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Old 10-25-2010, 08:03 PM   #1
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Talking It Is Your Believe51..and she has a secret...Ssshhh!!!

For my Dear Family at Her2support....These last few years have been very trying for me. You all know me in ways that others never shall and I needed to share more of my heart.

On December 21st, 2010, I will be getting married to a man who the Mighty Oak would be proud of. I have done more healing in this Breast Cancer month than I have in this entire year. I know that Ed finally rests in peace.

I feel alive at last and have grown so very much. You all have been such an important part of my journey and I just needed to share my complete joy.

Thanks for loving and supporting me, always. Know that I am always here forever.

I Love My Girls...and Boys (of course)....men get Breast Cancer too.>>Believe51

PS: I am working at the Gloria Gemma Breast Cancer Resource Foundation and continue to advocate for Breast Cancer....and Male Breast Cancer!!
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Old 10-25-2010, 08:21 PM   #2
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Wow !!!!!!!!! What news !!!!!!!!!??????? Congratulations !!
I wish you and your future husband all the best.
By the way, does the foundation you work for have a website?
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Old 10-25-2010, 08:22 PM   #3
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Re: It Is Your Believe51..and she has a secret...Ssshhh!!!

Congratulations Marie. I am glad that you have found someone who makes you happy and is willing to share you with the Great Mighty Oak. Because we all know that he can't replace Ed but can keep a protective and loving arm around you.
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Old 10-25-2010, 08:25 PM   #4
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Re: It Is Your Believe51..and she has a secret...Ssshhh!!!

Congratulations! I'm so happy for you.
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Old 10-25-2010, 08:25 PM   #5
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Re: It Is Your Believe51..and she has a secret...Ssshhh!!!

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Old 10-26-2010, 09:57 AM   #6
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Thanks for the link. Don't be a stranger Marie. Drop by an let us know how you are doing once in awhile.
Enjoy your wedding.
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Old 10-27-2010, 08:40 AM   #7
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Re: It Is Your Believe51..and she has a secret...Ssshhh!!!

Congrats Believe ... I'm very happy for you. Have you ordered
the tux for Enzo yet??? )
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Old 10-27-2010, 07:31 PM   #8
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Well, hot damn, Girl! Congratulations! Now don't you be a stranger! We want to hear some good dirt from time to time, Marie. Wishing all the best and many years of happiness!
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Dx'd w/multifocal DCIS/IDS 3/08
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Partial mast. 5/08
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Clinical Trial w/Clondronate 12/08
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Old 10-27-2010, 09:20 PM   #9
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Be happy!

And the people you work for are an awesome family!
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Found suspicious lump 9/2000
Lumpectomy, then node dissection and port placement
Stage IIB, 8 pos nodes of 18, Grade 3, ER & PR -
Adriamycin 12 weekly, taxotere 4 rounds
36 rads - very little burning
3 mos after rads liver full of tumors, Stage IV Jan 2002, one spot on sternum
Weekly Taxol, Navelbine, Herceptin for 27 rounds to NED!
2003 & 2004 no active disease - 3 weekly Herceptin + Zometa
Jan 2005 two mets to brain - Gamma Knife on Jan 18
All clear until treated cerebellum spot showing activity on Jan 2006 brain MRI & brain PET
Brain surgery on Feb 9, 2006 - no cancer, 100% radiation necrosis - tumor was still dying
Continue as NED while on Herceptin & quarterly Zometa
Fall-2006 - off Zometa - watching one small brain spot (scar?)
2007 - spot/scar in brain stable - finished anticoagulation therapy for clot along my port-a-catheter - 3 angioplasties to unblock vena cava
2008 - Brain and body still NED! Port removed and scans in Dec.
Dec 2008 - stop Herceptin - Vaccine Trial at U of W begun in Oct. of 2011
STILL NED everywhere in Feb 2014 - on wing & prayer
7/14 - Started twice yearly Zometa for my bones
Jan. 2015 checkup still shows NED
2015 Neuropathy in feet - otherwise all OK - still NED.
Same news for 2016 and all of 2017.
Nov of 2017 - had small skin cancer removed from my face. Will have Zometa end of Jan. 2018.
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Old 10-28-2010, 09:16 AM   #10
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Marie:

Congratulations! I pray for only the best for you. Take excellent care of yourself. The laws of Karma say you paid your dues and good things are going to be coming to you.

