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Old 05-09-2009, 07:22 PM   #1
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Glad to be here

Four years ago, I wondered if I would be around to see many of the rites of passage with my boys.

Those thoughts don't plague me nearly as much today. (Note I say nearly.)

This month we enjoyed the PROM!! and soon the graduation of my oldest.

Mother's Day is joyful.

Life is good.
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DX 2/15/05 Stage IIb (at surgery)restaged IIIa
Left mast .9cm tumor 5 of 14 nodes
Triple Positive
4 DD A/C
12 Taxol/Herceptin
33Rads
Strange infect mast site one year aft surg, hosp 1 wk
Herceptin for total of 18 months
Lupron Monthly 4 yrs
Neurontin for aches, pains and hot flashes(It works!)
Ovaries removed 11/09 stop Lupron and Neurontin
Arimidex 6 yrs (tried Femara, no SE improvement)
Tried Exemestane-hips got so bad could hardly walk
Back to Arimidex for year seven
Zometa 2X Annual for 7years, Lasix
Stop Arimidex 5/13
Stop Zometa 7/13-Bi-lateral Stress Fractures in Femurs from Zometa
5/14 Start Tamoxifen
3/15 Stem cell transplant to stimulate femur bone growth/healing
5/15 Complete fracture of right femur/Titanium rods both femurs
9/16 Start Evista stopTamoxifen
3/17 Stop Evista--unwelcome side effects!
NED and no meds.......
14YEARS NED!

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Old 05-09-2009, 08:07 PM   #2
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You did so good, Sassy! They're fine looking guys!
Happy Mom's Day!
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Stage II, Grade 3, 4.5 cm primary tumor
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Her2 by FISH 7.7 amplified
vascular invasion
Ki67 20% borderline
Jan - March '06 Taxotere/Adriamycin X 3 to try to shrink tumor - it grew
April '06 Rt Modified Radical Mas, 7 of 9 nodes positive
April - Aug. '06 Herceptin/Taxol/Carboplatin X 8 (dose dense)
Sept - Dec. '06 Navelbine/Herceptin x 8 (dose dense)
Radiation & Herceptin Jan. 22 - March 1, 2007
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Old 05-10-2009, 06:32 AM   #3
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I agree, what handsome young men they are!
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Old 05-10-2009, 02:21 PM   #4
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These are the moments that make it all worthwhile. Wishing you many more important milestones to come!

Happy Mother's Day!
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Tumor 2.2 cm, Stage II, Grade 3, Sentinel Node biopsy negative
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AC X 4 dose dense, Taxol X 4 dose dense
Herceptin started with 2nd Taxol, given weekly until chemo done
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Radiation 30 treatments
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Aug 2008 - Feb 2012 Zometa every 6 months
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Old 05-10-2009, 03:49 PM   #5
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Wink Glad to be here

Your sons are very happy you are here.
They look very happy to be sharing their special occassions with you too.
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Old 05-10-2009, 05:29 PM   #6
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Sassy,

Happy Mother's Day and congratulations on your son's graduation soon.

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Old 05-10-2009, 07:03 PM   #7
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Yay Sassy! Happy Mother's Day!! I feel the same as you. And I am so thankful to be here to celebrate, too!

I was able to see my son go to Junior prom. I wasn't sure that I would be able to see that. I am hopeful to see him graduate next year, as well as see my dear daughter graduate in 2014. That is an awful ways away, but I am hopeful to still be here.

Handsome boys you have whom I know are so very happy you are their mom!

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Old 05-11-2009, 08:56 AM   #8
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Congratulations Rhonda! Your boys look very handsome indeed. You should be so proud of yourself, for being so brave, fighting so hard to be around to see them grow! God bless you with a long life and more memorable moments with your children!

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Old 05-11-2009, 12:08 PM   #9
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Sassy,

They are very handsome young men. In my eyes, you are a warrior. You were one of the first to offer me hope.

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Old 05-11-2009, 12:24 PM   #10
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RE: glad to be here

Billy Joel went to his ex-wife Christie Brinkley's wedding to her second husband. A reporter asked him "Are you happy to be here?" Billy Joel answered, "I'm happy to be anywhere."

As a cancer survivor, that's how I feel. I'm happy to be anywhere!

