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Old 01-08-2008, 02:58 PM   #1
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Prayers needed. IT strikes again!

I would like to ask you all for prayers to be sent to my sister in law Eli. After spending 12 wonderful days in Hawaii together for the Holidays. We return home and the next day my brother in law informs us she is in surgery having a bi lateral mastectomy. They found 2 small IDC tumors in each breast right before Thanksgiving. The opted for the double and hope to be done with it. Node negative, but won't know any of the other particulars until the pathology comes back. So please pray for Eli and her husband and 2 children. This is very overwhelming. Thank all of you in advance, Kriss
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4 DD Taxol Starting 3/5/07
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Old 01-08-2008, 03:27 PM   #2
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Dear Kriss, this is indeed not the news you had hoped to hear. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
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age 54 at diagnosis
5/05 suspicious mammogram-left breast
5/05 biopsy-invasive lobular carcinoma with LCIS,8mm tumor,stage 1 grade 2, ER+ PR+ Her2+++
6/14/05 bilateral mastectomy, node neg. all scans neg.
Oncotype DX-high risk
8/05-10/05 4 rounds A/C
10/05 -10/06 1 yr. herceptin
arimidex-5 years
2/14/08 started daily self administered injections..FORTEO for severe osteoporosis
7/28/09 BRCA 1 negative BRCA2 POSITIVE
8/17/09 prophylactic salpingo-oophorectomy
10/15/10 last FORTEOinjection
RECLAST infusion(ostoeporosis)
6/14/10 5 year cancerversary!
8/2010-18%increase in bone density!
no further treatments
Oncologist says, "Go do the Happy Dance"
I say,"What a long strange trip its been"
'One day at a time'
6-14-2015. 10 YEAR CANCERVERSARY!
7-16 to 9-16. Extensive (and expensive) dental work done to save teeth. Damage from osteoporosis and chemo and long term bisphosphonate use
6-14-16. 11 YEAR CANCERVERSARY!!
7-20-16 Prolia injection for severe osteoporosis
2 days later, massive hive outbreak. This led to an eventual dx of Chronic Ideopathic Urticaria, an auto-immune disease from HELL.
6-14-17 12 YEAR CANCERVERSARY!!
still suffering from CIU. 4 hospitilizations in the past year

as of today, 10-31-17 in remission from CIU and still, CANCER FREE!!!
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Old 01-08-2008, 03:32 PM   #3
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Hi Kriss,

I'm so sorry this has happened to your sister in law. How tough this must be for you as well as unfortunately, you can TOTALLY relate to her feelings and it must resurface your feelings also from those beginning days. And then of course, your heart just ahces for her because it is so unfair...................................

You will be a wonderful mentor to her - of that I have no doubt!!!

May God's Peace surround you all,

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Dx. 6/24/05 age 45 Right Breast IDC
ER/PR. Neg., - Her2+++
RB Mast. - 7/28/05 - 4 cm. tumor
Margins clear - 1 microscopic cell 1 sent. node
No Vasucular Invasion
4 DD A/C - 4 DD Taxol & Herceptin
1 full year of Herceptin received every 3 weeks
28 rads
prophylactic Mast. 3/2/06

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Old 01-08-2008, 03:44 PM   #4
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So sorry Kriss. I know this must be tough for them as well as you. I have lifted them up in prayer and will continue to do so. I have prayed for blessings for your family.

