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Beleives51:
Your email tells me two things.
At one time you must have had a reasonable relationship with your grandmother to rent from her. Otherwise, why would you have picked her place of all places to rent if she is so nasty?
Does SHE feel that she has been giving you an especially good deal in your rent all along? Has she? (Be honest - are rents rising in your area?)
Does she feel it is "her turn"?
If she thinks that finally you have come into some money, maybe she feels that it is time for this subsidy to end. Does she depend on this income? Has she had to make repairs to your rental?
My suggestion is to sit down and talk to her. TELL her that you have received no inheritance. Show her your overwhelming medical bills. Find out, not what she wants, but how she FEELS?
Maybe she feels that she is being used and taken for granted (you certainly don't like her) but this situation could change if everyone's feelings were put on the table.
Just an idea......
Good luck. Sending positive vibes your way.
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