breastcancer/mets to lungs now cancer shows up in neck brokC

I am her positive, just found on an mri that neck is broke due to cancer they want to operate and take out bone and much of cancer they can then do radiation have been on 7/8 chemo's one worked for 3 months, navelbine, on herception now with tomoxifen but they can't seem to find a chemo tha t works. want to talk with someone who has been down this road to see how they did with the surgery. I sure hope someone is out there and doing good.