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Old 05-16-2011, 01:45 PM   #1
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Our Health and the Luck of the Draw

Good essay on the NYT Well Blog. You can read it here.

Somehow I find it comforting to know that my cancer diagnosis was just the result of random bad luck...
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Old 05-16-2011, 02:39 PM   #2
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Re: Our Health and the Luck of the Draw

I remember the diagnosing doctor saying to me "these are the cards you were dealt".
And it helped when insensitive people said things to me about what I probably did that "caused" my cancer.
It is my belief that everyone in life has card dealt. No one escapes unscathed. You just play them the best you can.
Thanks for the article.
Keep the faith.
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Old 05-16-2011, 05:25 PM   #3
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Re: Our Health and the Luck of the Draw

http://well.blogs.nytimes.com/2011/0...k-of-the-draw/

It is indeed an excellent article.

I drew the bad lot being the youngest of six and inheriting bad genes from both of my parents.

I am lucky to have been pampered by my family because I am the youngest and was born premature.

I am even 'luckier' to have come to the states and always have good doctors when I need them.

That said, I do believe that taking an active role in our health care and our life is essential to our well-being and happiness.

Studies have shown patients who are engaged in support group fare better than those who fight the ailment alone. I think information exchange is a major factor besides the obvious benefit of emotional support.
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Old 05-16-2011, 06:04 PM   #4
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Re: Our Health and the Luck of the Draw

Nice. Thanks,Marcia.
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7mm invasive component
Partial mast. 5/08
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Herceptin every 3 weeks. Finished 7/09
Tamoxifen 10/08. Switched to Femara 8/09
Bilat SPM w/reconstruction 10/08
Clinical Trial w/Clondronate 12/08
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Switched back to Tamoxifen due to tendon pain from Femara

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Old 05-17-2011, 02:06 PM   #5
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Re: Our Health and the Luck of the Draw

I could'nt agree more Jackie and thanks for posting Marcia!
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Old 05-17-2011, 06:35 PM   #6
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Re: Our Health and the Luck of the Draw

So true. We all can improve the health choices we make in life, but none of us "deserves" to be fighting cancer. I don't know how many people i have met over the years that never took care of themselves and they have no health concern out of the ordinary. All you can do is take the body you are given and do the best you can to nourish it and exercise it!
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Old 05-17-2011, 06:57 PM   #7
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Re: Our Health and the Luck of the Draw

Marcia,
Great article...shows us once again how life is just amazing. How many take the days for granted and never even consider how it can all change it a second.
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Old 05-24-2011, 08:54 PM   #8
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Re: Our Health and the Luck of the Draw

The Tornados seem to be the bad Luck of the Draw this spring. Do any of our members live in these devasted areas? My heart goes out to anyone who has lost a loved one or lost their home.
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Old 05-25-2011, 03:01 AM   #9
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Re: Our Health and the Luck of the Draw

It is an interesting article.But somehow I feel it is a bit fatalistic.Cheers everyone
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Herceptin started again on 27th Dec 2012.Xeloda stopped Navelbin added on 7th February 2013.Now on Tykerb Herceptin and Navelbin
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