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Sentinal node biopsy and lymph node removal with 3/18 positive in October 2007
4 TAC infusions
lumpectomy March 2008, bad margins
Re-excision on June 3rd, 2008 with clean margins
Fitted for compression sleeve July 16, 2008
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Old 10-31-2010, 05:32 PM   #11
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Congratulations, Sweet Marie! You deserve to be happy. Thanks for sharing the good news with us.
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Old 10-31-2010, 05:35 PM   #12
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Marie! I am so happy that you are happy!!!!! yay i love good news
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Old 11-06-2010, 07:32 PM   #13
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Congratulations. I am so happy for you.
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Jan. 26- mammogram and ultrasound- suspicious lump
Mid-February- lumpectomy, infiltrating ductal carcinoma ~4.5 cm and a 1 cm DCIS, did not get clear margins, did not check lymph nodes
ER+/PR+, her2 +++, nuclear grade 3 of 3
February 20-PET scan showed something on liver. No biopsy.
March- Started carboplatin, herceptin, taxol on a four week cycle
May 3- Pet scan, with intent to do a biopsy, found nothing, liver or breast- no biopsy because there is nothing to biopsy
June 21- new onc, very concerned that there had been no biopsy,
June 18th-CAT scan, bone scan-negative
August 7th - Brain MRI-negative
August 9th- mastectomy, all pathology negative
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Old 11-07-2010, 07:33 AM   #14
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CONGRATS!!!!!! I AM SOOOO HAPPY FOR YOU, AND HOW LUCKY HE IS! lol!

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Found lump...Oh, crap!
Dx 4/29/10
Invasive Poorly Differentiated Ductal Carcinoma. BRCA 1&2 no mutations(although 2 cousins also are HER2+)HMMM....
Stage IIB, G3
ER/PR -, HER2+++
5/11/10 Lumpectomy/Axillary node dissection/Mediport placement
Tumor 3.5cm, 1/15 nodes + Both Sentinel nodes negative!
6/24/10 - Started TCH.
10/14/10 - Finished chemo...yea!!!!!
12/27/10 - PET scan and MRI-NED!!!!!
03/09/11 - Bilateral Mastectomy and reconstruction (DIEP Flap)
03/16/11 - NED! Path report negative!
6/9/11 - Revision of both breasts, and port removed. Two lumps removed...both benign!
6/23/09 - LAST HERCEPTIN!!! Wohooooo!


My son Tim and his wife Nicole just had their first born...a son, Brayden...my first Grandchild! My daughter Hanna is working her way through college, and I am so proud! God has blessed me.

Update...as of 10/2013...still NED, and my son and daughter-in-law just had identical twin girls!!! They have blessed me with 3 beautiful grandchildren in 27 months!! Haha!
My beautiful daughter, Hanna, is still working toward her degree and working full-time.

God is so good:)
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Old 11-12-2010, 09:08 AM   #15
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I was just wondering about you the other day...so great to hear this news! Love is the most powerful thing, isn't it?
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Diagnosed 8/7/08 with stage 3 invasive ductal carcinoma, micropapillary pattern, Her2 3+, ER+,PR-, grade II, positive lymph nodes.
Received 6doses of Taxotere, Carboplatin with Herceptin continuing for a year...DONE.
1/28/09 Left Modified Radical Mastectomy, Right Simple Mastectomy.
Surgery pathology: No invasive carcinoma present and 17 lymph nodes removed all negative! Only small amount of carcinoma in situ in left breast.
March/April '09, Radiation to left chest wall.
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Old 11-19-2010, 07:44 PM   #16
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Congratulations Marie! Wishing you many long years of happiness.
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Left mast .9cm tumor 5 of 14 nodes
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12 Taxol/Herceptin
33Rads
Strange infect mast site one year aft surg, hosp 1 wk
Herceptin for total of 18 months
Lupron Monthly 4 yrs
Neurontin for aches, pains and hot flashes(It works!)
Ovaries removed 11/09 stop Lupron and Neurontin
Arimidex 6 yrs (tried Femara, no SE improvement)
Tried Exemestane-hips got so bad could hardly walk
Back to Arimidex for year seven
Zometa 2X Annual for 7years, Lasix
Stop Arimidex 5/13
Stop Zometa 7/13-Bi-lateral Stress Fractures in Femurs from Zometa
5/14 Start Tamoxifen
3/15 Stem cell transplant to stimulate femur bone growth/healing
5/15 Complete fracture of right femur/Titanium rods both femurs
9/16 Start Evista stopTamoxifen
3/17 Stop Evista--unwelcome side effects!
NED and no meds.......
14YEARS NED!
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