Enjoy life. The boys are handsome. Good job, mom.
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Lumpectomy 11/04/05 Clear Margins
3 Dose dense AC (Couldn't tolerate 4)
4 Dose dense Taxol & Herc. (Tolerated well)
36 weeks Herceptin (Could not complete one year due to decrease in MUGA score)
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Old 05-11-2009, 04:36 PM   #11
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Good looking fellows! Enjoy!
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Dx 8/06 Age 43 Stage IIIA multifocal throughout breast, largest tumor 5 cm, grade 3, comedo, ER+PR+HER+++
Neoadjuvant A/C 4X Dose Dense
11/06 Bilateral Mastectomy (no choice on the right, my choice on the left)
Taxol+Herceptin weekly x12, continuing with Herceptin, finished one year in 12/07
33 Rads
Femara for 5+ years, staying on (started with Arimidex, switched after about a month, much happier)
Abnormal brain MRI shows no cancer, but "extensive white matter diease" - unknown cause
BRCA negative - lots of cancer in my family
survivor of thyroid cancer
also have Crohn's disease
CT and bone scan say NED as of 5/13
dx with severe cardiomyopathy 5/12 (likely due to chemo and Herceptin), ejection fraction in low 20's, now up to 40, went to 50, latest read 12/13 is back down to 35
1/13 Acute pancreatitis - are you kidding me?
9/13 started Humira for Crohn's. starting to have some energy again
B12 and Vit D both needed supplementation
Cataracts in both eyes noted 6/12 - surgery in the next 2-4 years?
4/14 Kidney stones/blockage/infection - related to Crohn's Disease
5/14 My aunt passed away - she was diagnosed after I was with Stage I - not Her2+, then Stage 4 for about one year
6/14 Scans - still NED, thank God. However, broken rib (I didn't notice) lots of bone degeneration osteopenia/osteoporosis. I also still have cardiomyopathy secondary to chemo.
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Old 05-11-2009, 06:06 PM   #12
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Yea! Handsome lads, living, loving life! How good is that! Thanks for the inspiration that is your life!
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Dx'd w/multifocal DCIS/IDS 3/08
7mm invasive component
Partial mast. 5/08
Stage 1b, ER 80%, PR 90%, HER-2 6.9 on FISH
0/5 nodes
4 AC, 4 TH finished 9/08
Herceptin every 3 weeks. Finished 7/09
Tamoxifen 10/08. Switched to Femara 8/09
Bilat SPM w/reconstruction 10/08
Clinical Trial w/Clondronate 12/08
Stopped Clondronate--too hard on my gizzard!
Switched back to Tamoxifen due to tendon pain from Femara

15 Years NED
I think I just might hang around awhile....

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Old 05-11-2009, 07:39 PM   #13
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What a happy post and what handsome sons you have. You, too, a 4 yearer huh? Me too...ALMOST...dx 4 years ago next month.

I feel good.....am in great shape......and thank God for this wonderful life I wake up to daily.

One day at a time.......

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Dx. 6/24/05 age 45 Right Breast IDC
ER/PR. Neg., - Her2+++
RB Mast. - 7/28/05 - 4 cm. tumor
Margins clear - 1 microscopic cell 1 sent. node
No Vasucular Invasion
4 DD A/C - 4 DD Taxol & Herceptin
1 full year of Herceptin received every 3 weeks
28 rads
prophylactic Mast. 3/2/06

17 Years NED

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Old 05-11-2009, 11:56 PM   #14
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Sassy, I am so happy when you share your milestones with these two special boys with us. As a person in the sidelines watching your fight, praying for moments like this for you.....well I cannot put that in words. While you were on this journey I watched you walk towards getting better and I am thankful that you experience such feelings. I thrive along you when you acheive things like this, they are gifts for the tough times you conquer. Gives a new meaning to 'Lifetime Achievement' ey??Love>>Believe51
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Old 05-12-2009, 12:25 PM   #15
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Sassy,
Your sons are handsome indeed!
Congratualtions on their success and a big hug for you too!

Now - let's concentrate on the next 5 yrs..+ 5 yrs., + 5yrs, and so on and so on....