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IDC, ER-PR-, HER2Neu+++
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6 CAF's
38 Rads
Finished 10/05

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Old 01-08-2008, 03:57 PM   #5
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So sorry to hear the bad news, Kriss. I'm praying that God gives you and your family strength and comfort. Thoughts and prayers, Bill
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Old 01-08-2008, 04:08 PM   #6
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Dear Kriss,
Eli has my prayers and she is in my thoughts. I hope all of her test come back clean and she never has to deal with breast cancer again. All my best.
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DX 1998 STAGE I ER+/ PR+
AC CHEMO TILL FEB 1999
Tamxofin till 2001
2001 exstensive liver mets and mets to lungs
Started weekly taxol
Jan 2002 found out I was strongly HER2POS+++ started herceptin continued with taxol and herceptin till June 2002 then from June 2002 till Jan 2005 just herceptin and Arimidex
2005 Navelbine herceptin had RFA Then back on taxol with herceptin
April 2006 progression again went on clinical trial with tykrerb/herceptin progressed on the started Xeloda/ herceptin
Feb 2007 started Doxil
August 2007 Taxotere,Carboplatin and Herceptin exstensive mets to liver and pancreas
October 2007 Had to stop Carboplatin due to sever allergic reaction
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Old 01-08-2008, 04:22 PM   #7
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Ugh, I am sorry to hear your news Kriss,
but of course will include Eli in my prayers.
Please let us know how she is.

Kind Regards,
jean
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Lumpectomy 4/15/05 - 6MM IDC
Node Neg. (Sentinel node)
ER+ 90% / PR-, Her2+++ by FISH
Ki-67 40%
Arimidex 5/05
Radiation 32 trt, 5/30/05
Oncotype DX test 4/17/06, 31% high risk
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TCH 5/06, 6 treatments
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Old 01-08-2008, 05:59 PM   #8
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I will be thinking of Eli and of you. I know you will be a good resource for her. How are you holding up with her diagnosis? Sometimes it is not as easy as it seems even though you are done with your treatment, the memories come back when someone so close to you is diagnosed.

I will be thinking of you too.
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2 micromets to sentinel node
Stage 2A
left 3mm DCIS - low grade ER+PR+Her2 neg
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4/05 started Tamoxifen
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trial results and 2005 ASCO meeting & recommendations
Oophorectomy 8/05
Started Arimidex 9/05
Finished Herceptin (16 months) 9/06
Arimidex Only
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Old 01-08-2008, 06:02 PM   #9
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Kriss,
We must get control of this disease! Just said a prayer for Eli. May this be the last she has to deal with BC.

Remember the good times in Hawaii. There will be many more for your family.

Donna
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Diagnosed 8/4/06 at age 54
Lumpectomy 8/30/06
Stage llA, grade 3, ER/PR-, Her2++
1.7 cm tumor, 1+ lymph node out of 9
Completed 4 A/C, & 4 Taxol with Herceptin
36 rads completed 5/16/07
Mammograms, 7/07 clear
fractured ribs in radiated area 10/07
Finished Herceptin 12/27/07
Mammogram,CT,tumor markers 1/08 - small lung nodules in radiated area, repeated tests 3/08 stable
Mammogram,CT ,tumor markers 6/08 stable
NED 2 years!!
3 years !!!
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Old 01-08-2008, 07:48 PM   #10
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Hi Kriss, I never had the chance to speak to you before because I am a newbie.
You and your family are certainly in my prayers, and I wish you all the best.

