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Old 07-15-2009, 08:35 PM   #1
Believe51
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Location: RHODE ISLAND (Ed getting me a latte on 2nd Cancerversary Cruise 2008) 'BELIEVE': To accept as true or real, To have faith in, To presume ALWAYS BELIEVE
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Question ~Any Lawyers In The House??~

Pardon me for supplying you with more of my drama, especially with everyone's personal battles. I did not know where to put this, I need responses asap and am totally embarrassed to share this with you all.

As you may know, my grandmonster has raised my rent ($100-$125 per month) thinking that I got money from my Mother-in-Law. I think you know me well enough to respect my feelings that she is an awful person. I am not in a position to have my rent raised right now and would feel so better if she said the economy has forced her to raise it. As frugal and money saving as I am, I am swamped with medical payment commitments. If I had to I would need to pay this but she is being unfair and that appears to me to be an unreasonable rent increase to me.

I will continue to pay my original rent in the meantime w/o adding the raise. I have seen her controlling self evict my cousin, her Angel for most of her life. She will have no problem evicting us, she even mentioned she did not care Ed was dying. Do human beings really talk like this????

I want my husband to die in the home we shared our entire marriage at, I will move after that if I need to. Of course he is disabled and I have tried to research on my own to check his rights. Seems like my mind can not understand the technical part of what is happening and I need guidance.

I do not have that much time to spare and realize that if I sign the lease (yes, she makes me sign a lease) that it will be another commitment. I do not want to make a war out of this but I do want what is fair. Rather than feel bad for me I need you all to send me off in the right direction. I am so sad, this is one more time she proves she does not feel anything for me. This is control, spite and hatred brewing again.>>Believe51

PS: I cried reading all of your warm posts for me before starting this. Your love balances my life. People I may never meet love me more than my blood. I cannot tell you how you make my life so wonderful. You all call me courageous and strong, well please know you have helped me to continue to grow and blossom through all the darkness and rain. I love you.
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