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Old 12-31-2012, 03:10 PM   #1
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To Eternal Life

While today marks my first day as a member, I'm familiar with so many people in this community.

My mother, Jeanette (who has posted on occasion), has been a member of this support group for many years. Throughout the years, even when the members of the family would find their hope for a cure slipping, she reminded us of the many women from this forum who have had such wonderful success in their treatments.

With tears in her eyes, she would share the news of others that weren't as successful. Even though she didn't post often, she thought of everyone here as a "second family".

On Friday afternoon, Jeanette went to be with God and her family that has passed.

Until the very end, she had hope for new treatments. She bragged about her "sisters" on this forum and their success. She found hope in the possibility of a clinical trial.

In the end, treatment didn't work. What our family has to remember, though, is that it isn't the end. She taught us so much in her love of life, her ability to find humor in so many situations, and her unending pride in her Scottish heritage.

It leaves an empty space in our hearts, and a feeling of being lost to her husband of nearly 51 years. We find hope, though, in our trust that those angels are leading her to paradise.

"Thank You" will never be enough to express our family's gratitude for the hope, courage, and advice you have given her throughout the years. Please keep us in your prayers during this difficult time. We will continue to keep all of you in our prayers, as well.

Blessings,

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Old 12-31-2012, 04:50 PM   #2
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Dearest Bryan, Thank you so much for letting us know. Jeanette has been a part of this family since 2005. I am so verry sorry to hear the treatment did not work for our sister Jeanette has earned her wings. Words fall short of expressing my sorrow for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time. With heartfelt sympathy. Hugs, Joanne S
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Dec06-Nov07...Herceptin
Feb12,2007...Surg MRM Left & SM Right, reconstruct w/expanders
Mar07-Jun07...Saline Exp
Jun07...Start Tamoxifen
Jun07-Aug07...Rad x 25
Jun07-Oct07...Persistent fevers-unknown origin
Jun07-Nov07...PT for Severe PMPS & Capsular Contracture
Nov07...Surg Capsulectomy, Gel Implants, PMPS pain gone instantly.
Feb08...NED 1st CANCERVERSARY!!!!!
Feb08...2 months post surgery Caps Cont again :(
Mar08...Stop Tamoxifen. Start Arimidex.
Apr08...Sudden high fever, Hosp ICU 10 days, staph infect, emerg surg, implants removed. Outpt IVantibiotics Daily x 6 weeks
Feb11...NED 5th CANCERVERSARY!!!!!
Feb12...NED 6th CANCERVERSARY!!!!!
Aug12...Spotting. Surg=D&C
Sep12...STAGE IV = RARE BC METS TO UTERUS ILC ER+/PR+/HER2-Negative) (Different BC than originally diagnosed = IDC ER+/PR+/HER2+).
Sep12...Stop Arimidex. Start Afinitor & Aromasin.
Jan13...MRI = no progression no reduction
Apr13...Progression. Stop Afinitor & Aromasin.
Apr13...Start Chemo: Taxol & Carboplatin.
Nov13...Scans & Pelvic 95+% Reduction. Nueropathy>Stop chemo start Fareston.
Jan14...PET scan = no progression stable.
May14...Pelvic > Bleeding & cramps. TMs up.
May14...PET scan = uterine progression :(
May14...Stop Fareston. Start Chemo: Xeloda.




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Old 12-31-2012, 05:45 PM   #3
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Re: To Eternal Life

Dear Bryan,
So nice of you to let us know about your mother. I am truly sorry about your loss. I can't imagine how you feel, but know she is always with you.

