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Old 08-04-2015, 06:05 PM   #1
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Smile A Special Note on Christine's Birthday, From Her Daughter

Hi all,

I just wanted to come here and talk to you all on behalf of my sister, Debra, and me.

Today is what would have been the founder of this support group (and my mother) Christine Druther's 67th birthday.

On this special day, I'm in her 'hometown' of New York City for work, and have plans to head to East Village and pick up one of her favorite Italian desserts as a small 'celebration' in her honor.

When I think back on my mother's legacy, I can't help but think about all of you here on the HER2 Support website. She loved you all so much and was continuously inspired by all of your stories and the bonds you were able to build during such a critical time in your lives.

The fact that you all still continue using this, and that her 'HER2 sisters' Steph, Rhonda, and Becky continue to make sure this space remains maintained and available for you, speaks volumes and touches both my sister and me very much in the years following her passing.

Two things my mother always said were so crucial to her journey were positivity and a song. I know that pretty much all of us have a favorite song - a song that really keeps us feeling upbeat. On this special day, I hope you give that song a listen - both for yourself and for Mom.

God bless every single one of you. And from my sister and I, the warmest of hugs,

Danielle Druther
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Old 08-05-2015, 01:01 AM   #2
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Re: A Special Note on Christine's Birthday, From Her Daughter

Dear Danielle (and Debra),
Thank you for thinking of us on this special day. I am so grateful to your mother for founding this site, which has been such a wonderful source of support for me and so many other women, from all over the world. I will certainly play a favourite song tonight, maybe even sing (discordantly) along, and think of Christine.
Best wishes from Australia..... Pam
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Clear margins, no nodal involvement.
Radiotherapy, i year Tamoxifen, 4 years Arimidex.
Rediagnosed 2012: Multiple bone metastases.
3/12: began on Marianne trial - T-DM1 + Pertuzamab/Placebo.
5/12:Unexpected development of numerous bilateral liver mets. Came off trial.
Started Docetaxol/ Herceptin + Zometa.
8/12:Bones stable +major regression in liver (!)
9/12:Can't take any more Docetaxol! Start on Herceptin and Tamoxifen. Cross fingers!
Changed to Denosumab.
11/12: Scan shows stable - yay!
11/13: Still stable :-) !!!
1/16: All stable, but lowered calcium, so switched to Zometa 3 monthly.
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Old 08-05-2015, 12:52 PM   #3
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Re: A Special Note on Christine's Birthday, From Her Daughter

You girls must be so proud for what your mother has done to help all of us on this site that have HER2. It has provided me and so many others with a great deal of support and comfort. Having this site available meant so much to me. I would have been lost without it.

I will enjoy that favorite song in memory of your mother.

Take Care,
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11/2013 Hysterectomy, mass from PET/CT scan not cancer (adenomylosis)
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1/2014 Pathology report from surgery and SNB show complete pathological response!
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Old 08-05-2015, 04:05 PM   #4
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Re: A Special Note on Christine's Birthday, From Her Daughter

Thank you, Danielle. Your Mom and Dad did us all a great service by fighting for those of us with Her2 breast cancer. This site helped me so much in the early days of my diagnosis and I continue to stop by to catch up with others and cheer on those in the struggle.

Thank you and Debra for continuing the legacy of your parents. You bless us every day.
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7mm invasive component
Partial mast. 5/08
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Old 08-06-2015, 10:12 AM   #5
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Re: A Special Note on Christine's Birthday, From Her Daughter

Thank you so very much, Danielle. This forum has and continues to be a true Godsent gift to me and so many others, thanks to your mother. I am grateful every day for it and the friendships and advice i have found here.

I will definitely be singing that song!

Some dessert sounds good, too!

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Aug 18, 2013: MRI report says Left breast is perfectly healthy "consistent with previous studies".

Sept 2013: I insist on a bilateral mastectomy anyway. Too nervewracking to let left breast remain with higher risk after 3 cancers in right, nipple in right is already gone anyhow.

Sept 18, 2013: Bilateral mastectomy, 11 right nodes removed, ALL negative BUT -- ER+/PRO+/HER2+ tumor, 1.0 cm, Grade 2 found in a piece of "grossly unremarkable" breast tissue from prophylactic mastectomy of left breast, no nodes removed.

Oct 25, 2013: 13 left side nodes removed, ALL negative, Stage 1 across the board, NO RADS needed, YAAAAY! Port also installed.

