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Old 11-02-2012, 07:33 AM   #1
Paula O
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You guys doing anything special this weekend?

Hi,

My two daughters (15 and 13) and I are going on a fun camping trip with about 8 - 10 other families this weekend. My husband and son aren't into camping but us ladies of the family sure are!

Last year I caught the Carpe Diem-"Seize the Day" message from a movie "Courageous" (highly reccomend it http://www.imdb.com/title/tt1630036/) that spurred me on to stop putting off camping. I loved it as a kid and my girls had wanted to go for years and I kept procrastinating, especially since my husband is not into it and we normally would make something like this a family outing. After I got one of the take-away messages from the movie we three had a perfectly FANTASTIC "Girl's weekend" summer campout and here we go again on another grand adventure this weekend. We are stretching it out--on the way there, we are stopping off for lunch, then the puppy store to snuggle puppies, then shopping. We might get tubing in if it's not too nippy at the Springs. We've got our swim suits packed. I love to go tubing! It's in the low 80s/high 70s this weekend in Florida but the water there can be pretty chilly, especially if we're wet and it's breezy.

Here's my challenge to all of us, me included, to no longer put off fun things that we or our husbands or kids or friends want to do with us, healthy or not as healthy as we'd like! No time like the present--let's seize the day to whatever measure we are physically able to do. Remember dear Courtney's avitar? It was a photo of her "living like she was living", not like she was dying--her photo of her hiking/travelling was inspiring. I know there are times that we are just to sick to do everything we'd like to be doing but we can still make time doing what we find enjoyable, like make time for a hobby, to read a good book, call a friend, etc if a lot of exertion is too much right then. Are you guys putting off anything you can go ahead and plan to do? Maybe book that ticket or mark down the plan on your calender then DO IT!

Anyone else want to share your weekend plans?

Have a great day!

Paula
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Old 11-02-2012, 08:58 AM   #2
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Re: You guys doing anything special this weekend?

Great thread! My husband and I will do a "Giro d'Vino" bike ride in Northern CA. 75 Km (just under 50 miles), with 14 rest stops all at wineries. Wine tasting included I won't be drinking any wine during the ride as I'll be the designated driver on the way back. Can't wait for it although we'll miss 2 soccer games for our kids.

But as you said we can't put off fun things anymore so we just have to make choices of which fun things to do!
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Old 11-02-2012, 10:39 AM   #3
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I am leaving for a cruise tomorrow. St. Thomas, St. Martin and and one other port. Our yearly get away, just to relax and try and forget about cancer. Supposed to be going up to Illinois for Thanksgiving, but the doc may put a damper on it and not let me fly with all the fluid in me. Had belly drained, but have some in my lung. So all I can do is hope he will let me go. Blessings to all, Jeanette
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Old 11-02-2012, 01:41 PM   #4
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Re: You guys doing anything special this weekend?

I'm so glad you asked! Leaving tomorrow morning for a family vacation. Stopping in Maryland to see my nephew (bringing his family Jersey subs) for a couple of hours. We plan to spend Saturday night in NC. Sunday morning we'll get up, go to church, then hit the road again. We should be arriving in Orlando Sunday evening. We'll be there until Thursday, when we take the autotrain up to Virginia to attend a wedding, before coming home.

Whew. Sorry about the itinerary. Just had chemo today, so I'm praying I feel ok. Don't want to ruin anyone's fun!

