighty Marie as you begin your new journey.
ma

[christie]

Dearest Marie,

I have always admired you and Ed, the loving relationship you both shared and the way you supported each other encouraged me a lot. Praying for you , for strength at this difficult time. But as believers we dont have to feel sad because you will surely meet Ed once again. God bless you Marie

[DanaRT]

Dearest Marie,

My deepest condolences.

You are a brave strong woman.

Love,
Dana

[Savta]

Marie,
My thoughts and prayers are with you in these difficult hours. Ed's strength and courage was a beacon to all of us that followed you on your journey.
May the love and memories of better times support you in the days to come.
And know we will never forget either of you.

[Pam P]

Marie - I've been checking in every day expecting to see this news, knowing it was coming, but so dreading to see it. Today reading your message I am filled with peace - a sad peace. Your fight - Ed's fight was horrific yet couragous and your including us in it on this site gave me such a model of grace, love and perserverence. I thank you both for that and for the continued fight and advocacy you will do to fight this disease. My sympathy to you, dear brave, gracious, and compassionate Marie. I know you will have and feel Ed's spirit walking with you in the days ahead. Pam

[nitewind]

Marie, I don't know what to say. You've allowed us to be part of your lives and all your triumphs, challenges and a part of seeing real devotion and love.
I cried when I opened this thread earlier this morning and I had to come back to it. Your wonderful Ed is no longer in pain and suffering so badly. He, and you, fought a good fight.
You are a true warrior and you have all of our respect and love. Stay strong, sweetie, we love you so much.
sue

[lisajones4]

Marie - I am so so sorry for your loss. I was so inspired by your love for Ed and the continued strength and fight you both have showed through this journey. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. We love you.

Lisa

[Becky]

For Marie

When I pass to my reward.
Whatever that may be,
I'd like my friends to think of me
As one who loved a tree.

I may not have a statesman's poise
Nor thrill a throng with speech
But I may benefit mankind
If I set out a beech.
If I transport a sapling oak
To rear its mighty head
Twill make for them a childhood shrine,
That will not soon decay.
Of if I plant a tree with fruit,
On which the birds may feed,
Then I have fostered feathered friends
And that's a worthy deed.
For winter when the days grow short
And spirits may run low
I'd plant a pine upon the scape
T'would lend a cheery glow.
I'd like a tree to mark the spot
Where I am laid to rest
For that would be the epitaph
That I would like the best. Tho it's not carved upon a stone
For those who come to see
But friends would know that resting there
Is he, who loved a tree
-- Samuel N. Baxter

[MJo]

You must be exhausted. Please take good care of yourself. God bless Ed.

[Sheila]

Marie
Thank you for sharing your precious Ed with all of us over the past couple years, your strength, and committment are such an inspiration
Yet another angel watching over us from above~~~

[Yorkiegirl]

Marie my heart is just breaking for you. My prayers go out to you during this most difficult time.

Ed has his wings and will certainly be watching over you always.

sending many hug's to you.

[loveher]

Marie,
I'm so sorry to hear but so relieved that our loved ones are now free from suffering. Thank you for sharing your life with us. You and Ed really are an inspiration to me. I will never forget your fiesty posts.
My thoughts are with you at this difficult time.
love,
Sue

[Ceesun]

Marie, My heartfelt sympathy to you and your family. You are a shining example of what a true caregiver is...as well as a true soulmate. Your Mighty Oak is at peace now and as the seasons change, he will be with you always. May God keep you close. Ceesun

[mts]

Marie,

Despite your unrequested participation, both Ed and you have contributed so much to the lives and fights we all face in this thing called breast cancer.
I am very grateful to have been allowed to witness such love and dedication.

My best to you and your family-

Maria

[Hopeful]

Marie,

I am so very sorry for your loss. I hope that your memories of Ed will comfort you in this difficult time. You will be in my thoughts.

Hopeful

[Colleens_Husband]

Marie:

My heartfelt sympathy goes out to you and your family. The Mighty Oak was a strong and true warrior and I know that will help him on his continuing journey.

Marie, you have been a super caregiver and Ed was so lucky to have you by his side. Please take excellent care of yourself and treat yourself kindly and compassionately. These are difficult times for you but I want you to know you are not alone. You and Ed will always be in our hearts and minds.

Lee

[schoolteacher]

Marie,

This is the first chance I have had to check in this morning. Please try to rest. My heart aches for you. Call you later.

Amelia

[Montana]

Marie,

I'm so sorry to see the news about Ed. What a strong and loving wife you've been to him.