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Diagnosed: June 2010, liver mets. ER-/PR+10%; HER2+++.
July 2010: Begin Taxol/Herceptin. Eliminate sugar from diet. No surgery or radiation.
January 2011: NED
April 2011: Progression in liver only. Other previous affected areas eradicated. Stop Taxol/Herceptin after 32 infusions.
May 2011: Brain MRI: clear.
May 2011: Begin Tykerb daily, Xeloda twice per day for one week on, one week off, and Herceptin.
November 2011: Progression in liver. All other tumors remain eradicated.
December 2011: BEGIN TRIAL #09-093 Taxol, MCC-DM1 (T-DM1), Perjeta.
Trial requires scans every six weeks, bloodwork and infusions weekly.
Brain MRI: clear.
January 2012: NED. Liver mets, good riddance!
March 2012: NED. Developed SMA (rare blood clot) in intestinal artery and loss of sight in right eye due to optical nerve neuropathy. Resolved when Taxol removed this month.
Continue Protocol of T-DM1 weekly and Perjeta every 3 weeks.
May 2012: NED.
June 2012: Brain MRI: clear.
June-December 2012: NED.
December 2012: TRIAL CONCLUDED; ENTER TRIAL EXTENSION #09-037. CT, Brain MRI, bone scan: clear. NED.
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June 2013: Brain MRI: clear. CEA upticking; CT shows new met on liver.
July 3, 2013: DISASTER STRIKES during liver ablation: sloppy surgeon cuts intercostal artery and I bleed out, lose 3.5 liters of blood, have major hemothorax, and collapsed lung requiring emergency resuscitative thoracotomy, lung surgery, rib rearrangement and cutting deep connective tissue, transfusion. Ablation incomplete. This life-saving procedure would end up causing me unforgiving pain with every movement I make, permanently, otherwise known as forever.
July 26, 2013: Try Navelbine/Herceptin. Body too weak after surgery and transfusion. Fever. CEA: Normal.
August 16, 2016: second dose Navelbine/Herceptin; CEA: Normal. Will skip doses. Watching and waiting.
September 2013: NED, Herceptin only. CEA: Normal. Started Arimidex.
October-November 2013: NED. Herceptin and Arimidex. CEA, CA125, 15-3: Normal.
December 2013: Something brewing. PET lights up on little spot on liver; CEA upward trend, just outside normal. PET and triphasic liver scan confirm Little Met. Restart Perjeta with Herceptin, stay on Arimidex. Genomic sequencing completed for future treatments, if necessary.
January 2014: Ablate Little Met on the 6th. Happy New Year.
March 2014: Brain MRI: clear. PET/CT reveal liver mets return; new lung mets. This is not funny.
March 2014: BEGIN TRIAL #10-005 A(11)-Temsirolimus plus Neratinib.
April 2014: Genomic testing indicated they could work, they did not. Very strange drug combo for me, felt weird.
April 2014: Started Navelbine and Herceptin. Needed something tried and true, but had significant progression.
June 2014: Doxil and Herceptin.
July 2014: Progression. Got nothing out of it. Brain: NED.
July 2014: Add integrative medical hematologist-oncologist to my team. Begin supplements. These are tumor-busting, immune system boosters. Add glutathione, lysine and taurine IV infusions every three weeks.
July 2014: Begin Gemzar, Herceptin & Perjeta. Happy.
August 2014: ECHO perfect.
January 2015: Begin weekly Vitamin D Analog infusions. 25 mcg. via port.
February 2015: CT: stable.
April 2015: Gem working, but not 100%. Looking into immunotherapy. Finally, treatments for the 21st century!
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Old 12-31-2012, 06:59 PM   #4
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Thank you for taking the time to share that with us. I can only imagine how difficult this journey must be on our loved ones. We are grateful to you for the support
Keep the faith
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Femara (discontinued 7/07) Resumed 10/07
OncoType score 36 (July 07)
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Began Herceptin alone 10/07
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Old 12-31-2012, 07:30 PM   #5
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Dear Bryan

thank you for posting the message. My thoughts and prayers go to your family at this sad time. This is a special community, and the description in your message of your mother's relationship with the board is so true.

