in a dilemma

[Bill]

PBK, I'm so sorry that you and Hema have had to go through this. Please understand that you have both done your best, at every step of the way, that you possibly could have. It's obvious from the posts you have made and the questions you have asked. Your love for Hema shines through in each and every one. You're an amazing man and an awesome husband and caregiver for your lovely wife. I think you have received some good advice from these wonderful ladies here. There's not much for me to add, except for the sad fact that I walked in your shoes a few years back and know what you're dealing with. As said, I'm sure at this point Hema knows what's happening and the best thing you can do at this point, in my opinion, is just be there with her and tell her how much you love her and that you're not going anywhere and that you will stay by her side and take care of everything. She will hear you and understand. I lit some candles, put on some nice music in the room, and sat nearby, reassuring her that everything would be ok. I'm glad that you have family coming in to be with you both. Try to rest when you can. You're both in my thoughts and prayers. Take care, brother.