Nov 25, 2013 Begin 6 rounds TCH.

March 10, 2014 Just finished 6th and LAST Chemo today, YAAAAAY!

March 24, 2014 Echocardiogram to make sure I'm still good for Herceptin every 3 weeks.

March 31, 2014 Echo results NORMAL, first Herceptin all by itself. Now if only my eyes would stop streaming from the Taxotere ... :)

April 21, 2014 Started Arimidex and therapy for "mild" lymphedema in left hand and arm

May 2014 Therapy completed, I have sleeves and gloves for both arms, a Flexi touch lymph pump to hook up to for an hour every day, and I've become an arm bandaging expert. :)

June 2014 Begin Fosamax to prevent osteoporosis; bone scan revealed osteopenia

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Dec 4, 2014 My right thigh muscle has been extra achy for days ... I discover a blister rash cluster on the side of my right thigh while taking a shower. Port appointment cancelled until Dec 17, my doc is working me in tomorrow afternoon to see me and the rash. My muscle at least feels less achy.

Dec 5, 2014 Yep, I have shingles. Boo! I start acyclovir and also have a prescription for a painkiller just in case for over the weekend.

Dec 17, 2014 Port is OUT!

January 2016 Shingles again and this time it started where my left breast (where the hidden HER2+++ tumor was!) used to be. My onc nurse got me a same day appointment to see my doc when I called and told her I had a rash on the site. The antiviral meds are working once again, though, so that is good news. :)
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Old 08-06-2015, 11:33 AM   #6
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Re: A Special Note on Christine's Birthday, From Her Daughter

Dear Danielle and Debra, your Mom is still very missed around here as is your Dad, Christine did an amazing thing by setting up this site and helping so many, and in fact continues to help so many after her passing still. I know you both must be so proud of her and her work, and thank you for your uplifting message.

Best wishes from Ireland. xx
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Old 08-06-2015, 03:40 PM   #7
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Re: A Special Note on Christine's Birthday, From Her Daughter

Thank you for sharing and thank you for this forum.
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  • Dx 7/20/15 cerebellar met 3.5x5cm HER2+/HR-/GATA3+ 7/23/15 Craniotomy.
  • 7/29/15 bone scan clear. 8/3/15 PET clean scan. LINAC SRS (5 fractions) Sept 2015. 9/17/15 CSF NED, 9/24/15 CSF NED, 11/2/15 CSF NED.
  • 10/27/15 atypical uptake in right cerebellum - inflammation?
  • 12/1/15 Leptomeningeal dx. Starting IT Herceptin.
  • 1/16 - 16 fractions of tomotherapy to cerebellum, break of IT Herceptin during rads, resume at 100 mg weekly
  • 3/2016 - stable scan
  • 5/2016 stable scan
  • 7/2016 pseudoprogression?
  • 9/2016 more LM, start new chemo protocol and IV therapy treatment with HBOT
  • 11/2016 Cyberknife to temporal lobe, HBOT just prior
  • 12/2016 - lesions starting to show shrinkage
  • 8/2017 - Stable since Dec 2016. Temporal lobe lesion gone.
  • Using TCM, naturopathic oncology, physical therapy, chiro, massage, medical qigong, and energetic healing modalities in tandem. Stops at nothing.
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Old 08-06-2015, 04:59 PM   #8
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Re: A Special Note on Christine's Birthday, From Her Daughter

The difference your family made, and continues to make, is incalculable
Keep the faith
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Bilateral mastectomy, (NED on left) May 2007
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OncoType score 36 (July 07)
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Began Herceptin alone 10/07
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D/C Femara 4/10 (joint pain/trigger thumb!)
5/10 mistakenly dx with lung cancer. Middle rt lobe removed!
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Old 08-07-2015, 05:44 AM   #9
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Re: A Special Note on Christine's Birthday, From Her Daughter

Thanks so much to both of you! We treasure this wonderful group.

I love music, and I love to sing. Right now I'm thinking of "You'll Never Walk Alone" from "Carousel."

