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Old 04-03-2008, 08:44 PM   #1
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stopped treatment on my brother

As most of you know, my brother is in the final stages of melanoma. It has taken over his liver, bones and he has lumps popping out all over his body. He has been fighting this with everything he had. He has been going to MD Anderson in Houston where they were doing a last hope test drug on him. He was there yesterday and he called me to tell me that his doctor told him that the drug is not working on him, he was basically told to go home and live whatever days he had left. His doctor told him of a woman who after trying everything, went home..ate lots of dark chocolate and took tons of green tea, who then went into remission. He told my brother he might want to try a naturalistic approach. My brother is an auditor and much too logical to buy that, he told his doctor "what about an African Voodoo doctor, you think that might help"...lol. My brother has this cutting dry sense of humor and it was good to see he hadn't lost it. He so far, has not been in major pain but is so weak, he can't do much of anything. His hip has started hurting him where the cancer has set in. I told him I was going to come and see him when he got home and bring him a huge box of dark chocolate and a plane ticket to Africa..he laughed. I am so sad about this. I appreciate all the prayers that have been sent his and my way, it means so much to have a place to come and vent to people who understand. If God will not grant him a miracle, I just pray his last days are peaceful, with little pain and that he could have a few days where he felt good enough that we could take him bass fishing. That was what he wanted to do when he retired, buy a home on the lake and bass fish...sherryg683
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Diagnosed: December , 2005 at age 44
13+ positive lymph nodes
Stage IV , Her2+, 2 small mets to lungsChemo Started: Jan, 2006
4 months Taxotere, Xeloda, Hercepin
NED since April 2006!!
36 Rads to follow with weekly Herceptin indefinately
8 years NED now
Scans every year

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Old 04-03-2008, 10:37 PM   #2
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Sherry,

I am so sorry to hear about your brother. I will keep him in my prayers and hope for a miracle.

Hugs, prayers and healing strength being sent to you and your brother.

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Old 04-04-2008, 05:05 AM   #3
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I am so sorry to hear this - I hope he will find an alternative approach that will work for him.
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Old 04-04-2008, 05:27 AM   #4
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Sherry, I'm so sad to hear of your bother's situation. I lost my brother to a massive stroke 12 years ago. I, of course, expected my hero to live forever. Sherry, your love for your brother has been so sweet through these last several months. My heart breaks for you as you deal with "just one more thing"! The champion comes out in you as you give your best to him when he needs you. I can see that line now being thrown out to snag that fish! I hope for a glorious time at the "ol fishin' hole"! God bless you, ma
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vascular invasion
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Old 04-04-2008, 05:47 AM   #5
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Sherry, I am soooo sorry to hear about your brother. I hope you're managing ok.

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Old 04-04-2008, 06:12 AM   #6
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Sherry...sending HUGE virtual hugs to you, your brother and to your extended family and friends.

Take care,
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Old 04-04-2008, 09:35 AM   #7
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Dear Sherry,

I am so sad to here about your brother, as always you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
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DX 1998 STAGE I ER+/ PR+
AC CHEMO TILL FEB 1999
Tamxofin till 2001
2001 exstensive liver mets and mets to lungs
Started weekly taxol
Jan 2002 found out I was strongly HER2POS+++ started herceptin continued with taxol and herceptin till June 2002 then from June 2002 till Jan 2005 just herceptin and Arimidex
2005 Navelbine herceptin had RFA Then back on taxol with herceptin
April 2006 progression again went on clinical trial with tykrerb/herceptin progressed on the started Xeloda/ herceptin
Feb 2007 started Doxil
August 2007 Taxotere,Carboplatin and Herceptin exstensive mets to liver and pancreas
October 2007 Had to stop Carboplatin due to sever allergic reaction
Jan 2008
Stopped Taxotere due to progression now on Gemzar and Herceptin
March 2008 Starting Carboplatin, Abraxane, and Herceptin.
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Old 04-04-2008, 12:07 PM   #8
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Dear Sherry,

I, too, am very sad to hear of your news. I ask that God comfort you all as you walk this road together.