Sue

[alicem]

Marie,

The world feels different to me this morning . . . just like it did when I lost my mom and then my dad. Everyone around me is going through their routine at work, school or home. But for me - this will be a day of mourning and a day of reflection. You and your wonderful Ed have touched me in ways you will never know. I have gained strength through your courage & I have gained knowledge through your wisdom.

Do you realize what you have done by sharing his story with us on this board? Your Mighty Oak has planted acorns in all of us. All across the U.S. and indeed the world, we have the seed of his memory planted deep within us and we will not let it go. I thank you for that, you have given us such a great gift.

Take care of yourself as you travel down this road not wanted. Some days will be rough and some will be better. You will see that time will be a gift, but it does take "time". You know we love you, you know I LOVE YOU. The mom in me wants to take away your hurt because I know it runs very deep - because you love Ed so deeply. But I can't. You have been brave for so long, but remember it is okay to not be brave for awhile.

You are in my prayers, as you have been since we spoke this summer. Finally, remember that even though it might feel like it - you are NOT alone.

With deepest sympathy,

Alice Larson Mueller

[duga35]

Marie, I'm so sorry that Ed lost his battle with this damn cancer. I've been dreading reading this but like you, I'm telling myself that he is finally free from it. I don't know what else to say other than my heart goes out to you and Ed......

[Tom]

My Dearest Marie,

I am so, so sorry for your loss, yet relieved for Ed. Although he and I will not be able to exchange birthday cards next month, he has been born again into the Kingdom of our Creator, and will patiently await you in paradise.

Godspeed dear Ed, as you embark on the most magnificent journey there is to experience. I regret having never met you, but feel as though I know you well. God bless you Marie for all you did for Ed and for all of us.

Dear Lord, please welcome our beloved Ed into Your waiting arms, and present him his just reward for fighting so long to keep the life that You gave him. Bless him and keep him until we shall all meet again on Your immortal shore.

[ammebarb]

((((Marie)))) Your HER2 family has said it all so eloquently....We love you and send our most sincere sympathy. Do your next work in tribute to Ed and for the good of us all. I wish you comfort and healing.

Barb A.

[Christine]

On behalf of Joe, myself, our Board of Directors and the entire HER2 Support Group Community, I wish to send our most heartfelt condolences to you and your family.

Hugs
Christine

[freyja]

I'm breathing a breath of relief for Ed as his spirit soars freely today. I have to tell you, my husband, son and I did our local Soroptimist Walk for Life last weekend, and I got a pink balloon with Ed's name on it to honor his journey (I'll send a picture soon, the balloon is still on my special alter at home). My six year old son and I talked about Ed. I told him that Ed fought cancer for a long time, and now the cancer is too big and he is going to be an angel now. At first my son's response was of course, he'll be o.k. won't he? I told him, well, he's going to be an angel, soon. Then, he accepted that and said, "maybe we can ask his wife where his grave is and we can go there and wish him good luck being an angel!" Wow, my heart fluttered and I said that was a great idea, and that we could wish him luck from right here with our hearts. He held on tight to that pink balloon and guarded it loyally until it was safe at home in its special place.
My family and I are there in spirit, and wish we could be there to hug you. Thank you for staying in touch with us.
Love, Celeste

[WomanofSteel]

Marie, Jen and I would like to extend our deepest sympathies to you. We know that Ed is at peace at last from his long, brave fight. We wish peace and comfort for you also in the fond and loving memories you have of your life together. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

[lexigirl]

Dear Marie,

Please accept my prayers and love. Your Ed was a warrior and a true fighter. You were a great voice for him during his fight. Thank you for being such a wonderful caregiver to Ed. I know that he could feel your love for him til the end. What more could one ask for.

Love,
Lexi

[Shobha]

Dear Marie,

I am so sorry for your loss. May Ed rest in peace with God. I pray for you to find peace.

love,
shobha

[chrisy]

Well, Sweet Marie

I've been holding my breath, along with you, for weeks. Thinking about what to say and knowing that no words are worthy, or necessary. You know you are gently but firmly wrapped in my love, and that you will go on. And that your Mighty Oak is now soaring, whole and complete and free from pain.

Very shortly after my mom died, I had a dream in which I was stuck in a large crowd moving through turnstiles - like into a concert or ball game. The crowd wasn't moving at all, it was stifling. My mom was standing on the railing separating the lines. No, she was actually dancing - doing a jig high above the rest of us. Joyful and free at last...

