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05-10-2010, 06:02 PM
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Adrien from Sydney is an angel now
Adrien's partner Jan has asked me to let you all know this sad news. Adrien has always been a great support to many of us on the Her2 website. I will miss her immensely. I have included Jan's email to me below:
Dear Emily
I just read your email and am sorry to tell you that Adrien was in RPA hospital when she had a brain haemorrhage and died Tuesday evening. She had a bleed at about 2.30 pm - Carole her friend of 25 yrs was there just after the seizure and talked to her before she went for a CT scan. Claire her daughter got there soon after, as did I and her mum Peg. She was unconscious by then and we all four held her until she died. We told her we loved her and held her hand. We played Bach Flute Sonatas and Music of the Spanish Renaissance. Remarkably she had not been in pain and went gently when she stopped breathing and her heart stopped at 8.15.
She found the Her2 site supportive and it helped her deal with her questions and fears. Please let the others know that she had not been and was not in pain - miraculously - and she was herself to the end. I had a lovely visit with her and a friend the previous evening and her niece and mother also did that morning. She was such a beautiful person and as a friend of ours said 'She has lived her life with such immense courage and grace.' She connected with so many people with her open heart and beautiful spirit.
I am heart broken - it is still so strange that she is no longer in this world.
The funeral is in Sydney on Tuesday at 2.30.
love
Jan & Adrien
xxx
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05-10-2010, 06:23 PM
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Senior Member
Join Date: Nov 2004
Location: Misty woods of WA State
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Re: Adrien from Sydney is an angel now
Thank you very much Emily for passing this to the group.
Very sorry to hear that one.
Funny enough I was just picturing her avatar this morning and thinking she had been absent lately. Was hoping she was just in treatment and feeling crummy from that.
Prayers for strength and comfort to her family and friends.
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MY STORY SO FAR ~~~~
Found suspicious lump 9/2000
Lumpectomy, then node dissection and port placement
Stage IIB, 8 pos nodes of 18, Grade 3, ER & PR -
Adriamycin 12 weekly, taxotere 4 rounds
36 rads - very little burning
3 mos after rads liver full of tumors, Stage IV Jan 2002, one spot on sternum
Weekly Taxol, Navelbine, Herceptin for 27 rounds to NED!
2003 & 2004 no active disease - 3 weekly Herceptin + Zometa
Jan 2005 two mets to brain - Gamma Knife on Jan 18
All clear until treated cerebellum spot showing activity on Jan 2006 brain MRI & brain PET
Brain surgery on Feb 9, 2006 - no cancer, 100% radiation necrosis - tumor was still dying
Continue as NED while on Herceptin & quarterly Zometa
Fall-2006 - off Zometa - watching one small brain spot (scar?)
2007 - spot/scar in brain stable - finished anticoagulation therapy for clot along my port-a-catheter - 3 angioplasties to unblock vena cava
2008 - Brain and body still NED! Port removed and scans in Dec.
Dec 2008 - stop Herceptin - Vaccine Trial at U of W begun in Oct. of 2011
STILL NED everywhere in Feb 2014 - on wing & prayer
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05-10-2010, 06:40 PM
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Senior Member
Join Date: May 2008
Location: Hershey, PA. Live The Sweet Life!
Posts: 2,005
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Re: Adrien from Sydney is an angel now
So very sad to hear of another of our losses. Thank you, Jan, for sharing this news with us, and thank you, Adrien, for sharing your journey with us all.
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Dx'd w/multifocal DCIS/IDS 3/08
7mm invasive component
Partial mast. 5/08
Stage 1b, ER 80%, PR 90%, HER-2 6.9 on FISH
0/5 nodes
4 AC, 4 TH finished 9/08
Herceptin every 3 weeks. Finished 7/09
Tamoxifen 10/08. Switched to Femara 8/09
Bilat SPM w/reconstruction 10/08
Clinical Trial w/Clondronate 12/08
Stopped Clondronate--too hard on my gizzard!
Switched back to Tamoxifen due to tendon pain from Femara
15 Years NED
I think I just might hang around awhile....
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05-10-2010, 06:48 PM
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Senior Member
Join Date: Jan 2008
Location: "Love never fails."
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Re: Adrien from Sydney is an angel now
Another angel earned her wings. We'll miss you, Adrien, as all your dear friends and family do.
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Recc IIB 2.5 cm Bi-L Mast 61407 2/9 nds PET
6 TCH Cellulitis - Lymphedema - compression sleeve & glove
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Tamoxifen B. scan
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05-11-2010, 12:51 AM
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Senior Member
Join Date: Oct 2005
Location: New Jersey
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Re: Adrien from Sydney is an angel now
This is always sad news to hear ....my deepest sympathy to Adrein's family and loved ones. She will be missed on the site.
jean
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Lumpectomy 4/15/05 - 6MM IDC
Node Neg. (Sentinel node)
ER+ 90% / PR-, Her2+++ by FISH
Ki-67 40%
Arimidex 5/05
Radiation 32 trt, 5/30/05
Oncotype DX test 4/17/06, 31% high risk
TOPO 11 neg. 4/06
Stopped Arimidex 5/06
TCH 5/06, 6 treatments
Herceptin 5/06 - for 1 yr.
9/06 Completed chemo
Started Femara Sept. 2006
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05-11-2010, 03:03 AM
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Re: Adrien from Sydney is an angel now
So sorry to hear this sad news.Sending my sincere condolences to all her friends and family.
Ellie
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05-11-2010, 05:22 AM
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Senior Member
Join Date: Nov 2005
Location: Ireland
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Re: Adrien from Sydney is an angel now
I also am so saddened to hear this news, my condolences to her family and thanks for updating us.