Love & Prayers,

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Dx. 6/24/05 age 45 Right Breast IDC
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RB Mast. - 7/28/05 - 4 cm. tumor
Margins clear - 1 microscopic cell 1 sent. node
No Vasucular Invasion
4 DD A/C - 4 DD Taxol & Herceptin
1 full year of Herceptin received every 3 weeks
28 rads
prophylactic Mast. 3/2/06

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Old 04-04-2008, 12:40 PM   #9
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Sherry,

Keeping you and your brother in my prayers
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DX Age 37 on August 3, 2006
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1.3 & 1.2 tumors right breast
node negative
lumpectomy 8-15-06
A/C Began 9-5-06 Finished A/C 11/6/06
Port Placement 9-15-06
Negative Test for BRAC1 & BRAC2 10-25-06
Began Tamoxofin November 21, 2006
First Herceptin November 27, 2006 Continues every 3 Weeks
First Radiation Treatment December 11, 2006
35 Rads Completed
Final Herceptin Treatment November 12, 2007
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Old 04-04-2008, 01:38 PM   #10
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I am sorry. I remember my sister in law's mom getting to the "popping out" stage of melanoma. But you know, it ain't over til it's over. If he won't eat chocolate, maybe he'll try beer and fishing. I hope you are using Hospice. I also hope he gets to do some fishing. Take care. THis is hard on a loving sister.
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3 Dose dense AC (Couldn't tolerate 4)
4 Dose dense Taxol & Herc. (Tolerated well)
36 weeks Herceptin (Could not complete one year due to decrease in MUGA score)
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Old 04-04-2008, 01:43 PM   #11
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Sherry,

I'm praying for you and your family.

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5/2003 tram flap right breast
8/2004 dx new primary left breast with inflammatory bc
er/pr-, her2neu+++
8/19 taxotere and herceptin
1/15/2005 Navelbine/Herceptin
4/2005 radiation and Herceptin
5/15/2005 Herceptin alone
2/12/2008 skin biopsy positive
2/14/2008 met to sternum, possibly right breast
2/27/08 Start omitarg, herceptin, taxotere trial
3/17/08 Kicked off trial because I started too close to my last herceptin
3/19 start tykerb xeloda
Right breast confirmed met
5/15/08 skin mets gone, no hypermetabolic activity in breast, sternum healing
8/24/08 scans still look good. sternum still active with scarring. No evidence of progression
10/08 Progression in sternum
12/08 Start TDM1 trial
1/09 Scans show stable
12/09 1 year on TDM1 still stable
10/10 progression in chest and liver
11/10 false positive of liver mets; tykerb and herceptin
4/11 Tykerb/Herceptin/Xgeva
4/11 Rads to Sternum
5/12/12 NED Herceptin/Zometa
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Old 04-04-2008, 02:34 PM   #12
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Sherry683, I am sad to hear your news.

You said "He told my brother he might want to try a naturalistic approach. My brother is an auditor and much too logical to buy that,"

I am qualified Accountant too, slowly dessicated by all that dry work, and too logical and persistent for my own good on occasions, and as you may have noticed am convinced Omega 3s and 6s have a big role in health.

Please wish your brother well.

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Omega 3 Fatty Acids in Clinical Nutrition - [Heller Stehr Koch] - look at administration of DHA by lipid infusion.

There are Australian trials looking at lipid infusion and melanoma with cox blockers.

Here are some more results of a search below.

I have no expertise I am just posting these as potential lines of enquiry that you may wish to pursue with your medical advisor's.






http://www.oilofpisces.com/cancer.html

Docosahexaenoic acid halts melanoma
We do not usually report on animal or test tube experiments, but found the results of this study so intriguing that we decided to make an exception.

VALHALLA, NEW YORK. The incidence of cutaneous malignant melanoma is growing rapidly among persons with fair skin. It is estimated that one in 75 Americans will develop melanoma within their lifetime. Melanoma has a pronounced tendency to spread to other organs (metastasis) and the 5-year survival rate for metastatic melanoma is less than 10%. There is growing evidence that diet can influence the risk of developing melanoma. It is now believed that a high intake of omega-6 fatty acids stimulates the growth of melanoma and other cancers whereas omega-3 fatty acids suppress the growth of cancer cells.

Researchers at the New York Medical College and the American Health Foundation have just released the results of a laboratory experiment which clearly shows that docosahexaenoic acid (DHA), a main component of fish oil, is highly effective in inhibiting the growth of human melanoma cells. The researchers treated 12 different human metastatic melanoma cell cultures (in vitro) with DHA and found that more than 50% of them stopped growing. They urge further testing of their findings in full-scale clinical trials involving patients with melanoma. They conclude that “if DHA is capable of suppressing cell and tumor growth and metastatic potential in in vivo models of melanoma, a clinical trial of DHA would be warranted as an adjuvant to current surgical and chemotherapeutic interventions”.
Albino, Anthony P., et al. Cell cycle arrest and apoptosis of melanoma cells by docosahexaenoic acid: association with decreased pRb phosphorylation. Cancer Research, Vol. 60, August 1, 2000, pp. 4139- 45


http://www.sciencedirect.com/science...1d30694d3cf073

http://linkinghub.elsevier.com/retri...60894X06002605

"A conjugate of DHA and doxorubicin (DHA–Dox) was synthesized, and its antitumor activity was evaluated in vitro against L1210 leukemia cells and in experimental animal tumor models including L1210 leukemia and B16 melanoma. DHA–Dox showed a greatly improved antitumor efficacy compared to free doxorubicin."