- Penny

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July 2010 IDC grade 3 stage 3 er-/pr-/her2+++, BRCA2
Skin mets 11/10
1/12/11 Surgery path - complete response
Rads 2/11-4/11
Liver mets 11/11 now stage IV
Xeloda & Tykerb 12/11
Allergic reaction to Tykerb 12/11
Xeloda only 12/11
Added herceptin January 2012
Progression February 2012.
Started Veliparib (parp inhibitor) trial 3/5/12.
4/30/12 Liver met shrunk in half! Praise Jesus!
6/18/12 another 25% shrinkage, down to @3x3. Thank you, God!
8/8/12 Brain MRI - clear! Praise to You, Lord Jesus Christ!
8/27/12 Thank You, God - another 20% decrease in liver met! Now @ 3.2x1.9.
10/5/12 stable-ish
11/21/12 allergic reaction to carboplatin
12/10/12 stable & progression
12/31/12 liver ablation
2/6/13 ablation successful but new tiny mets in liver. May or not be cancer.
Another ablation scheduled 2/28/13. Cancelled.
2/20/13 started taxotere & herceptin. Pretty toxic. Oncologist says start tdm1 4/3/13. From her lips to God's ears. Praying for no allergic reactions/adverse side effects.
3/28/13 increase in liver mets - number & size
4/3/13 started TDM1
6/25/13 Praise God! Scan shows only one viable lesion and it's smaller.
10/8/13 MRI shows 1 large and two small tumors.
10/11/13 Ablation of tumors. It's in God's Hands.
10/23/13 Jesus and TDM1
12/19/13 Started trial of palbociclib & herceptin after scan showed growth of liver tumor and a questionable spot on rib.
2/6/14 CT scan - previous suspicious spot on rib probably damage from radiation - Praise God! MRI - over 200% growth in cancer in liver.
2/19/14 started Navelbine, Perjeta, & Herceptin combo.
5/2-5/4/14 hospitalized with very high liver function numbers, plus skin and eyes are yellow, plus urine is orange. Feel ok, so doctor not sure if liver failing due to cancer, chemo, or infection. Hospital gets numbers to go down and sends me home. MRI done in hospital reveals cancer shrinking - praise God!
5/6/14 - 5/8/14 hospitalized with no white blood cell count. Released when they go back up, @ 6 days after doctor gave me a neulasta shot.
5/16/14 - informed blood cultures done in hospital are back and that I contracted hepatitis e. Have to take ribavirin (anti-hep med) until liver function numbers are back to "normal" before re-starting chemo. Will probably go on veliparib and temodar this time.
5/26/14 - my birthday - GI doctor informed me that the hepatitis e was completely gone - I didn't even need the anti-viral meds! This is a miracle from God!
5/28/14 - started veliparib and temodar (compassionate use)
8/18/14 MRI shows 90% growth in liver tumors
8/20/14 start Perjeta, Herceptin, & Navelbine. Thanking & giving Glory to God for each moment.
9/22/14 - 9/24/14 Hospitalized with 102.2 fever and neutropenia
11/13/14 ER for high fever and fast heart rate. Got both down with IV antibiotic and fluids. Sent home same night. Thank You, Lord!
12/2/14 MRI shows progression in liver. Grateful to God that I still feel good.
12/11/14 Simulated SIR-spheres. Successful. Real thing (1st lobe) scheduled for the 23rd. Also starting Xeloda on 22nd for 2 weeks because it's synergistic with the spheres.
12/23/14 SIR-spheres in left lobe of liver. On Xeloda 12/22/14 - 1/4/15.
1/7/15 Receiving Perjeta & Herceptin while awaiting next course of action.
2/9/15 SIR-spheres in right lobe of liver. On Xeloda for 2 weeks (started 2/8). Still on Perjeta & Herceptin. Don't know what's next for me. :-)
3/25/15 Final read on MRI report - there are new and multiple lesions in both lobes of liver. Sigh. Praise God I've made it this far!
4/1/15 Started Gemzar & Herceptin. 1st week G&H, 2nd week G only, 3rd week off. Thank You, Lord, for this option.
4/15/15 Labcorp - liver enzymes in 200's. Appointment 4/22 with oncologist to discuss. Also, "radiation recall" in previously treated area? Very itchy. Need to discuss.
4/22/15 Enzymes came down. Received reduced dose of Gemzar only. No herceptin. Will get labs at lapcorp next two weeks since taking break for vacation purposes. Treat radiation area.
5/9/15 ER for severe abdominal pain. Constipation. Sent home with meds and advice to follow up with oncologist regarding jaundice and bilirubin.
5/11/15 Hospitalized for rising bilirubin and jaundice. CT scan reveals larger and more constricting tumors in liver.
5/13/15 Met with my oncologist. Bilirubin came down. If still down by Monday, I'll get chemo. If not, than I guess I'll see you all in Heaven. Praise God. Please pray, pray, pray.
5/18/15 Bilirubin jumped up. Trying lowered dose of Ixempra, with Herceptin. Oncologist is surprised that I'm functioning so well, given the high bilirubin. I have anywhere from 2 weeks - 2 months to live.
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Old 11-02-2012, 03:32 PM   #5
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Re: You guys doing anything special this weekend?