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June 2011 3cm x 4cm liver tumour. Started Abraxane and continue with Herceptin.
November 2011. Finished with Abraxane, continue with just Herceptin. Liver tumour now reduced to 15mm x 12mm. Lung tumour now 10mm x 0.5mm
February 2012. Scans show everything stable, and brain scan clear.
July 2012. PET/CT scans show I'm in remission - no active cancer!
]Dec CT brain cllear, lungs stable, liver tumour has increased to 20mm. PET scans showed active liver met and active lung thinglet, and possible bone met.
Jan 2013 recommence Abraxane, continue with Herceptin.
June 2013 finish Cycle 6 Abraxane, continue with Herceptin. 30% reduction in liver tumour, everything stable.
December 2013. CA15-3 on rise.
February 2014. PET and CT scans show single liver tumour has increased to 35mm. No other activity.
March 2014. Planned for SBRT for liver met, but couldn't have treatment as tumour too close to bowel. Continue Herceptin.
April 2014. Surgeon advises that I am a good candidate for liver resection, so will have operation early May (after camping holiday). Tumour now 44mm x 29mm.
May 7, 2014. Two liver tumours surgically removed. Third of liver removed, and gall bladder. Am I NED?May 2014. Pathology of tumour shows it's now ER+ (95% staining).
June 2014. CA15-3 has decreased to 18 from a pre-surgery reading of 59!
June 2014. Started Femara, continue with Herceptin.
July 2014. Stop Femara due to severe Osteoporosis. Commence Tamoxifen, continue Herceptin. Waiting to hear if I can have Aclasta infusion.
August 2014. CA15-3 has decreased further to 12 - YAY!
October 2014. Aclasta infusion for Osteoporosis. November 2014, CA15-3 decreased to 11. Scans of liver all clear, something new showing up on lung, but just watching at the moment.
November 2015. Started SBRT on solitary lung met.
November 2015. Bone density scan showed very good improvement so back on Femara - yay!
December 2016. 6 treatments of SBRT radiation on lung. Seems to have had some effect.
June 2016. CA15-3 still stable and low at 9.
June 2016. Started subcutaneous Herceptin replacing infusion.
Jan 2017. LVEF dropped to 46%. Stopped Herceptin.
Feb 2017. Started ACE Inhibitor and BETA Blocker. Still off Herceptin.
Aug 2017. Two new mets - Portacaval lymph node and mediastinal lymph node.
Aug 2017. Blood tests show extremely elevated liver enzyme levels. Many tests to investigate.
Sept 2017. Portacaval lymph node blocking liver bile duct causing liver enzyme and Bilirubin problems.
Oct 2017. 8cm stent inserted into liver bile duct. Procedure caused pancreatitis, and hospitalised for 3 days. Liver enzymes improving rapidly.
Nov 2017. Commenced 4 weeks of radiation on Portacaval lymph node. 5 week break before chemo.
Jan 2018. CT scan. 11 new small liver mets, and new superclavical lymph node med.
Jan 2018. Start Kadcyla. CA15-3 426.
Apr 2018. First scans since starting Kadcyla. All tumours reducing. CA15-3 dropped to 30 from 426.
Dec 2019. Still on Kadcyla, but two small brain mets have been treated in the past month with SRS. CA15-3 stable for 12 months at 11.
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Old 01-01-2013, 01:40 AM   #6
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I also appreciat the fact that you took the time to let us know of your Mom's passing. Please know that at this time you and your family are in my prayers. Gods blessings upon you and your family. Peace, Nancy
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Old 01-01-2013, 06:20 AM   #7
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I'm really sorry for your loss, Bryan.

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Old 01-01-2013, 08:26 AM   #8
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Found one of the postings Jeanette wrote less than 2 months ago:

"Same thing happened to me, Was declared NED and lo and behold cancer came back in the pther breast. This sucks. It has now spread to my liver and bones. I had 1.72 liters of fluid taken out last week, very easy procedure. Life goes on, so you keep your chin up and fight it with all you have, we are all rooting for you. Hoping for good results, Jeanette"