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B7YhWIzd-gc
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4/29/11 CT scan shows suspicious lesions on liver and lungs
5/17/11 liver biopsy
5/24/11 liver met confirmed--Stage IV at diagnosis
5/27/11 Begin weekly Taxol & Herceptin for 3 months (standard of care at the time of my DX)
7/18/11 Switch to weekly Abraxane & Herceptin due to Taxol allergy
8/29/11 CT scan shows no new lesions & old lesions shrinking
9/27/11 Finish Abraxane. Start Herceptin every 3 weeks. Begin taking Arimidex
10/17/11--Brain MRI--No Brain mets
12/5/11 PET scan--Almost NED
5/15/12 PET scan shows progression-breast/chest/spine (one vertebra)
5/22/12 Stop taking Arimidex; stay on Herceptin
6/11/12 Started Tykerb and Herceptin on clinical trial (w/no chemo)
9/24/12 CT scan--No new mets. Everything stable.
3/11/13 CT Scan--two small new possible mets and odd looking area in left lung getting larger.
4/2/13--Biopsy of suspicious area in lower left lung. Mets to lung confirmed.
4/30/13 Begin Kadcyla/TDM-1
8/16/13 PET scan "mixed," with some areas of increased uptake, but also some definite improvement, so I'll stay on TDM-1/Kadcyla.
11/11/13 Finally get hormone receptor results from lung biopsy of 4/2/13. My cancer is no longer ER positive.
11/13/13 PET scan mixed results again. We're calling it "stable." Problems breathing on exertion.
2/18/14 PET scan shows a new lesion and newly active lymph node in chest, other progression. Bye bye TDM-1.
2/28/14 Begin Herceptin/Perjeta every 3 weeks.
6/8/14 PET "mixed," with no new lesions, and everything but lower lungs improving. My breathing is better.
8/18/14 PET "mixed" again. Upper lungs & one spine met stable, lower lungs less FDG avid, original tumor more avid, one lymph node in mediastinum more avid.
9/1/14 Begin taking Xeloda one week on, one week off. Will also stay on Herceptin and Perjeta every three weeks.
12/11/14 PET Scan--no new lesions, and everything looks better than it did.
3/20/15 PET Scan--no new lesions, but lower lung lesions larger and a bit more avid.
4/13/15 Increasing Xeloda dose to 10 days on, one week off.
7/1/15 Scan "mixed" again, but suggests continuing progression. Stop Xeloda. Substitute Abraxane every 3 weeks starting 7/13.
10/28/15 PET scan shows dramatic improvement everywhere. All lesions except lower lungs have resolved; lower lungs noticeably improved.
12/18/15 Last Abraxane. Continue on Herceptin and Perjeta alone beginning 1/8/16.
1/27/16 PET scan shows cancer is stable.
5/11/16 PET scan shows uptake in some areas that were resolved on the last two scans.
6/3/16 Begin Kadcyla and Tykerb combination
6/5 - 6/23 Horrible diarrhea from K&T together. Got pneumonia.
7/15/16 Begin Kadcyla only every 3 weeks.
9/6/16 Begin radiation therapy on right lung lesion that caused the pneumonia.
10/3/16 Last of 12 radiation treatments to right lung.
11/4/16 Huffing and puffing, low O2, high heart rate, on tiniest bit of exertion. Diagnosed as radiation pneumonitis. Treated with Prednisone.
11/11/16 PET scan shows significant improvement to radiated part of right lung BUT a bunch of new lung lesions, and the bone met is getting worse.
11/22/16 Begin Eribulin and Herceptin. H every 3 weeks. E two weeks on, one week off.
3/6/17 Scan shows progression in lungs. Bone met a little better.
3/23/17 Lung biopsy. Tumor sampled is ER-, PR+ (5%), HER2+++. Getting Herceptin and Perjeta as a maintenance treatment.
5/31/17 Port placement
6/1/17 Start Navelbine & Tykerb
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Old 08-07-2015, 10:04 PM   #10
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Re: A Special Note on Christine's Birthday, From Her Daughter

Thank you, Danielle, for looking in here and posting such a nice message.

Yes, I do remember Christine singing under her breath and sometimes louder than that at the cancer meetings! She knew how to keep the boogey man away.

