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Old 04-16-2008, 03:26 PM   #1
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No more wigs! (I think)

That's it. I'm tired of my wig. Today was my last day of radiation. Today was the first time I went to a Salon to have my hair trimmed. The picture isn't great. My hair is still thin on top. BUT, it looks not so strange in person on the sides and the back. I'll wear a cap, earrings et al to work for a while. I'll just look like someone with very short hair. [Even if I do look a little strange.]

I'm happy! The woman at the Salon made me feel good about what I was doing. She also helped with some cream to make me look less like a muskrat. And besides that, who cares...

Melanie

So here is my hair(s) without hat and without earrings (they didn't photograph well in the mirror):
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Pathology Report: ER/PR-, HER2+ with FISH at 8.4 copies, Grade 3, Stage IIIa, 3.2 cm tumor plus 4/19 positive lymph nodes
Portacath: 9/7/07
Chemo: 9/14/07 with AC (every three weeks) for four rounds
Physical Therapy for ROM Loss / "Cording" (but not Lymphodema)
Taxol + Herceptin weekly (started 12/2007 with 8 of 12 Taxol)
Radiation: (28 rads from 3/07 to 4/07)
Reconstruction (silicone implant)
Herceptin done (10/08)
Cognitive Remediation (11/08 - 12/08)
Lymphedema Diagnosed 5/10/10 (almost 3 years post cancer diagnosis)
Lymphedema Rehab 9/10/10 - 11/10/10
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Old 04-16-2008, 04:23 PM   #2
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Hi Chicago,
I'm happy you finished your rads today. That must
be a good feeling.

I remember having that same hairdo!!! I liked it. I
could wash my face and hair at the same time - with a
face cloth. I think you look great.
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Sept 7/05 Mastectomy
4 FAC, 4 Taxol, no radiation
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Old 04-16-2008, 05:06 PM   #3
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MELANIE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
You look great...can't wait to see you May 4th!!!!! We have a lot to celebrate WITH YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Core Biopsy 2/22/02
L. Mastectomy 2/25/2002
Stage 1, 0.7cm IDC, Node Neg from 19 nodes Her2+++ ER PR Neg
6/2003 Reconstruction W/ Tissue Expander, Silicone Implant
9/2003 Stage IV with Mets to Supraclavicular nodes
9/2003 Began Herceptin every 3 weeks
3/2006 Xeloda 2500mg/Herceptin for recurrence to neck nodes
3/2007 Added back the Xeloda with Herceptin for continued mets to nodes
5/2007 Taken Off Xeloda, no longer working
6/14/07 Taxol/Herceptin/Avastin
3/26 - 5/28/08 Taxol Holiday Whopeeeeeeeee
5/29 2008 Back on Taxol w Herceptin q 2 weeks
4/2009 Progression on Taxol & Paralyzed L Vocal Cord from Nodes Pressing on Nerve
5/2009 Begin Rx with Navelbine/Herceptin
11/09 Progression on Navelbine
Fought for and started Tykerb/Herceptin...nodes are melting!!!!!
2/2010 Back to Avastin/Herceptin
5/2010 Switched to Metronomic Chemo with Herceptin...Cytoxan and Methotrexate
Pericardial Window Surgery to Drain Pericardial Effusion
7/2010 Back to walking a mile a day...YEAH!!!!
9/2010 Nodes are back with a vengence in neck
Qualified for TDM-1 EAP
10/6/10 Begin my miracle drug, TDM-1
Mixed response, shrinking internal nodes, progression skin mets after 3 treatments
12/6/10 Started Halaven (Eribulen) /Herceptin excellent results in 2 treatments
2/2011 I CELEBRATE my 9 YEAR MARK!!!!!!!!!!!!!
7/5/11 begin Gemzar /Herceptin for node progression
2/8/2012 Gemzar stopped, Continue Herceptin
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Old 04-16-2008, 05:21 PM   #4
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Thanks.

Sheila: I'm looking forward to May 4 as well! I think we're all fortunate in our own ways. [Hope the Taxol vacation is going well.]

PinkGirl: Thanks also. The hats I wear look a lot like the cap in your picture. They are a slightly different style and come in different colors. I have different butterfly pins on them. I'm happy to have enough hair to have it trimmed. It's probably an inch almost everywhere now. In Chicago it's fairly easy to have unique styles.