Much much love to you my sweet Marie.

[kari]

Dear Marie,

My deepest and most heartfelt sympathies are extended to you and yours. Praying you will find peace, strength and comfort in your faith and in the love of family and friends in the days ahead.

Blessings,
~Karen

[Margerie]

the Mighty Oak will live forever in your heart. Thank you for sharing your incredible love story with us. Big hugs and more hugs, chin up Marie so he can see your face.

[janieR]

Dear Marie,

You have been so strong for Ed with all your love and care that has shone out on this site.

Take care.

Sending love.

Janie

[Lien]

My dearest Marie,

I am relieved for Ed, and sad for you. I wish I could fly over and hold you in my arms and tell you it will be okay. He was a great man and his spirit will linger with us for a long time. Probably till you join him!

May his memory help you through the bad times, and inspire you in good times.

Hugs

Jacqueline

[ElaineM]

I want to say that I am so sorry for your loss. My sympathies go to you and Ed's family. The Mighty Oak is watching over all of us and providing shade for all cancer patients now. Ed's experience taught us alot about fighting cancer.
I want to add Ed to the "in loving memory" section of my website. I was just there starting to update it, but I am not finished, so I will add his name the next time I do more updating.
Please try to get a little rest before you go back to work and start fighting cancer on behalf of everyone. We can wait until you are well rested and ready to fight.

[jones7676]

Marie,

You have my heart felt sympathy....and your hubby my blessings.

Barb

[Rich66]

So lucky he was to have you fighting by his side.

[StephN]

Dearest Marie -
Accept my big cyberhug, and hold on to all of us who are here to lean on as long as you need.

Your precious Ed is in the big "cruise ship in the sky" and waiting till the time he can get you a coffee again. Until then his large spirit is alive in many sectors bringing knowledge and a will to fight to others who suffer from or treat such rare cancers.

Let your sails down for a bit and run with the current. May you content in the unconditional love you have known and still feel for a long time in the future.

[Ruth Ann]

May God be with you both. Thank you for all of your help and support. Your posts helped me make it through some of my bad days and I will be forever grateful. My heart goes out to you Marie, as I sit here typing... I do truly believe that one day you and Mighty Oak will be together forever. May God's angels comfort you and may God's love keep you at peace.
Ruth Ann

[CourtneyL]

My eyes are filled with tears for you Marie. It has been a long and difficult journey. And now it is time to grieve. And then it will be time to celebrate - celebrate the love you shared and celebrate the incredible life that was the Mighty Oak. And then, my dear, it will be time for you to rest. I can only imagine the utter exhaustion you have built up.

Know that you are and will continue to be in all of our hearts and prayers.

Unable are the loved to die. For love is immortality. ~Emily Dickinson

[Mary Jo]

Oh Marie...although I knew the day was fast approaching and I so wanted Ed's suffering to be over my heart aches all the same. I feel as if I have lost a friend.......you have made your Mighty Oak as real to those of us here that I almost felt I could reach out and touch him.

My sincere condolences sweet Marie for your loss. May God's comfort and peace hold you and surround you today and always.

Love......Mary Jo

[lkc Gumby]

Dearest Marie,
Words fail me. I am so sorry.
Love never dies...Take care of yourself

[Jackie07]

Marie,

Our deepest sympathy to you and your family.

Love,

J & M

[Patty F]

Marie
I am so sorry for your loss. I will continue to pray for you during this time. Please know that you and Ed are loved.

[whatz]

Dearest Marie,
Thinking of you in your time of loss and pray for comfort in this time of mourning and loss but rejoicing for Mighty Oak as there is no Breast Cancer in heaven!

[Bill]

Marie, I'm sorry for your loss. You and the Mighty Oak were so blessed to have each other.

[Cynthia]

Marie,

I am so very sorry. There are no words.

[Patb]

What more can be said? I join all the others offering
you my love. What a team you were. Please take
care of yourself and rest. Always
patb

[Barbara H.]

Hi Marie,
Thank you so much for sharing your journey together with Ed. Your thoughts and wisdom have meant so much to me. I have felt so sad for both of you over the past few months. Although I have not written much lately, the two of you have been constantly in my thoughts.
Please accept my sincere condolences.
Barbara H.

[Julie2]

Marie,

I am so sorry to hear the news. It is so depressing that still there is no cure. Please take care of yourself in these difficult days.

Julie

[naturaleigh]

Marie,

I am so sorry to hear this news. My heart and prayers are with you.