Great topic! It's my 50th birthday today and my husband's tomorrow. We have been celebrating all week. We are having a big party tomorrow at one of our favorite restaurants with 36 friends. I have my best friend from college coming into town and spending the night, too. I am all in favor of the birthday week celebration.

We try to plan something almost every month, traveling and visiting friends and family. Living in the moment and for now is something we have always done but even more with my situation.

Enjoy all!
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Old 11-04-2012, 02:14 AM   #6
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Re: You guys doing anything special this weekend?

Had a great time with my nephew and his family yesterday in Maryland. Made it to Fayetteville, NC last night 9pm. Hitting the road 7am. Loving that extra hour this morning. Don't forget to set your clocks back! Should be in Orlando @6pm this evening, God-willing.
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July 2010 IDC grade 3 stage 3 er-/pr-/her2+++, BRCA2
Skin mets 11/10
1/12/11 Surgery path - complete response
Rads 2/11-4/11
Liver mets 11/11 now stage IV
Xeloda & Tykerb 12/11
Allergic reaction to Tykerb 12/11
Xeloda only 12/11
Added herceptin January 2012
Progression February 2012.
Started Veliparib (parp inhibitor) trial 3/5/12.
4/30/12 Liver met shrunk in half! Praise Jesus!
6/18/12 another 25% shrinkage, down to @3x3. Thank you, God!
8/8/12 Brain MRI - clear! Praise to You, Lord Jesus Christ!
8/27/12 Thank You, God - another 20% decrease in liver met! Now @ 3.2x1.9.
10/5/12 stable-ish
11/21/12 allergic reaction to carboplatin
12/10/12 stable & progression
12/31/12 liver ablation
2/6/13 ablation successful but new tiny mets in liver. May or not be cancer.
Another ablation scheduled 2/28/13. Cancelled.
2/20/13 started taxotere & herceptin. Pretty toxic. Oncologist says start tdm1 4/3/13. From her lips to God's ears. Praying for no allergic reactions/adverse side effects.
3/28/13 increase in liver mets - number & size
4/3/13 started TDM1
6/25/13 Praise God! Scan shows only one viable lesion and it's smaller.
10/8/13 MRI shows 1 large and two small tumors.
10/11/13 Ablation of tumors. It's in God's Hands.
10/23/13 Jesus and TDM1
12/19/13 Started trial of palbociclib & herceptin after scan showed growth of liver tumor and a questionable spot on rib.
2/6/14 CT scan - previous suspicious spot on rib probably damage from radiation - Praise God! MRI - over 200% growth in cancer in liver.
2/19/14 started Navelbine, Perjeta, & Herceptin combo.
5/2-5/4/14 hospitalized with very high liver function numbers, plus skin and eyes are yellow, plus urine is orange. Feel ok, so doctor not sure if liver failing due to cancer, chemo, or infection. Hospital gets numbers to go down and sends me home. MRI done in hospital reveals cancer shrinking - praise God!
5/6/14 - 5/8/14 hospitalized with no white blood cell count. Released when they go back up, @ 6 days after doctor gave me a neulasta shot.
5/16/14 - informed blood cultures done in hospital are back and that I contracted hepatitis e. Have to take ribavirin (anti-hep med) until liver function numbers are back to "normal" before re-starting chemo. Will probably go on veliparib and temodar this time.
5/26/14 - my birthday - GI doctor informed me that the hepatitis e was completely gone - I didn't even need the anti-viral meds! This is a miracle from God!
5/28/14 - started veliparib and temodar (compassionate use)
8/18/14 MRI shows 90% growth in liver tumors
8/20/14 start Perjeta, Herceptin, & Navelbine. Thanking & giving Glory to God for each moment.