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Surgery: 8/15/07 Modified Radical One Side with Lymph Node Dissection
Pathology Report: ER/PR-, HER2+ with FISH at 8.4 copies, Grade 3, Stage IIIa, 3.2 cm tumor plus 4/19 positive lymph nodes
Portacath: 9/7/07
Chemo: 9/14/07 with AC (every three weeks) for four rounds
Physical Therapy for ROM Loss / "Cording" (but not Lymphodema)
Taxol + Herceptin weekly (started 12/2007 with 8 of 12 Taxol)
Radiation: (28 rads from 3/07 to 4/07)
Reconstruction (silicone implant)
Herceptin done (10/08)
Cognitive Remediation (11/08 - 12/08)
Lymphedema Diagnosed 5/10/10 (almost 3 years post cancer diagnosis)
Lymphedema Rehab 9/10/10 - 11/10/10
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Old 04-16-2008, 05:54 PM   #5
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Congratulations on finishing rads. I remember those days with my hair. Mine came back thicker, curly and darker. It's a challenge to style some days so here's hoping you have the same problems soon.
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Old 04-16-2008, 06:11 PM   #6
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You look beautiful. I remember that liberating feeling as well. I felt so "free" and a little bit back to myself.

Enjoy the feeling of being YOU..

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Margins clear - 1 microscopic cell 1 sent. node
No Vasucular Invasion
4 DD A/C - 4 DD Taxol & Herceptin
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Old 04-16-2008, 06:32 PM   #7
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I think alot of us can relate to the hairdo. Looks great on you. I am keeping mine short from now on.
I had a great salon experience too. The gal was "honored" to give me my first post-chemo trim and would not take payment!
"Muskrat"! What a funny image that word conjures up. Although you don't resemble whatever one might look like!
Love your tree photo.
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May 2007 Core biopsy, Rt breast
ER+, Pr-, HER2 +++, Grade 3
Ki-67: 90%
"suspicious area" left breast
Bilateral mastectomy, (NED on left) May 2007
Sentinel Node Neg
Stage 1, DCIS with microinvasion, 3 mm, mostly removed during the biopsy....
Femara (discontinued 7/07) Resumed 10/07
OncoType score 36 (July 07)
Began THC 7/26/07 (d/c taxol and carboplatin 10/07)
Began Herceptin alone 10/07
Finished Herceptin July /08
D/C Femara 4/10 (joint pain/trigger thumb!)
5/10 mistakenly dx with lung cancer. Middle rt lobe removed!
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Old 04-17-2008, 05:10 AM   #8
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You look marvelous! Absolutely marvelous! And your hair says so many things about wht a champion you are. Glad you're deciding to go as is! You look great! ma
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Jan - March '06 Taxotere/Adriamycin X 3 to try to shrink tumor - it grew
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Sept - Dec. '06 Navelbine/Herceptin x 8 (dose dense)
Radiation & Herceptin Jan. 22 - March 1, 2007
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Old 04-17-2008, 05:13 AM   #9
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Actually I looked more like a muskrat BEFORE my trim yesterday. Someone on this site (or one like it) mentioned the likeness before. I found the comparison humorous and somehow reassuring as the stage being an early one in hair regrowth after chemo.

Here is a picture of a muskrat...with fur going in all different directions. But he has more hair/fur than we do when we're a couple months or so out of chemo. The stylist yesterday trimmed off the "funky" edges so that my hair lays down better and doesn't poke out in various places and in various directions.

http://www.muskratsoftware.com/images/muskrat.jpg

[No comparison to anyone on this site should be made to the muskrat's face, tail, paws etc! Though the expression on his face reminds me of some of my own responses to chemo...]

And thanks for the additional encouraging responses!