He was a very lucky man, you both lived life to the fullest and there is not doubt about how much he was loved by you.

Take good care of yourself, God bless you!!

[Faith in Him]

Dear Sweet Marie,

I wish I could give you a huge hug. I can't image the pain you are in right now. I too wish I could have met Ed in person. I read your posts when I was a newbie and from you both I learned to become strong and fight my own battle. Your love story reminded me of what is truly important in this life. Thank you for sharing Ed and yourself with all of us.

I pray that you have peace and rest over the next several months. Then, when your ready, you will be gearing up to take on cancer once again for Ed and the rest of us.

Although my heart is breaking, I am relieved for Ed and rejoicing that he has won victory over cancer . His transistion into eternal life was I'm sure a glorious one.

Love you,
Tonya

[sassy]

Marie,

There are no words to express the feeling of great sadness but also great joy that Ed's passing brings. Sadness that he has gone from us, and most especially from you, but joy that Ed's fight is over and he has earned the greatest reward.

My love to you,

[Chelee]

Dearest Marie, We all knew this day was coming but it just doesn't make it any easier. My heart really reaches out to you at such a difficult time. Oh how I wish I could give you a big hug in person. I felt like I knew Ed from all your postings...he was such a big part of our family & will truly be missed. This is so sad. I send my sincerest sympathies to you and your family. Please get some rest and know how much we all love you. God bless you...your in my continued thoughts and prayers.

Chelee

[caya]

Dear Sweet Marie,

Big hugs to you, so sorry for the loss of Ed.

all the best
caya

[Paty]

Dear Marie,

I have tears in my eyeas and a deep sorrow knowing that Ed has left us. Please continue here with us struggling for the cause. You are part of this family. All my love to you and a big big hug.

Paty

[flynny]

Maria, although the news was to be expected, I am so sad for you. This has been an extremely difficult year for you and I just want you to know how much I admire your strength and courage. I am sending you a huge hug as I know you will need lots of them to get you through this next phase! Xoxo

[Gerri]

Marie,

This is one of those times when words are not enough. May the love you shared with Ed sustain you through this difficult time. He will be with you always.

Take good care of yourself.

[karenfritzohare]

I post little, but read often.
I am so sorry for your loss.
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Karen

[Diane H]

Dear Marie,
My heart weeps with you.
May Ed's halo light your way until you meet again.
With love and wishes for peace,
Dian e

[Ora]

I am so saddened by your loss. My prayers are with you and God Bless.

[TriciaK]

Dear Marie, You have been in my thoughts and prayers for so long now, and will continue to be. I have checked the website everyday expecting this message about your dear Ed's passing, and yet dreading it. I am so sorry to read of it tonight. I have deep faith in a life beyond this, and I believe that you two will be together again. In the meantime, please take care of yourself as well as you have taken care of Ed. You have deeply touched our hearts. If you can, post now and then, for we will always love you and want to hear how you are doing. You are dearly loved. Hugs, TriciaK

[dchips1]

Marie I am sorry for your loss, but I am so Happy your Man walks in heavens and is swaying as happy as could be, watching over you.


All my Love, rest, recover



Darita

[Les]

Dear Marie, I am so sorry for your loss,you have been such a wonderful strong caregiver for Ed. Please take time now for yourself and get your strength back because you deserve it. Thank you and God Bless You

[Lori R]

Marie,
We have been so honored to be a small part of the amazing relationship you have with Ed. You and Ed will forever be an inspiration and example on how to love in a generous fashion.

I know that you will "do Ed proud", as you move forward with the fight against cancer.

I am sure that he will send you signs to affirm that he is watching over you.

Wishing you peace and calm .....Love ....Lori

[LAURIE]

Thank you so much Marie for sharing your thoughts and feelings with us. I am so sorry for your loss. Although I am small in stature my father always called me "small but mighty". I hope someday I am as mighty as you have been through this battle. May God Bless you, Ed and everyone.

[Mgarr]

Sending love your way during your time of loss

[CindyE]

Marie,
I type this with tears of sadness and joy. I am so sadden that Ed had to leave and go home to the Lord. I know it will be hard to continue without him. I will send up prayers of peace and comfort for you and the family as you deal with the loss of Ed. But I also have tears of joy... Joy that his suffering has ended and he truly has earned his wings. He is waiting now patiently for you to join him in glory when the time is right. God bless and (((hugs)))

[Jean]

Dear Marie,
Like many others I am sad to read your post. Please know I send prayers for continued strength.

