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Old 10-25-2006, 04:38 AM   #1
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Please send positive thoughts today

Friends,

At 3:30 pm, MT, today (Wed.) I will be have exploratory surgery on the bile duct that runs between the liver and gall bladder. The Gastro doc, whom I have only met once, seems to believe this test should be done soon. The pain I've had for months indicates a blockage.

Any my Dad, who passed over October 8, keeps sending messages to my wonderful quasi-psychic friend. Which makes me a litte nervous. Hope he's just saying "Hi", not "come on over." My mother, 85, is doing good, but she's lonely. I can't leave her now.

Prayers and thoughts are welcome. Thank you.

Love and light,

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Old 10-25-2006, 04:40 AM   #2
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I will be thinking of you. All the best.

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Old 10-25-2006, 04:43 AM   #3
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Lisa,

I'm sure that the messages that your quasi friend is receiving from you dad are good thoughts. Your father wants you to be a survivor and I'm sure that he is looking over you with lots of love and positive energy. I'll say an extra prayer for you today.
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Old 10-25-2006, 04:56 AM   #4
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Lisa

My thoughts and prayers will be with you today...I am sure you are getting strenth and power from your Dad to continue your fight....he is helping you to help your Mom.
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Old 10-25-2006, 05:29 AM   #5
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Lisa, I never wrote to say how much I loved the picture of you in that scarf/dress. You looked wonderful.
I will send good thoughts and prayers for you today and hope you get lots more opportunities to go out and show off that dress and the beautiful person in it!
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Old 10-25-2006, 06:01 AM   #6
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you are loved

Hi Lisa,

You have had to endure so much. I wish I was there to shoulder some of your burden. I hope that surgery goes smoothly today. I will pray for a swift, uneventful recovery and peace of heart and mind.

Love to you,
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Old 10-25-2006, 06:05 AM   #7
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Lisa, you are in my thoughts and prayers today. I am sure your Dad is watching over you and is helping you take care of your Mom knowing the struggle you are going through. Sending you a big hug, Sandy
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I shall not pass this way again. Any good I can do or any kindness that I can show let me not defer or neglect it for I shall not pass this way again.
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Old 10-25-2006, 06:44 AM   #8
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Lisa,

I will be sending positive thoughts your way today.

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Old 10-25-2006, 06:52 AM   #9
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Lisa... You know, I had the same thoughts about my Dad who died of bladder cancer in 2002. When I was so sick and scared from chemo I thought, "I hope my dad doesn't want company on the other side." I also had five great aunts who died of breast cancer in the 1950s and early 1960s, leaving behind children not yet in their teens. Wherever they are, I know they want a cure for this rotten disease, not more company. I'm sure your dad is sending messages of strength and encouragement. Hoping you have a gallstone...MJO
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Old 10-25-2006, 07:17 AM   #10
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Smile Lisa...

Done. Take care and God bless.

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Old 10-25-2006, 07:41 AM   #11
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Dear Lisa, I do think our departed loved ones "watch" over us in some way, as I too have had the same feelings since my mom's passing this May. And really, I don't think "they" want more company, but are acting more as spiritual guides, helping us to stay strong and focused.
Keeping you in my prayers today and every day.

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Old 10-25-2006, 07:48 AM   #12
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sending positive thoughts your way for a good outcome.
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Old 10-25-2006, 08:09 AM   #13
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Dear Lisa,

You are in my thoughts and prayers today.

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Old 10-25-2006, 08:13 AM   #14
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Dear Lisa,

Saying prayers for you today. Know that we are thinking of you.


Hugs and Prayers,
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Old 10-25-2006, 08:14 AM   #15
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I am sending you positive thoughts!!!! It sounds like your dad is too! You have got a lot more living to do! - Kim
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Old 10-25-2006, 08:58 AM   #16
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Sending you warm and sunny thoughts from Florida...

PS: Your dad wants you to know you will be OK! I often have dreams where my mom actually sits me down, looks me in the eye and tells me everything will be alright. And so it is.

Surround yourself with good and God.

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Old 10-25-2006, 09:32 AM   #17
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Best wishes for today's surgery...thinking only good thoughts.
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Old 10-25-2006, 10:57 AM   #18
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lots of love to you

Thinking of you so much and hoping for good news, resolution and healing.

Love,
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Old 10-25-2006, 11:22 AM   #19
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Lisa,


I am wishing for you a uncomplicated surgery with good news from the surgeon when you awake. I am thinking of you in Pittsburgh.
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Old 10-25-2006, 11:51 AM   #20
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More positive thoughts coming your way. Also, best wishes for good news after your surgery and a speedy recovery.
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