Melanie
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Surgery: 8/15/07 Modified Radical One Side with Lymph Node Dissection
Pathology Report: ER/PR-, HER2+ with FISH at 8.4 copies, Grade 3, Stage IIIa, 3.2 cm tumor plus 4/19 positive lymph nodes
Portacath: 9/7/07
Chemo: 9/14/07 with AC (every three weeks) for four rounds
Physical Therapy for ROM Loss / "Cording" (but not Lymphodema)
Taxol + Herceptin weekly (started 12/2007 with 8 of 12 Taxol)
Radiation: (28 rads from 3/07 to 4/07)
Reconstruction (silicone implant)
Herceptin done (10/08)
Cognitive Remediation (11/08 - 12/08)
Lymphedema Diagnosed 5/10/10 (almost 3 years post cancer diagnosis)
Lymphedema Rehab 9/10/10 - 11/10/10
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Old 04-17-2008, 06:34 AM   #10
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I'm laughing Chicago!!! You couldn't possibly have looked like that critter. Muskrat Susie looks a bit like Tiptoe when
she stubbs a toe and when she forgets to use her leave-in
conditioner.
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1 year of Herceptin
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Old 04-17-2008, 06:38 AM   #11
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Congratulations. Wigs can get hot in spring and summer. It's also fabulous to be able to towel dry our heads and hair. You look great.

I myself hadn't seen my natural haircolor for 16 years. It grew back salt and pepper. Just started dying it again a few months ago.
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Lumpectomy 11/04/05 Clear Margins
3 Dose dense AC (Couldn't tolerate 4)
4 Dose dense Taxol & Herc. (Tolerated well)
36 weeks Herceptin (Could not complete one year due to decrease in MUGA score)
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Old 04-17-2008, 07:09 AM   #12
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OMG, how cute is that muskrat! I had never seen one before. There is a lot to be learned on this site! And I can identify with his expression.
I think my early hair resembeled an ostrich. Whisps sticking out. Now it is like a curly sheep. God is interesting.
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May 2007 Core biopsy, Rt breast
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Ki-67: 90%
"suspicious area" left breast
Bilateral mastectomy, (NED on left) May 2007
Sentinel Node Neg
Stage 1, DCIS with microinvasion, 3 mm, mostly removed during the biopsy....
Femara (discontinued 7/07) Resumed 10/07
OncoType score 36 (July 07)
Began THC 7/26/07 (d/c taxol and carboplatin 10/07)
Began Herceptin alone 10/07
Finished Herceptin July /08
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Old 04-17-2008, 08:22 AM   #13
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Hi Melanie,
You look great! Thanks for sharing the photos with us, even the muskrat. Isn't it wonderful to be done with radiation. You are about a year behind my treatments. It only gets better from here.

Can't wait to see you May 4. I will post a note here to see if there is anyone new to join our club.

Donna
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Completed 4 A/C, & 4 Taxol with Herceptin
36 rads completed 5/16/07
Mammograms, 7/07 clear
fractured ribs in radiated area 10/07
Finished Herceptin 12/27/07
Mammogram,CT,tumor markers 1/08 - small lung nodules in radiated area, repeated tests 3/08 stable
Mammogram,CT ,tumor markers 6/08 stable
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3 years !!!
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Old 04-17-2008, 11:10 AM   #14
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Congratulations to you.. A big milestone indeed. I am sure we all remember the day well. The first day without the wig. Like you I just said I am done with this. I wanted to see how I would feel about it out in public, so I decided to go shopping at the grocery store, even though I didn't need groceries.

I remember thinking, ok, nobody is staring at me I can do this. I never looked back ! Still kept the short hair, even this 1 year and 8 months out from my dx.

I am really really happy for you !! You GO Girl
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Her 2 +++
1.3 & 1.2 tumors right breast
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lumpectomy 8-15-06
A/C Began 9-5-06 Finished A/C 11/6/06
Port Placement 9-15-06
Negative Test for BRAC1 & BRAC2 10-25-06
Began Tamoxofin November 21, 2006
First Herceptin November 27, 2006 Continues every 3 Weeks
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Old 04-17-2008, 08:47 PM   #15
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Wow, your hair grew back fast, I say it looks fine. Mine took about 5 months before it looked like yours. I was like a bowling ball though. I have always worn my hair short and most the time in a baseball cap, so it wasn't really an uncomfortable adjustment for me..sherryg683
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Old 04-17-2008, 11:42 PM   #16
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Melanie....I LIKE your haircut!
I was LAUGHING at the muscrat pic!!!!!! That is what MINE looks like right NOW without any gel!!!!
AND.....tomorrow I am going for my very FIRST hairtrim!!!
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1993: right side DCIS, lumpectomy, rads
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BRCA 2 positive
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Grade: intermediate
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HER2/neu amplified 4.7
ER+/PR+
TOPO II neg
Oncotype dx 20
Bilat mastectomy with DIEP flap reconstruction
oophorectomy

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