It is always mixed emotions with the sadness of the loss and the knowledge that Ed is at peace and you will both
be together in the future.

You have been and continue to be a special sister to all of us. God Watch over you!

jean

[Colleen007]

I am so sorry for your loss, Marie. I will keep you in my thoughts in the days and weeks ahead.

Colleen

[Joan M]

Dearest Marie,

You and Ed are blessed to have found each other and shared so much. You are in my prayers for strength.

Joan

[Cannon]

Dear Marie,

You and Ed are an inspiration to me. You are so strong, so loving, so giving. You and Ed were blessed to be together in this life - and thank you for sharing your strength here with us.

Rebecca

[karen z]

Marie,
I am so sorry to hear your news. My heart and prayers are with you.
k

[harrie]

My dearest Marie,
My heart and love goes out to you with the passing of Ed. You have always been there for Ed and all of us here.
You have been through so much and your strength is much to be admired.
May Ed's love continue to enrich your life forever.
Maryanne

[Karen Wheel]

Marie - I just signed in - its Sunday for me in Italy - and it is strange that I was talking to Carlo last night in bed and he always asks about Ed --- and I was concerned as I hadn't heard from you and I knew it was close for Ed ....

I am relieved for him, and you that he is now at peace and out of the pain of this earthly body. What a great angel he will be. Don't be surprised if you see him from time to time... don't think you are crazy - it is really him. He will be your protector and your friend... we all need a mighty oak angel. I have had one for years (I lost at 25) so for 20 years, I have felt him close at those times I really felt I needed him the most .... and a few times I swear I saw him in the haze and saw him smile, or heard him laugh, with or for me....

A great book I love - might be a good one for you to read ... it helped me, years after my oak got his wings...

Only Love is Real, by Dr. Brian Weiss (or Wiess?) lovely book and makes you really understand that we will see our soul mates again....

I am crying with you, you are a dear friend already and I know we will be friends for a long time --- I am so looking forward to seeing you someday here in our paradise of Sardegna...

un abbraccio enorme e tanti baci (xoxoxoxo for us in English!)
Karen

[sally]

Marie, Your strength will get you through this tough time only to make you stronger in the end. I wish you all the best, you have been a big inspiration to me over the years. Sally

[mmoons]

Oh Marie...my heart breaks for you. Feel all the love coming your way from all over the globe.

Prayers for peace,
Maureen

['lizbeth]

Marie,

My sympathies to you on Ed's passing. I'm so sorry you had to endure this terrible loss. I'll be praying for you.

'lizbeth

[Ruth]

My deepest sympathies to you dear Marie and your family. Ed was a wonderful soul and he is waiting for you on the other side.
Much love and hugs ~ Ruth

[SuThorn]

Marie-

You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Take care of yourself.

Suzanne

[Laurel]

Love endures forever.....

[Rendi69CA]

Maria I am so sorry and my heart goes out to you. Love you and God bless.

[vickie h]

My Sweet Sister Marie,
I have stayed away for too long and now I came back to hear of Ed. My eyes are filled with tears and my heart with empathy and sadness. He was so blessed to have you as you were to have him all these years. You taught all of us to live with grace and spirit and truth. I love you dearly, my friend, and I was getting ready to call you yesterday when I fell ill.
I write this to you tonight to thank you for being in my life, to let you know how much you are loved and much Ed will be missed. I feel he is here holding my shoulder as I write, guiding me nearer the light that shines nearby. We will all see each other again someday...it is today we need to walk through, talk through, cry through.
I am overcome right now with so much emotion. I wish I was there with you to hold you and comfort you. I will call you when I stop crying.
I love you always,
Vickie

[Leslie304]

Marie, My deepest condolences. It's been quite a road you've been down and you both fought hard. Be good to yourself now. You need time to heal and adjust. Breathe..... bless you.
Leslie

[kimber]

God bless you Marie. He is at peace now. No more suffering. He is once again free. . . . . . May you find your smile again. You matter Marie. Your new journey is just beginning. Make him proud!

Love - Kim

[Terri B]

The Lord saw you getting tired
And a cure was not to be,
So He put his arms around you
And whispered, "Come with me."

With tearful eyes, we watched you suffer
And saw you fade away,
Although we loved you dearly,
We could not make you stay.

A golden heart stopped beating,
A beautiful smile at rest,
God broke our hearts to prove
He only takes the best.

It's lonesome here without you
We miss you so each day,
Our lives aren't the same
Since you went away.

When days are sad and lonely,
And everything goes wrong,
We seem to hear you whisper,
"Cheer up and carry on."