I wish I could find a decent canole to eat in her honor!
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Found suspicious lump 9/2000
Lumpectomy, then node dissection and port placement
Stage IIB, 8 pos nodes of 18, Grade 3, ER & PR -
Adriamycin 12 weekly, taxotere 4 rounds
36 rads - very little burning
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2003 & 2004 no active disease - 3 weekly Herceptin + Zometa
Jan 2005 two mets to brain - Gamma Knife on Jan 18
All clear until treated cerebellum spot showing activity on Jan 2006 brain MRI & brain PET
Brain surgery on Feb 9, 2006 - no cancer, 100% radiation necrosis - tumor was still dying
Continue as NED while on Herceptin & quarterly Zometa
Fall-2006 - off Zometa - watching one small brain spot (scar?)
2007 - spot/scar in brain stable - finished anticoagulation therapy for clot along my port-a-catheter - 3 angioplasties to unblock vena cava
2008 - Brain and body still NED! Port removed and scans in Dec.
Dec 2008 - stop Herceptin - Vaccine Trial at U of W begun in Oct. of 2011
STILL NED everywhere in Feb 2014 - on wing & prayer
7/14 - Started twice yearly Zometa for my bones
Jan. 2015 checkup still shows NED
2015 Neuropathy in feet - otherwise all OK - still NED.
Same news for 2016 and half of 2017. Boring ...
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Old 08-09-2015, 01:50 AM   #11
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Re: A Special Note on Christine's Birthday, From Her Daughter

Dear Danielle, your parents are for ever in my heart. By building this forum they wanted to share hope and knowledge. What I always felt is that they were 2 beautiful persons.
The tone of this forum is very different and I really thank Steph, Rhonda, and Becky for taking care of it.
This forum saved my life because I was knowledgeable and helped me stay strong at difficult moments.
Thank you Christine. You are missed.
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12.2010 Mets to liver,Herceptin+Tykerb
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04.2016 Liver mets. Back on Kadcyla
08.2016 Kadcyla stopped working. mets to liver lungs bones
09.2016 Biopsy to liver. no more HER2, still ER+
09.2016 CMF Afinitor/Aromasin/ Xgeva.Met to eye muscle Cyberknife
01.2017 Gemzar/Carboplatin/ Ibrance/Faslodex then Taxotere
02.2017 30 micro mets to brain breathing getting worse and worse
04.2017 Liquid biopsy/CTC indicates HER2 again. Start Herceptin with Halaven
06.2017 all tumors shrunk 60% . more micro mets to brain (1mm mets) no symptoms
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Old 08-09-2015, 04:11 AM   #12
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Re: A Special Note on Christine's Birthday, From Her Daughter

Thank you for this message...and reminder of "where it all began". An amazing gift...
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5/05 suspicious mammogram-left breast
5/05 biopsy-invasive lobular carcinoma with LCIS,8mm tumor,stage 1 grade 2, ER+ PR+ Her2+++
6/14/05 bilateral mastectomy, node neg. all scans neg.
Oncotype DX-high risk
8/05-10/05 4 rounds A/C
10/05 -10/06 1 yr. herceptin
arimidex-5 years
2/14/08 started daily self administered injections..FORTEO for severe osteoporosis
7/28/09 BRCA 1 negative BRCA2 POSITIVE
8/17/09 prophylactic salpingo-oophorectomy
10/15/10 last FORTEOinjection
RECLAST infusion(ostoeporosis)
6/14/10 5 year cancerversary!
8/2010-18%increase in bone density!
no further treatments
Oncologist says, "Go do the Happy Dance"
I say,"What a long strange trip its been"
'One day at a time'
6-14-2015. 10 YEAR CANCERVERSARY!
7-16 to 9-16. Extensive (and expensive) dental work done to save teeth. Damage from osteoporosis and chemo and long term bisphosphonate use
6-14-16. 11 YEAR CANCERVERSARY!!
7-20-16 Prolia injection for severe osteoporosis
2 days later, massive hive outbreak. This led to an eventual dx of Chronic Ideopathic Urticaria, an auto-immune disease from HELL.
6-14-17 12 YEAR CANCERVERSARY!!
still suffering from CIU. 4 hospitilizations in the past year

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Old 08-09-2015, 04:21 AM   #13
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Re: A Special Note on Christine's Birthday, From Her Daughter

Hello Danielle,
What a lovely touching message, thank you. I celebrate the birth of your mother along with you and your family and friends.
You and Debra must be so proud of what Joe and Christine created and how many people around the world it has helped and continues to help. This site has definitely made my journey easier. Hardly a day goes by that I don't think of Joe and Christine and thank them for the unbelievable gift they have given us. You have extraordinary parents with such vision and generosity. If only the world had more people like them.
As an ex-New Yorker,( one of my favorite cities or places that I have ever lived in and I've lived in a few!), I can taste those wonderful cannolis! Too bad that so much of Little Italy has been taken over by Chinatown.
And songs, couldn't survive without music! my song through my second recurrence (thought it was curtains for me) during chemo was the Eagles "Get over it" and it helped me whenever I started to feel sorry for myself!
Thank you Danielle and thank you Stephanie, Rhonda and Becky for keeping this site alive. It continues to be so important to us all and you have all become my family.
"Oh Happy Day"
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Old 08-10-2015, 12:19 PM   #14
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What a lovely message.