http://www.informaworld.com/smpp/con...ent=a788043412
Human colon carcinoma COLO 205, carrying wild type p53, grown subcutaneously in athymic mice was inhibited 80% by a high fat menhaden oil diet containing a mixture of omega-3 fatty acids compared to the low fat corn oil diet containing omega-6 fatty acids. Feeding a high fat diet of golden algae oil containing docosahexaenoic acid (DHA) as the sole long chain omega-3 fatty acid resulted in 93% growth inhibition.

http://grande.nal.usda.gov/ibids/ind...&therow=388847
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Old 04-04-2008, 05:21 PM   #13
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So sorry to hear your news. Am sending lots of hugs your way!
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Old 04-04-2008, 08:29 PM   #14
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Sherry,

I am sorry about your brother. Voodoo is something he might find on 24th and vine. Rememer....Love potion number 9? You are obviously sending him lots of love and support. So are the rest of us. Thanks for letting us know about your brother so we can keep him in our thoughts and prayers.

Hugs, Catherine
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Old 04-04-2008, 08:47 PM   #15
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Thank you all so much. I am always telling him of my friends here on the board and the good advice and encouragement I get from you all. Sherryg683
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Diagnosed: December , 2005 at age 44
13+ positive lymph nodes
Stage IV , Her2+, 2 small mets to lungsChemo Started: Jan, 2006
4 months Taxotere, Xeloda, Hercepin
NED since April 2006!!
36 Rads to follow with weekly Herceptin indefinately
8 years NED now
Scans every year

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Old 04-04-2008, 08:48 PM   #16
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Sherry, you and your brother and all of your family have been in my thoughts and prayers.
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Old 04-05-2008, 01:58 PM   #17
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Sherry I'm so sorry for you and your brother and really hope he gets to fish!
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Dx July '05 IDC 1.9cm Triple positive 3/9 nodes positive
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Rads x 36 ..oophorectomy August '06
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Old 04-06-2008, 02:45 AM   #18
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Hi Sherryg683,

The latest post on SIMS on the Greek diet thread may be of interest.

http://her2support.org/vbulletin/sho...ght=greek+diet

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Old 04-06-2008, 05:22 AM   #19
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Sherry,

I'm praying for your brother.

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Diagnosed stage 2b in July 2003 (2.3 cm, HER2+, ER-/PR-, 7+ nodes). Treated with mastectomy (with immediate DIEP flap reconstruction), AC + T/Herceptin (off label). Cancer advanced to lung in Jan. 2007 (1 cm nodule). Started Herceptin every 3 weeks. Lung wedge resection April 2007. Cancer recurred in lung April 2008. RFA of lung in August 2008. 2nd annual brain MRI in Oct. 2008 discovered 2.6 cm cystic tumor in left frontal lobe. Craniotomy Oct. 2008 (ER-/PR-/HER2-) followed by targeted radiation (IMRT). Coughing up blood Feb. 2009. Thoractomy July 2009 to cut out fungal ball of common soil fungus (aspergillus) that grew in the RFA cavity (most likely inhaled while gardening). No cancer, only fungus. Removal of tiny melanoma from upper left arm, plus sentinel lymph node biopsy in Feb. 2016. Guardant Health liquid biopsy in Feb. 2016 showed mutations in 4 subtypes of TP53. Repeat of Guardant Health biopsy in Jana. 2021 showed 3 TP53 mutations, BRCA1 mutation and CHEK2 mutation. Invitae genetic testing showed negative for all of these. Living with MBC since 2007. Stopped Herceptin Hylecta (injection) treatment in March 2020. Recent 2021 annual CT of chest, abdomen and pelvis and annual brain MRI showed NED. Praying for NED forever!!
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Old 04-06-2008, 07:00 PM   #20
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Sherry, you're a good sister, and if you can keep your brother laughing that in itself is so healing. With the dark chocolate and "all", maybe he'll be able to go on that fishing trip with your help. I'll be keeping him in my thoughts and prayers.

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