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madubois63
07-09-2008, 07:06 AM
Hi all - It's time for an update. We took some big hits this past year, but think it it time to celebrate life and get together and EAT and laugh until our sides hurt. Some of us have had set backs and some of us are doing great. Time to stare...And I really miss Stephanie more that anyone can know!!!

Update on me: Last June/July my liver rejected my bone marrow transplant and I turned green with glowing yellow eyes. I had to have a horse serum treatment over two weeks in the hospital. And fortunately it worked (really my only option). My son graduated high school. I checked out of the hospital (all green), went to the graduation then checked right back in. No one was stopping me and they knew it!!! Things got better and I had a great some doing things I haven't done before. I walks in a field of sunflowers and walked across one of the Hudson Bridge with Steph. Went to Montauk and Eastern villages I haven't visited in ages with Liz and Carole. Come Fall, Theo (my BC onc) finds 2 new malignant lesions on my lung again. My lung is also filled up with fluid again, so the thoracic surgeon goes in drains over 4 liters of fluid (2 more weeks in the hospital), seals me up again with talc and sends me home. That was early December. I got a great surprise, The Her2support.org site that I have been pretty active with invited me to go to San Diego, CA (Never went to Cali) on an all expense paid trip for the Scientific Cancer Research Conference. I Planned my trip for 10 days and had 2 days before and two days afterward of just me time. The conference was amazing!! I got to meet people from on line that I've been in contact with for years. I also got to meet Joe and Christine. They helped my Maryann when her tumor spread to the brain. I hooked them up to talk and I know it helped. During the HUGE conference I got to me the doctors that found/isolated the HER2 gene and the Doc that invented Herceptin! It was a huge moment for me and not only did I cry, but the doc did too - he kissed us and thanked us. They are making a Hollywood moving about the making of Herceptin. I'll keep you informed when I hear more..Anyway the last day of the trip, I realized my eyes were yellow again. I called my leukemia on and they said come straight home and go to emergency. It was a weekend and I refused. I knew if I went back in the hospital I would get sicker. I had an appointment with my bc onc that Monday so they looked at me and ordered tests, Then I went to the other onc and got more tests (liver biopsies). I had too much iron in my liver from having over 70 blood transfusions for the bone marrow transplant. So now instead of getting blood, I have to give several units (less than a pint) a week and get a shot in order to circulate the blood and help stimulate my own cells to do the right thing. So far everything is working very well. I have to take VERY high amounts of steroids. I look like a chipmunk, but I am always burning calories so I lost about 12 pounds. I eat a lot, but have to watch everything with iron in it an also all carbs. The steroids have made me temporarily diabetic again. My numbers are huge and I probably should have had to gone to the hospital but I've been able to control it somewhat. These are minor things, because the steroids also give me huge amounts of energy (and a small beard). We replaced the carpets in my, my daughter's room and the hallway. We painted Shann's room, my room and the bathroom. I am so happy and the results. I also scrubbed the living room and am now making my way to the kitchen. They are weaning me off the steroids slowly. I hope I get everything done before I feel like my lazy old self again. Oh, and the pool is clean!!!! It hasn't been opened in 3 years because of me being sick....I am going swimming................................Oh, one other thing, the steroids have completely atrophied my muscles. I have take several fall and am using a brace and a cane. I had x-rays of the knee taken the other day - no break, but a bad twist. Liz and I started phsyical therapy and I have to get ready now. Love to you all. Have annivaersay, Happy birthday, and my deapest wished to everyone going through so much life...I love you all




http://presence.webmail.aol.com/mailsig/?sn=madubois63 (http://presence.webmail.aol.com/IM/?sn=madubois63&locale=en-us&pd=0) Love and kisses - Maryann

PinkGirl
07-09-2008, 07:28 AM
Hi Madame DuBois,
Thanks for the update, you Warrior Woman you!!!!
You sound happy and very busy. I need someone
on steroids to come to my house.

Stay well!!!

Mary Anne in TX
07-09-2008, 07:46 AM
Thanks for the update and the great adventure story, Maryann. No one lives on the edge so well as you! Best wishes for an uneventful summer and fall! ma

Mary Jo
07-09-2008, 10:07 AM
I always enjoy hearing from you Maryann....Thanks for taking the time to update our group. We love and care about you deeply.

Hugs....

Mary Jo

hutchibk
07-09-2008, 12:17 PM
Thanks for the update, Maryanne. Keep on keeping on steroid woman! LOL. Be careful with the falls, we don't need you in traction!

Pink - I think you might have just hit upon a brilliant business idea!