Christine and Joe created a wonderful site. Where would I have been without it when diagnosed in 2006.

What a lovely mother and father you had.

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Old 08-13-2015, 03:04 PM   #15
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Danielle,
Thanks for the lovely note to us...your mom and dad have helped so many through this website, it is one of the richest gifts I've ever received. While I never spoke with your mom, I was fortunate to speak with your dad, once on the phone and also thru emails. What great people!!

Thanks also to Becky, Steph and Rhonda for keeping our "living room" furnished.
With much gratitude, Flori
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2002 recurrence. Bilateral mastectomy w/TFL autologous recon. Then ACx2. Skin lymphatic rash. Taxotere w/Herceptin x4. Herceptin/Xeloda. Finally stops spreading.
2003 - Back to surgery, to remove skin mets. Not able to get clear margins. So schedule another surgery one week later when pathology can confirm margins.
‘03 latisimus dorsi flap to remove skin mets. CLEAN MARGINS. Continue single agent Herceptin thru 4/04. NED.
‘04 '05 & 06 tiny recurrences - scar line – cut out, cut out, cut out. NED each time.
1/2006 Rads again, to scar line. NED.
3/07 Heartbreaking news - mets! lungs.sternum. Try Tykerb/Xeloda. Tykerb/Carbo/Gemzar. Switch Oncs.
12/07 Herceptin.Tykerb. Markers go stable. New onc orders PET/ct & Brain MRI to re-stage me.
2/8/08 gamma knife 13mm stupid brain met.
3/08 Herceptin/tykerb/avastin/zometa.
3/09 brain NED. Lungs STABLE.
4/09 attack sternum (10 daysPHOTONS.5 days ELECTRONS)
9/09 MARKERS normal!
3/10 PET/CT=manubrium intensely metabolically active but stable. NEDhead.
Wash out 5/10 for tdm1 trial but then 6/10 CT STABLE, PET improving. Markers normal. Brain NED. Resume just Herceptin plus ZOMETA
Dec 2010 Brain NED, lungs/sternum stable. markers normal.
MAR 2011 stop Herceptin/allergy! Go back on Tykerb and switch to Xgeva.
May-Aug 2011 Tykerb Herceptin Xgeva. (premeds for Herceptin now)
Sept 2011 Tykerb, Herceptin, Zometa, Avastin. (switched back to Zometa, pet/ct bone mets seemed worse on Xgeva)
April 2012 sketchy drug trial in NYC. 6 weeks later I’m NED!
OCT 2012 PET/CT shows a bunch of freakin’ progression. Back to LA and Herceptin.avastin.zometa.
12/20/12 add in PERJETA!
March 2013 – 5 YEARS POST GAMMA ZAPPA continue HAPZ
APRIL 2013 - cancerversary 17 years from original diagnosis. 6 yrs stage 4. [/COLOR][/B]
"FAILED" PETscan on 4/2/13 (WTF)
May 2013: rePetted - improvement in lungs, left adrenal stable, right 6th rib inactive, (must be PERJETA avastin) sternum and L1 fruckin'worsen. Drop zometa. ADD Xgeva. Doc says get rads consultant for L1 and possible biopsy of L1. I say, no thanks, doc. Lets see what xgeva brings to the table first. It's summer.
June-August 2013HAPX Herceptin Avastin Perjeta xgeva.
Sept - now - on chemo hold for calming tummy we hope. Markers stable for 2 months.
Nov 2013 - Herceptin-Perjeta-Avastin-Xgeva (collageneous colitis, which explains tummy probs, added Entocort)
December '13 BRAIN MRI ned in da head.
Jan 2014: CONTINUING on HAPX…
FEB 2014 PetCT clinical “impression”: 1. newbie nodule - SUV 1.5 right apical nodule, mildly hypermetabolic “suggestive” of worsening neoplastic lesion. 2. moderate worsening of the sternum – SUV 5.6 from 3.8
3. increasing sclerosis & decreasing activity of L1 met “suggests” mild healing. (SUV 9.4 v 12.1 in May ‘13)
4. scattered lung nodules, up to 5mm in size = stable, no increased activity
5. other small scattered sclerotic lesions, one in right iliac and one in thoracic vertebral body similar in appearance to L1 without PET activity and not clearly pathologic
APRIL 2014 - NEWSFLASH:
6 YEARS POST GAMMA ZAPPA, 7 YEARS STAGE 4 and 18 YEARS FROM ORIGINAL DX! (CUCK FANCER)
October 2014: hold avastin, continue HPX
Feb 2015 Cancer you lost. NEDHEAD 7 years post gamma zap miracle, 8 years ST4, +19 yrs original diagnosis.
Continue Herceptin, PERJETA, xgeva. Adding back Avastin to see if lungs will go quiet
Nov 2015 pet/ct is mixed result. L1 SUV is worse. Continue Herceptin/avastin/xgeva. Might revisit Perjeta for L1. Meantime going for rads consult for L1 and due for MRI brain check (check please!).
December 2015 - brain stable. Continue Herceptin, Perjeta, Avastin and xgeva.
Jan 2016: 5 days, 20 grays, Rads to L1 and continue on HAPX. I’m trying to "save" TDM1 for next line. Hope the rads work to quiet L1. Sciatic pain extraordinaire :((
Markers drop post rads.
2/24/16 HAP plus X - markers are down: CA15‐3=46.9 CEA=12.3 CA 27.2=79 SCIATIC PAIN DEAL BREAKER.
3/23/16 Laminectomy w/coflex implant L4/5. NO MORE SCIATIC PAIN!!! Healing.
APRIL 2016 - 9 YEARS STAGE FOUR!
(20 years from original diagnosis) July 2016 - continue HAP plus Xgeva. Not NED but not DEaD.
DEC 2016 - PETCT: mets to sternum, lungs, L1 still about the same in size and PET activity. Markers not bad. Not making changes if I don't need to. Herceptin/Perjeta/Avastin/Xgeva
2017 I AM COMING FOR YOU!
April 2017 - TEN YEARS STAGE 4 - CUCK FANCER!
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Old 08-13-2015, 04:47 PM   #16
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Re: A Special Note on Christine's Birthday, From Her Daughter