Hugs,
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Arimidex 5/05
Radiation 32 trt, 5/30/05
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TCH 5/06, 6 treatments
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Old 05-12-2009, 01:27 PM   #16
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Smile

Sassy,
Your boys are very handsome. You must be so proud. I am out 4 years too, isn't it great?
God Bless!
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Dxed Stage IIIC May 05, 12 pos nodes
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LVI
Right partial mast & partial axillary dissection-June14,2005
Right modified mast-no clear margins- June 30, 2005
DD AC x4
Taxotere X4 with Herceptin
Rads x 35( 5 fields )
Left prophylactive mast( atypia & hyperplasia found ),
put on Tamoxifen x 1 yr; D/ced due to endometrial thickening
bilateral recon (saline implants)May 06
Nipple recon July 06
metformin 2010
removal of implants due to severe encapsulation, insertion of gummies 2013
Reclast Q yr
NED!!!
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Old 05-12-2009, 06:42 PM   #17
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good going sassy! Glad to be here at almost 4yrs now too.
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3.8 cm + .8cm multi focal - pleomorphic lobular tumors
high grade DCIS
7/20 nodes

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Old 05-13-2009, 08:27 PM   #18
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Maybe we need to have a big 4 year party! I think there will be more and more of us to celebrate the years together. Those of us at 4 years are the first group to have Herceptin for early stage as standard of care.

Thank you all for your comments, and Kim its good to "see" you again!
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dx age 45
DX 2/15/05 Stage IIb (at surgery)restaged IIIa
Left mast .9cm tumor 5 of 14 nodes
Triple Positive
4 DD A/C
12 Taxol/Herceptin
33Rads
Strange infect mast site one year aft surg, hosp 1 wk
Herceptin for total of 18 months
Lupron Monthly 4 yrs
Neurontin for aches, pains and hot flashes(It works!)
Ovaries removed 11/09 stop Lupron and Neurontin
Arimidex 6 yrs (tried Femara, no SE improvement)
Tried Exemestane-hips got so bad could hardly walk
Back to Arimidex for year seven
Zometa 2X Annual for 7years, Lasix
Stop Arimidex 5/13
Stop Zometa 7/13-Bi-lateral Stress Fractures in Femurs from Zometa
5/14 Start Tamoxifen
3/15 Stem cell transplant to stimulate femur bone growth/healing
5/15 Complete fracture of right femur/Titanium rods both femurs
9/16 Start Evista stopTamoxifen
3/17 Stop Evista--unwelcome side effects!
NED and no meds.......
14YEARS NED!
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Old 05-15-2009, 05:07 AM   #19
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Sassy
What handsome boys!!!! THey must get those good looks from their Mom!! I can still remember the pic you had of one of them in your wig! Congrats on your milestone...you are such an inspiration on this board....may you celebrate many many more years with your family and all of us!!!!
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Core Biopsy 2/22/02
L. Mastectomy 2/25/2002
Stage 1, 0.7cm IDC, Node Neg from 19 nodes Her2+++ ER PR Neg
6/2003 Reconstruction W/ Tissue Expander, Silicone Implant
9/2003 Stage IV with Mets to Supraclavicular nodes
9/2003 Began Herceptin every 3 weeks
3/2006 Xeloda 2500mg/Herceptin for recurrence to neck nodes
3/2007 Added back the Xeloda with Herceptin for continued mets to nodes
5/2007 Taken Off Xeloda, no longer working
6/14/07 Taxol/Herceptin/Avastin
3/26 - 5/28/08 Taxol Holiday Whopeeeeeeeee
5/29 2008 Back on Taxol w Herceptin q 2 weeks
4/2009 Progression on Taxol & Paralyzed L Vocal Cord from Nodes Pressing on Nerve
5/2009 Begin Rx with Navelbine/Herceptin
11/09 Progression on Navelbine
Fought for and started Tykerb/Herceptin...nodes are melting!!!!!
2/2010 Back to Avastin/Herceptin
5/2010 Switched to Metronomic Chemo with Herceptin...Cytoxan and Methotrexate
Pericardial Window Surgery to Drain Pericardial Effusion
7/2010 Back to walking a mile a day...YEAH!!!!
9/2010 Nodes are back with a vengence in neck
Qualified for TDM-1 EAP
10/6/10 Begin my miracle drug, TDM-1
Mixed response, shrinking internal nodes, progression skin mets after 3 treatments
12/6/10 Started Halaven (Eribulen) /Herceptin excellent results in 2 treatments
2/2011 I CELEBRATE my 9 YEAR MARK!!!!!!!!!!!!!
7/5/11 begin Gemzar /Herceptin for node progression
2/8/2012 Gemzar stopped, Continue Herceptin
2/20/2012 Begin Tomo Radiation to Neck Nodes
2/21/2012 I CELEBRATE 10 YEARS
5/12/2012 BeganTaxotere/ Herceptin is my next miracle for new node progression
6/28/12 Stopped Taxotere due to pregression, Started Perjeta/Herceptin
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