Each time we see your picture,
You seem to smile and say,
"Don't cry, I'm in God's keeping,
We'll meet again someday."
Rhonda Braswell (rhondabraswell@hotmail.com)
Marie, We love you dearly.

[BarbM]

So sorry for your loss and the loss of another to this terrible disease. You will be together again, I am sure of it..and, yes, he will be around you and yes, will appear from time to time in ways you would have never imagined. My father appeared to me after I was diagnosed....it was 31 years after his passing! I guess he felt that I really needed him...and I did!!!!
Bless you, Marie.
Love,
Barb

[Kim in DC]

Marie,
You can tell by the amount of posts that you and Ed are loved. I still have the card and pictures you sent me. You are such an inspiration to us all. I am praying that the day comes quickly when the pain is gone and you are left with beautiful memories of "Mighty Oak".

[Leslie's sister]

Oh Marie, your Mighty Oak is free now. Free from pain, free from fear, free from suffering. He is at Peace with our Lord. Thank you for showing us your courage & strength. May God bless you and comfort you Marie.

Lisa

[SoCalGal]

Sending you love and my deepest sympathy. Flori

"There are stars whose radiance is visible on Earth though they have long been extinct. There are people whose brilliance continues to light the world even though they are no longer among the living. These lights are particularly bright when the night is dark. They light the way for humankind." - Hannah Senesh

[Kim in CA]

Sending my heartfelt sympathy to you Marie. You and Ed have been the definition of strength and courage and a true inspiration to all. I will take comfort in knowing we have a Mighty Oak watching over all of us now.

Much Love, Kim

[Kavy]

Dear Marie,
I am so sorry and sad for Ed's passing. I have been away for a while because of computer problems, but Ed and you are always in my daily prayers, and I was still praying for his miracle. Now he is at peace, no more suffering, and he is free from this horrible disease.
Both of you were very blessed to have each other, and know that you were the best caregiver that Ed could have.
My deepest sympathy. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. God bless you all.
A big hug.
Love,
KarlaV.

[suzan w]

just logged on after travels...so sorry...so sad...xox suzan

[fauxgypsy]

Marie, you and Ed have been often in my thoughts. I was so sad to hear your news. I hope that you are okay.

Leslie

[Donna]

Ah Marie, such an amazing fight the two of you waged! A Mighty Oak indeed! Please take the time you need to recoup after this hard fought battle......I am so sorry. We are all here for you, but you know that.

Love, Donna

[Elke]

So sorry to hear of your loss Marie.

[Barbara2]

Oh gosh, Marie, I am just reading the post for the first time. I want to offer my most sincere condolances.

And now, no more suffering or pain for Ed, and blessed peace for you, knowing that he is finally at rest. You have a lot of love, support, and prayers coming to you from complete strangers. Bless you.

[micheleu]

I am so sorry! I will pray for comfort in this terrible time...

[Catherine]

Dear Marie,

Thinking of you and wishing you love and strength.

Hugs, Catherine

[Believe51]

I am beyonds words here. I thank you all so much for walking with us, for loving and guiding us through the hardest of all of lifes horrors. We could have never done this without you all. ,I thank the many of our quiet family how all stepped up to carry me when I needed you the most. For the offers to come from Boston, Conn, Newport, New York and New Jersey to give me rides. I just can go on and on. I love you so much!..........Marie

[Lien]

Dear Marie, It's good to hear from you. How have you been?

Hugs

Jacqueline

[Believe51]

Considering it all, remarkable and I try to be no hero here. I still hurt bad and the lonliness makes me want to scream. Been travelling and enjoying family and friends.

[Lien]

Glad to hear you are able to enjoy family and friends. I'm sure Ed is with you when you travel. But not having him there to point out something you notice, to comment on something must be exceptionally hard.

Hugs from across the ocean.

Jacqueline

[Ceesun]

Good to hear from you Marie. Tried to send a PM a few days ago but the box is full. xo Ceesun

[Janelle]

Marie,
I mostly lurk but I have followed Mighty Oak's and your journey. I'm so sorry for your loss and know how hard and bravely you both fought against this disease. You both contributed more good than you will know.

Janelle

[hermiracles]

Dear Marie, so sad to hear your news yet glad in a way too that Mighty Oak has found a release from his suffering. Sorry I only just read the news having been in and out of hospital myself. And as time goes on its good to see you back in the saddle again. Much love and blessings to you and Ed.
Blessings
Hermiracles