MJo
07-09-2008, 12:34 PM
Long Island must be wonderful in the summer. Enjoy. MJO

Soccermom2006
07-09-2008, 12:47 PM
Good to hear from you Madame! Always enjoy hearing your joy filled voice!
Marcia

rinaina
07-09-2008, 01:26 PM
Wow Maryann, a dull life you sure don't lead. You remain an inspiration to so many and thank goodness nothing keeps you down for long. So glad you got to go to Calif and have some additional alone time just for yourself. Keep on truckin' for no one does it better then you.

Patb
07-09-2008, 04:24 PM
WOW. Thanks for the update. I was wondering
how you were. patb

Leslie's sister
07-09-2008, 04:28 PM
Thanks for the update Mary Ann. I think it is safe to say that each and every person on this site knows you and wants to hear on a regular basis that you are well. I will continue to pray that you keep the beast in check!

Lisa

dhealey
07-09-2008, 04:50 PM
Thanks for checking in, you do like to live life on the edge, but you do it so well. Best wishes to you. With all you new found energy, if your ever in North Carolina, my house needs a good cleanig.

Bill
07-09-2008, 05:10 PM
Madame DuBois, it's so good to hear from you! You are such an inspiration to so many! You keep on rollin'. Thanks for taking time out from your busy schedule to keep us posted. Love ya, Bill

DanaRT
07-09-2008, 05:19 PM
Great report.
Congratulations to your son for graduating High School.
Your trip to CA sounds fabulous. I am anxious for the movie about the doctor who created Herceptin and has improved our chances of survial.

Sounds like you're very positive and not willing to be kept down for long. Having so much work done around the house would be refreshing.

Dana

Paty
07-09-2008, 08:51 PM
What a wonderful human being you are Maryann!! All my love to you and best wishes for a great summer!

Paty

Jackie07
07-09-2008, 09:35 PM
Thanks for the update. Now we know why they use "Anabolic steroids" when discussing about those athletes who use the drug to build up muscles. Because they need to distinguish the steroid that is causing the atrophy of the muscle. Take care and thanks again for sharing.

harrie
07-09-2008, 11:29 PM
Hey SuperWoman! Thanks for taking the time to update us Maryann! You are amazing!
Love you tooo...
Maryanne

Catherine
07-10-2008, 12:27 AM
Madame Du Bois,

Thanks for the update. Glad you are able to call so many of your own shots. So who is going to star in the Herceptin movie?

Hugs to you,
Catherine

tricia keegan
07-10-2008, 10:36 AM
Always good to hear from you Maryann and even better to hear you're in such good spirits. Maybe you should apply to audition for the leading lady role in that herceptin movie:)
Enjoy the swimming, I've been swimming every day for years although I did cut down a bit while on chemo but I love it. It not only helps you get physically fit but realease's those endorphins too so you get to feel great!!

Joy
07-11-2008, 06:13 AM
and I will say it again...you never cease to amaze me Mary Ann! Wow! You are so tough and such an inspiration and I am jus praying and praying for success with treatment and fun with family and friends and just feeling good. Thank you so much for the update.

madubois63
07-11-2008, 07:15 AM
Thank you everyone for the warmest of wishes!!!! I had blood taken yesterday again and it went really well. My counts were really good, and we are lowering the steroids just a bit this week. I still have a few doors to sand and stain so I don't want to come off the steroids too quick - lol! My house truly looks amazing.

Dana - my son graduated last year. He finished his first year with a 3.96 (love to brag).

Bill - Thanks again! Hope your getting out and doing lots of fun stuff...

Jackie - I really don't understand the steroid thing. There are so many different types. I'm not getting muscle, I am loosing it. The falls I take are really weird. It's like I have no muscle for a quick second and I'm down on the ground???? I have the little extra hairs growing on my chin, but I am Greek too...

On a funny note, I'll tell you about one of my falls. Every morning my dog and I walk to the pool and then sit on the swing and just have quite time together. Last week, I wanted to flush the filter so I pulled out the hose and started dragging it to the pool. It got snagged so I pulled harder, stepped back and my dog was under my feet....I filled up in the air flat, like Charlie Brown would do. I landed flat on my back, with the hose running all over me and the dog in my satin pj's. I swear my dog was laughing! I was laughing and we rolled around in the water for a while. I am sure it looked as funny as I felt!

TriciaK
07-11-2008, 02:36 PM
Maryann, you are absolutely amazing! Your posts take my breath away! Just keep a'keepin' on, for you truly are an inspiration to all of us! Hugs, Tricia

WomanofSteel
07-11-2008, 06:20 PM
You are just a powerhouse girl! Keep up the fight!

sarah
07-12-2008, 04:02 AM
You are a remarkable woman. You inspire me tremendously. You have such a wonderful joie de vivre! I recently lost a friend who also had it and inflammatory bc so your posts mean even more now that a close HER2 sister is gone.
Thank you for your wonderful, uplifting posts.
Keep up the good fight,
hugs and love
sarah