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Dx July '05 IDC 1.9cm Triple positive 3/9 nodes positive
A/C X 4 ..Taxol/Herceptin x 12 wks then herceptin 1 yr
Rads x 36 ..oophorectomy August '06
Currently taking Arimidex..
June 2011 osteopenia/ zometa x1 yearly- stopped Zometa 2015 as Dexa show normal bone density.
Stopped Arimidex July 2014- Restarted Arimidex 2015 for a further two years on the advice of my Onc.
2014 Normal Dexa scan
2018 Mammo all clear, still NED!
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05-11-2010, 12:45 PM
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Senior Member
Join Date: Jul 2007
Location: Canada
Posts: 2,193
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Re: Adrien from Sydney is an angel now
Adrien fought the beast very hard ... I'm so sorry to hear
this news.
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Dx Aug/05 at age 51
2cm. Stage 2A, Grade 3
ER+/PR-
Her2 +++
Sept 7/05 Mastectomy
4 FAC, 4 Taxol, no radiation
1 year of Herceptin
Tamoxifen for approx. 4 months,
Arimidex for 5 years
Prophylactic mastectomy June 22/09
" I yam what I yam." - Popeye
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05-11-2010, 01:16 PM
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Senior Member
Join Date: Sep 2009
Location: Kensington, CT
Posts: 394
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Re: Adrien from Sydney is an angel now
I am sorry to hear the news. My thoughts and prayers are with your family.
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06/08/09 - 55, IDC, IIIA, ER+/PR-/HER+++
Nottingham 6/9 - Grade 2 5.2cm, several nodes
06/23/09 - Neoadjuvant - TCH Herceptin til June
10/07/09 - Finished Chemo
10/27/09 - Mastectomy RB
Path Report: RB No residual tumor pCR,
2 of 15 pos - .5mm largest micromets
12/18/09 - Radiation started (28)
02/05/10 - Finished Radiation
01/11/10 - Started Femara
06/22/10 - Finished Herceptin.. My son's 22nd BD. Hope it's a sign! Hoping for the best.
11/15/10 - Started Walter Reed BC Vaccine trial at
1/04/11 - Sibley Mem. Had to withdraw due to met
01/23/11 - Stage IV - Brain Met 1.6cm 1.7cm
02/03/11 - Gamma Knife (2 fracts to minmize necrosis)
03/01/11 - Gamma Knife
6/11 - Necrosis
7/11 - Necrosis stopped & Tumor progression
8/11 = Now think it's really necrosis
9/11 - Avastin every two weeks -- It's working!! Necrosis is shrinking.
12/11 - Necrosis gone AVASTIN worked.
12/11 - Bone &CT found
Oct '10 - Ran Hartford 1/2 Marathon to Thank Dr. Slamon for Herceptin!
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05-12-2010, 02:24 PM
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Senior Member
Join Date: Feb 2008
Location: Georgia
Posts: 1,486
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Re: Adrien from Sydney is an angel now
Adrien will be missed. I send my condolences to the family.
Amelia
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05-13-2010, 06:02 AM
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Senior Member
Join Date: Aug 2003
Location: Morris, IL
Posts: 3,507
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Re: Adrien from Sydney is an angel now
Adrien will be sorely missed....my deepest sympathies to her family.....yet another angel from our group
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Diagnosed at age 49.99999 2/21/2002 via Mammography (Calcifications)
Core Biopsy 2/22/02
L. Mastectomy 2/25/2002
Stage 1, 0.7cm IDC, Node Neg from 19 nodes Her2+++ ER PR Neg
6/2003 Reconstruction W/ Tissue Expander, Silicone Implant
9/2003 Stage IV with Mets to Supraclavicular nodes
9/2003 Began Herceptin every 3 weeks
3/2006 Xeloda 2500mg/Herceptin for recurrence to neck nodes
3/2007 Added back the Xeloda with Herceptin for continued mets to nodes
5/2007 Taken Off Xeloda, no longer working
6/14/07 Taxol/Herceptin/Avastin
3/26 - 5/28/08 Taxol Holiday Whopeeeeeeeee
5/29 2008 Back on Taxol w Herceptin q 2 weeks
4/2009 Progression on Taxol & Paralyzed L Vocal Cord from Nodes Pressing on Nerve
5/2009 Begin Rx with Navelbine/Herceptin
11/09 Progression on Navelbine
Fought for and started Tykerb/Herceptin...nodes are melting!!!!!
2/2010 Back to Avastin/Herceptin
5/2010 Switched to Metronomic Chemo with Herceptin...Cytoxan and Methotrexate
Pericardial Window Surgery to Drain Pericardial Effusion
7/2010 Back to walking a mile a day...YEAH!!!!
9/2010 Nodes are back with a vengence in neck
Qualified for TDM-1 EAP
10/6/10 Begin my miracle drug, TDM-1
Mixed response, shrinking internal nodes, progression skin mets after 3 treatments
12/6/10 Started Halaven (Eribulen) /Herceptin excellent results in 2 treatments
2/2011 I CELEBRATE my 9 YEAR MARK!!!!!!!!!!!!!
7/5/11 begin Gemzar /Herceptin for node progression
2/8/2012 Gemzar stopped, Continue Herceptin
2/20/2012 Begin Tomo Radiation to Neck Nodes
2/21/2012 I CELEBRATE 10 YEARS
5/12/2012 BeganTaxotere/ Herceptin is my next miracle for new node progression
6/28/12 Stopped Taxotere due to pregression, Started Perjeta/Herceptin
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