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Old 12-18-2006, 05:01 AM   #41
Barbara H.
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Hi Mel,
I just wanted to let you know that you and Lisa are continually in my thoughts. Her words of wisdom and willingness to share on this board brought me so much hope at times when I didn't have it. I'm so sorry that you are now at this stage and I still hope for a miracle.
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Old 12-18-2006, 06:19 AM   #42
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Mel,
My prayers are with you and your family. Lisa has been such a light to us all. She is always positive, always caring and so very wise. May the God of peace bring you comfort during this difficult trial.
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Old 12-18-2006, 07:58 AM   #43
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Dear Mel,

My heart is broken to hear your news. I will continue to pray for a miracle
please know that I will light a special candle for Lisa.

I am so very sorry,
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Old 12-18-2006, 09:26 AM   #44
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I am so sorry. Bless you for your loving care, and thank God for Hospice. I will light a candle. MJO
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Old 12-18-2006, 10:05 AM   #45
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Mel-

I am so sorry - please know Lisa and you and your family are in my prayers.

regards,
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Old 12-18-2006, 10:07 AM   #46
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Prayers for Lisa

I'm so sorry to hear about Lisa. My prayers are with you Mel and your family. God Bless.
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2008-Feb-Mar 15 Ses Rad to Rt. Lung
2008- Oc 17 Add Tykerb to Herceptin
2009- June-- Discont Tykerb
2009 July 7--Current Taxol + Herceptin
2009 Dec--Discontinued treatment due to progression. Looking into cyberknife.
2010-Aug Accepted to TDM1, no SE, except liver count went up.
2010-2011 September got kicked out of the trial, due to a small spot found on lung.
2011- 2012 September thru early 2013 on Herceptin
2013- March Bone density shows small spot on 5th rib.
2013 - April 4th appt with onc. will post after discussing course of treatment.
2013-March-April Cyber knife to brain and radiation to rib. Chest --base line before chemo-CT-Scan stable for lung issue. CA2729 Normal.
2013 April Herceptin- TDMI
2013 Sept Herceptin + Perjeta . CA2729 within normal range. Brain and Pet scans October 31st. will post results.
2013 October Brain MRI- mixed response. Will see Onc/rad on Halloween.
2013 October/November Brain-MRI nothing new. Repeat MRI next year in May.

2013 December Continue Herceptin and Perjeta. Stable at the moment.
2014 February Brain MRI -clear!
2014 January Added Taxotere to Perjeta+Herceptin.
2014 March Stopped chemo-chest ct-scan next.

2014- March Scans shows tumor's larger, CA2729 higher. Discontinue Herceptin.
2014 April Perjeta+ Halaven
2014 April CA2729 went down 60 points after one cycle. Cough does not want to go away.
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Old 12-18-2006, 12:44 PM   #47
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Oh Mel, this really tears my heart apart to hear what you both are going through this season which is suppose to be a joyous one! I have never met Lisa in person but she was such a inspiration on this board! She has been in my prayers and will continue to be as well as you. Remember we are all here for you. Thanks for taking time to update us as I know you must be spinning in every direction keeping everyone informed and all the other things that go along at a time like this. May God keep you both close to him and wrap his arms around you both. Sending you both a big cyber hug to help get you through this difficult time. Sandy
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Old 12-18-2006, 01:45 PM   #48
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Mel and Lisa

May you both feel the love and light Lisa has given to so many of us....it is her turn to receive it from all of us....it saddened me so much to read your post....she has been here forever for me, I will keep you both in my prayers, Lisa for healing and comfort, and you for the strength to endure this time.
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Core Biopsy 2/22/02
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Stage 1, 0.7cm IDC, Node Neg from 19 nodes Her2+++ ER PR Neg
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9/2003 Stage IV with Mets to Supraclavicular nodes
9/2003 Began Herceptin every 3 weeks
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5/2007 Taken Off Xeloda, no longer working
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2/8/2012 Gemzar stopped, Continue Herceptin
2/20/2012 Begin Tomo Radiation to Neck Nodes
2/21/2012 I CELEBRATE 10 YEARS
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Old 12-18-2006, 04:49 PM   #49
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Mel, I am so saddened to read this news of Lisa. You have both been a big part of this group and always there to help.

I'm keeping you both in prayer!

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Old 12-19-2006, 04:46 PM   #50
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Another angel earns her wings...

Dear Mel,
Lisa, a warrior and a fighter; the light of our lives; rest in peace angel girl




Love and remembering Lisa's wit with great fondness...
Kim from CT
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Old 12-19-2006, 06:26 PM   #51
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Dear Maggie,

I've only been on this site for a few months so don't think I ever saw any of Lisa's messages but still feel so bad for anyone going through what she and her family are experiencing now. Any amount of time to deal with the terrible ordeal of breast cancer is too long. Keep in touch and let me know of your progress. Am still doing chemo every 3 weeks, don't know how much longer it will continue (herceptin/aridia). Best of you during this holiday season.

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Old 12-19-2006, 07:35 PM   #52
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To Lisa - with ever so much shared love and light

Once upon a time, you mentioned we should consider a memorial on this web site for the angels that we love and then come to lose. The idea did not gain much traction. Now, we are about to lose you - shouldn't we reconsider a memorial section on the site to honor and remember those we deeply love as a result of their postings on our site? I nominate you to head the line up of appropriate candidates. Remember us: we shall remember YOU!
Dee

Mel - candles are being lit even as I press send.
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Old 12-20-2006, 05:41 AM   #53
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I've just read this sad news.
I send love and prayers and the hope that Lisa is not in pain.
hugs and love
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Old 12-21-2006, 12:48 PM   #54
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Memorials on web site

Dear Dee,

I think it's a great idea but I wouldn't know where to begin to undertake something like this. I know that I've had a lot of problems getting the web site to be 'user friendly' to me and have even gotten locked out of it for several weeks, couldn't get password to work. After the new yr investigate this more and if you need any suggestions maybe I can think of some. Have a good holiday season and I hope this finds you doing well.

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