God bless you all,

Doug
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Male Diagnosed with DCIS at age 39
Mastectomy on right breast
Tumor Stage pt1b NO MO
DCIS Tumor size 1.5 x 1.x .6cm
Infiltration tumor size .25X.17 cm
Bloom-Richardson Grade 3(score 8)
Nuclear Grade 3 with comedo necrosis
Estrogen+/Progestrone+/HER-2/Neu +++
FISH ratio 4.31
Lymph node removal scheduled 1/07/08
17 nodes tested and all negative 1/08/08
Started Tamoxifin 1/29/08
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Starting TCH 3/14/08
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8/1/08 Herceptin stopped due to low Muga score
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Old 01-09-2008, 04:35 AM   #11
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Kriss, I'm so very sorry for your news about Eli! I'll pray for her and for her family who must "walk this walk" with her. Good thing she has a "library of information and support" in you. Please let us know what is happening. And most of all, take good care of YOU! ma
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Stage II, Grade 3, 4.5 cm primary tumor
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Her2 by FISH 7.7 amplified
vascular invasion
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Jan - March '06 Taxotere/Adriamycin X 3 to try to shrink tumor - it grew
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Old 01-09-2008, 05:24 AM   #12
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Kriss, I am so sorry to hear about your sister-inlaw. I will be praying for the both of you. God Bless.
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Diag 10/2006-high grade invasive ductal carcinoma- mastectomy L breast
2.5 cm tumor ER/PR pos-Her2+++
4 rounds A/C, 4 rounds Taxol
Herceptin every 3 weeks until Jan. 2008
6/18/07 prophylatic mastectomy R breast
8/2007 started aromasin/stopped arimidex (side effects)
12/07 stopped aromasin due to side effects (now what?)
Finished herceptin 1/8/08
started tamoxifen for 2 years then will switch to femera
allergic to tamoxifen started femera 4/2008
June 20, 2008 portacath removed
Learnig to live life to the fullest!
Stopped Femera due to side effects
July 28, 2008 start trial for breast cancer vaccine
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Old 01-09-2008, 06:08 AM   #13
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I am sorry to hear of your sister in law - my prayers are with her and you.
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Old 01-09-2008, 09:42 AM   #14
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Smile Kriss.....

Prayers for Eli and her family, so sorry whenever I hear of a new person getting diagnosed with cancer it is heartbreaking. Thinking about you also and sending extra prayers and thoughts your way. Stay strong Friend>>Believe51
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Old 01-09-2008, 10:11 AM   #15
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Prayers coming your way Kriss. Please let us know how she is doing.
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Diagnosed 2/04 - Invasive ductal - no clean margins
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Mastectomy 4/04 - 4 rounds AC
9/05 - mets to liver treated with carbo/ixabipelone/herceptin
3/06 - complete remission
9/06 - new liver mets, starting Taxotere/Herceptin
1/07 -Liver mets stable, staying on Herceptin
5/07 - Liver, lung progression - starting T/X
12/07 - Liver, lung progression - starting weekly Navilbene/Herceptin
4/08 - Liver progression - started Abraxane, Carbo, Tykerb and Herceptin
7/08 - Liver Progression - started Gemzar, Avastin and Tykerb
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Old 01-09-2008, 10:49 AM   #16
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Kriss, Eli and your entire family are in my prayers. Praying for a great report and she'll be finished with this awful disease.
Hugs to you and Eli
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Old 01-09-2008, 11:48 AM   #17
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definitely will say a special one.
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bcs 8/4/03
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postmenopausal 06 aromasin
sept 07 biopsy node in neck
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Taxol not working switched to navelbine
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Old 01-09-2008, 07:23 PM   #18
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Kriss,

Eli will be in my prayers along with you. This must be hard on you especially since you're just coming to the end of your treatment. Prayers coming your way.
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Neoadjunct chemo: 4 A/C; 4 Taxatore
Bilateral mastectomy June 8, 2006
14 of 26 nodes positive
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Old 01-09-2008, 10:45 PM   #19
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Kriss, you and Eli and family are in my thoughts and prayers. I think it's so great you had that time in Hawaii together, and maybe when she's done with treatment you can celebrate with a return trip. Hugs.

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Old 01-11-2008, 11:44 AM   #20
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Thank you Thank you Thank you Ladies for all your prayers. They were answered. We got the path report today. Node Neg. Margins clear, No her2 or hormone. The mass in one breast was fibroids. But she is still glad she had it removed. No radiation or chemo. I am so happy for her. She is doing great and spirits are high. So once again thank you all on her behalf as well as all your well wishes for me. I was a little suprised that I took it so hard. But I kept thinking back to how I felt a year ago. And did not want her to have to deal. But like I said she is doing great and is a magnificent warrior!
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4 DD Taxol Starting 3/5/07
1year weekly Herceptin starting 3/5/07
finished 2/18/08
changed to every 3 weeks 4/23/07
completed 33 radiation treatments 7/6/07
TAH and BSO 9/24/07
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