9/22/14 - 9/24/14 Hospitalized with 102.2 fever and neutropenia
11/13/14 ER for high fever and fast heart rate. Got both down with IV antibiotic and fluids. Sent home same night. Thank You, Lord!
12/2/14 MRI shows progression in liver. Grateful to God that I still feel good.
12/11/14 Simulated SIR-spheres. Successful. Real thing (1st lobe) scheduled for the 23rd. Also starting Xeloda on 22nd for 2 weeks because it's synergistic with the spheres.
12/23/14 SIR-spheres in left lobe of liver. On Xeloda 12/22/14 - 1/4/15.
1/7/15 Receiving Perjeta & Herceptin while awaiting next course of action.
2/9/15 SIR-spheres in right lobe of liver. On Xeloda for 2 weeks (started 2/8). Still on Perjeta & Herceptin. Don't know what's next for me. :-)
3/25/15 Final read on MRI report - there are new and multiple lesions in both lobes of liver. Sigh. Praise God I've made it this far!
4/1/15 Started Gemzar & Herceptin. 1st week G&H, 2nd week G only, 3rd week off. Thank You, Lord, for this option.
4/15/15 Labcorp - liver enzymes in 200's. Appointment 4/22 with oncologist to discuss. Also, "radiation recall" in previously treated area? Very itchy. Need to discuss.
4/22/15 Enzymes came down. Received reduced dose of Gemzar only. No herceptin. Will get labs at lapcorp next two weeks since taking break for vacation purposes. Treat radiation area.
5/9/15 ER for severe abdominal pain. Constipation. Sent home with meds and advice to follow up with oncologist regarding jaundice and bilirubin.
5/11/15 Hospitalized for rising bilirubin and jaundice. CT scan reveals larger and more constricting tumors in liver.
5/13/15 Met with my oncologist. Bilirubin came down. If still down by Monday, I'll get chemo. If not, than I guess I'll see you all in Heaven. Praise God. Please pray, pray, pray.
5/18/15 Bilirubin jumped up. Trying lowered dose of Ixempra, with Herceptin. Oncologist is surprised that I'm functioning so well, given the high bilirubin. I have anywhere from 2 weeks - 2 months to live.
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Old 11-06-2012, 10:03 AM   #7
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Re: You guys doing anything special this weekend?

I like this quote and it reminds me of this topic of seizing the day:

"I will not die an unlived life.
I will not live in fear
of falling or catching fire.
I choose to inhabit my days,
to allow my living to open me,
to make me less afraid,
more accessible,
to loosen my heart
until it becomes a wing,
a torch, a promise.
I choose to risk my significance,
to live so that which came to me as seed
goes to the next as blossom,
and that which came to me as blossom,
goes on as fruit."
~ Markova

Bejuice, your bike ride sounded GREAT! Were you sore afterwards? You are either in excellent shape or keep that up and you'll soon be.

Jeanette--hope your cruise is FABULOUS, totally refreshing and full of R & R---sooo glad it wasn't scheduled during Sandy's arrival!

Penny, it sounds like you are having a fantastic, week with more fun ahead! I have jam packed days the rest of this week otherwise would have loved to meet you for lunch in Orlando or have you guys over for dinner if you had time. Maybe another time you are in my neck of the woods.

Jacqueline--you and your husband sure know how to celebrate your birthdays! What a great idea stretching it out a whole week. Happy, happy birthday to you with many more lovely ones ahead to enjoy.

Our campout was stellar...SUCH fun! I think we'll go back to the same place in the Spring.

Love,

A Happy Camper
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