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John21
11-13-2008, 01:50 PM
Hi All,

Well, after 6 months of torment for my wife, we are are on the upswing. She has been battling effects from mets to the sacrum this year. Our previuos oncologist( yes he's gone!) did not take the care necessary as you all know we tend to be to faithful sometimes. His poor efforts to diagnose the problems and the pushing of more pain meds has caused my wife maybe irreputable damage to her right leg and foot. I think they see a stage IV patient and sometime do not go the extra effort. She has been living well for 5 years up to this point and for the most part stable. The mets in her back just starting impidging on her S! nerve(still trying to determine the exact locations.

Good News,

We found a new oncologist. She is great. She calls us back directly, responds to our emails in a day, and CARES! She diagnosed the name of the problem in two days. Cauda Equina SYndrome. We had radiation on the sacral area and the pain is going away, Kathy is in higher spirits, she is sleeping all night and overall better 1000%. The new onc has scheduled a slew of people to see from Neurologists( who think they might help with the foot drop paralysis), Bladder doctors and, new mris. IIn a matter of a couple weeks this has been accomplished. Oh, by the way, she also eliminated Carinoma Menigitis - Big news - good

Our new Oncologists is switching Kathy from maintenance Herceptin to Tykerb and Xoleda. Can anyone relate side effects for these. Today she is having headaches and a little dizziness.

Just to express my happiness!

John _ Husband and caregiver

Bill
11-13-2008, 02:01 PM
Hi John! Thanks for posting the good news! We need all we can get. I know quite a few of the ladies here have been on Tykerb and Xeloda at various times. I'm sure you will get plenty of responses and advice. I know they both can cause diarrhea, so that needs to be controlled constantly, and Xeloda dosages can be adjusted without having to stop it completely if there is a side-effect problem. Glad to hear about the good doctor!

Joan M
11-13-2008, 02:39 PM
John,

This is very good news about Kathy. I'm glad you've switched oncs, as this can really make a difference.

Joan

tricia keegan
11-13-2008, 03:46 PM
John, I can't help with your question but am glad Kathy finally has some answer's and an Onc she can trust.
It never fails to amaze me how there can be such a difference in care from one Dr to another.
I hope Kathy continue's to improve and the side effects are manageable. Thanks for the good news, badly needed this week!

chrisy
11-13-2008, 06:03 PM
Wow John, that is terrific news - and well past due. Thank goodness you finally found a doctor who was willing to look for answers!

ElaineM
11-13-2008, 09:34 PM
Congratulations !! I am glad your wife is on the road making progress again.

freyja
11-13-2008, 09:42 PM
Keep up the good work. Take charge and do what you need to do. Looking forward to the updated physician's guide Joe's working on!
Best wishes, Celeste

Jean
11-13-2008, 10:28 PM
John,
How wonderful, I am strongly agree in having second and even third opinions to make sure all is being done that can be done, I have also discovered that not all
onc. are on the cutting edge or have the experience we
expect.

Thank God you went the extra mile...so happy for you
and your wife, so glad she is out of pain.

Kind Regards,
jean

Chelee
11-14-2008, 12:35 AM
John, I am so glad to hear Kathy is doing so much better. It sounds like you have struck gold with this new oncologist...what a real blessing for you both. Thats so nice to know Kathy's pain has finally been taken care of...this oncologist is a real keeper! It's alot less stressful dealing with this daily when you know you have a doctor you can count on, & one that really cares. Keep us updated on her progress.

Chelee