Danielle,

Please know that every day the efforts of your dear Mom and Dad are felt by many - the entire Her2 support group community is eternally grateful to your parents.

Definitely was/is a huge part in keeping my sanity while going through treatment, post treatment and beyond.

all the best
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3 x FEC, 3 x Taxotere
Herceptin - every 3 weeks for a year, finished May 8/08

Tamoxifen - 2 1/2 years
Femara - Jan. 1, 2010 - July 18, 2012
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Old 08-14-2015, 07:59 PM   #17
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Re: A Special Note on Christine's Birthday, From Her Daughter

Danielle,

Your mom and dad helped many of us continue to celebrate birthdays, so celebrating Christine's birthday is very fitting.

I am very happy to continue to be a part of this wonderful site and share the support and knowledge of all our members.

My love to you and Debra, and many thanks for continuing the legacy.
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DX 2/15/05 Stage IIb (at surgery)restaged IIIa
Left mast .9cm tumor 5 of 14 nodes
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12 Taxol/Herceptin
33Rads
Strange infect mast site one year aft surg, hosp 1 wk
Herceptin for total of 18 months
Lupron Monthly 4 yrs
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Ovaries removed 11/09 stop Lupron and Neurontin
Arimidex 6 yrs (tried Femara, no SE improvement)
Tried Exemestane-hips got so bad could hardly walk
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Zometa 2X Annual for 7years, Lasix
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Stop Zometa 7/13-Bi-lateral Stress Fractures in Femurs from Zometa
5/14 Start Tamoxifen
3/15 Stem cell transplant to stimulate femur bone growth/healing
5/15 Complete fracture of right femur/Titanium rods both femurs
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Old 08-16-2015, 12:08 PM   #18
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Re: A Special Note on Christine's Birthday, From Her Daughter

Dear Danielle and Debra,

Your Mom and Dad made a difference. Because of them, so many women and men feel less afraid, less alone and more hopeful during the toughest time of their lives. Their legacy has created a community where those who need support are accepted unconditionally, where those looking for information can find it, where those who feel lost are embraced. I cannot begin to express what this site has meant to me and to others. You must be very, very proud.

Jacqueline, from the Netherlands, Europe
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