What an amazing woman!
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Old 01-01-2013, 10:07 AM   #9
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Thank you Bryan for letting us know. You and your family and friends have my deepest sympathy at this sad time. She was a great fighter and she is missed.
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Old 01-01-2013, 10:28 AM   #10
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Bryan - I add my sympathy and gratitude to you and your family. You will never know how many people your mother helped just on this forum with her wisdom and courage.
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Old 01-01-2013, 05:09 PM   #11
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My thoughts are with you and your family at this difficult time. I will miss Jeanette. She was always there with encouraging words yet didn't ask much from us. A true friend on our board and warrior woman.
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Old 01-01-2013, 07:56 PM   #12
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Bryan I'm so sad to read this, are you the same Bryan I chat to on CBN by any chance???
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Old 01-01-2013, 08:44 PM   #13
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Awww darn Bryan, I am at once heartbroken for you and your family; and heart warmed that, in your grief, you would think of letting us know that your mom passed on. Like many others, I was touched by your mom; and this is the post I remember:
"We have six children, 16 Grands and 8 great grands. Love them all to death. I was fortunate to be able to stay at home with my children..."
Yes, she was fortunate to stay home with her children and you were one of the lucky recipients of her love. This stuck with me as a mother of 4 - God Bless Jeanette - God Bless her 6 children and her 16 Grands and her 8 Great Grands - may you carry forward the love that she shared with you all. You have already started.
Another beautiful large hearted angel has earned her wings.
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2011 - Still Herceptin only and NED


2011, June - STOPPED Herceptin and kicked up my heels!

2012, February - 1 small tumor came back to haunt me in my lungs - back on Herceptin only, tumor stable.


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Old 01-02-2013, 05:39 PM   #14
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My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family, Bryan. Your mom was tough, with old school common sense and she, along with so many others here, was always there to prop me up when I needed it. She will be missed.
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Thank you, Bryan, for your lovely post honoring your beloved mother and our family here on Her2Support. I wish you Godspeed and His comfort and grace. Your mother will be missed.
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Old 01-12-2013, 06:01 PM   #16
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She did, indeed, love her family to death.

Six days before she passed away, great-grandchild #9 was born. Being able to skype with the new baby was the highlight of her entire year.

Five days after she passed away, great-grandchild #10 was born. I could picture, with such clarity, the smile she must have had on her face.

Your response has been overwhelming!

The day before she passed away, knowing how often she talked about her family here, I asked if she wanted me to update you all on how she was doing. She said no. She was online very often, and kept up with everyone's posts... but since she didn't post as often, she didn't think many would really know her.

Your messages confirmed what I knew. Thank you for the kind words, shared memories, and all of the prayers.

I was the only one who still lived near her. We became very close. Even if I couldn't be there, I'd call her multiple times a day. Every time I'd have any concern for her condition, she would immediatly reply, "There's no use in dwelling on it. Just take it one day at a time."

Her advice rings in my ear pretty often, lately.

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Old 01-13-2013, 05:23 PM   #17
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Bryant,

Hugs to you and your family in such terrible and sad time. I am so sorry to hear about your mom's passing! I am sure she is watching over all us from up above.
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Old 01-15-2013, 09:57 AM   #18
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Thank you for this, Bryan. Your Mom has a special place in all of our hearts.
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5/05 suspicious mammogram-left breast
5/05 biopsy-invasive lobular carcinoma with LCIS,8mm tumor,stage 1 grade 2, ER+ PR+ Her2+++
6/14/05 bilateral mastectomy, node neg. all scans neg.
Oncotype DX-high risk
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10/05 -10/06 1 yr. herceptin
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10/15/10 last FORTEOinjection
RECLAST infusion(ostoeporosis)
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8/2010-18%increase in bone density!
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I say,"What a long strange trip its been"
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7-16 to 9-16. Extensive (and expensive) dental work done to save teeth. Damage from osteoporosis and chemo and long term bisphosphonate use
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7-20-16 Prolia injection for severe osteoporosis
2 days later, massive hive outbreak. This led to an eventual dx of Chronic Ideopathic Urticaria, an auto-immune disease from HELL.
6-14-17 12 YEAR CANCERVERSARY!!
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