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Old 07-25-2010, 02:09 PM   #1
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Lapatinib + Xeloda = any hope?

Long time reading this forum, first time posting. I have many questions which I hope to find some answers for. I hope they will be helpful for me.
Diagnosed with secondary cancer in November 2009. Received Taxotere + Herceptin for 5 months. By the middle of treatment, CA153 dropped from 60 to 20, then started to rise again. So, they stopped the treatment. They're not giving me any hormone treatment or herceptin now. I've been having Xeloda for 4 cycles. CA continues to rise. Now, I've been offered Lapatinib + Xeloda. I'm not quite certain about this treatment because Xeloda hasn't been working. I don't care about my bone mets, but my liver mets have started growing in number.
I'd appreciate if anyone could share their experience with Lapatinib + Xeloda.
Another question I have is this - how reliable are cancer markers? Are they a certain indication of the way the disease progresses?
I'm really grateful to the founders of this website. It's a real help to people like me. God bless!

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2.8cm Grade 2
ER+++/PR+/HER2+++
R. mast., 5 FEC, 6 Taxotere, 35 radiation
11 mth Herceptin
while on Arimidex 11/09 recurrence to bones (widespread), liver
5 rad. on spine, 6 Taxotere, Herceptin, Zometa
while on this, progression
Xeloda, Zometa every 3 weeks
07/10 stopped Xeloda - doesn't work
having just Zometa, waiting for another treatment
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Old 07-25-2010, 02:58 PM   #2
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Re: Lapatinib + Xeloda = any hope?

I have had great success with this combo. It has competely cleared up my recurrence which showed up as IBC on the chest wall.

I hope it works wonders for you too.

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18/20 Nodes
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AC x 4, Taxol x 4, Added Herceptin
Radiation until 09/07
Herceptin every 3 weeks until 06/08
01/10/08 local recurrence -IBC
01/28/08 CT & Brain MRI - clear
02/08 - Navelbine & Herceptin
05/08 -MRM
05/08 - Gemzar & Herceptin - didn't work
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Old 07-25-2010, 05:01 PM   #3
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Re: Lapatinib + Xeloda = any hope?

I would ask why you weren't given herceptin along with xeloda. I was on herceptin/xeloda for 2 1/2 years with success. Then tumor marker ca2729 started rising and I switched to xeloda/lapatinib and was on that successfully for another 1 1/2 yrs. So yes there's hope - it's a good combo. I was taken off that & did other tx for a couple of years. When they stopped working I started xeloda again in April this time with both herceptin & lapatinib.... so far so good.

Tumor markers -- they are not always accurate measure, but on some people are very reliable. Scans are the best determiner of status.
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7/01 AC, taxol; radiation
2/02 tamoxifen
9/02 stage IV bone mets femara
1/03 taxotere/herceptin/aredia
6/03 herceptin, aredia & faslodex
1/04 navelbine, herceptin, aredia
2/05 herceptin/aredia
7/05 xeloda/herceptin/aredia
3/07 xeloda/tykerb/aredia
5/08 taxol/avastin/aredia
2/09 gemzar/herceptin/zometa
7/09 Taxol/Carbo/Herceptin, zometa
10/09 navelbine/herceptin & zometa
2/10 herceptin & tykerb & zometa
4/10 add xeloda &aromasin
10/10 dx with dermatomyiositis triggered by cancer
11/10 restart herceptin, tykerb, zometa
12/10 surgery-place rod in R femur to stabilize bone
1/11 radiation to R femur - 20 tx
2/11 2nd surgery - rod in Left femur
2/11 tx eribulen -- suspended dx brain mets
3/11 brain mets wbr 20 tx
4/11 halaven; discontine 8/11 not working
8/11 radiation to left femur 20 tx'
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Old 07-25-2010, 05:08 PM   #4
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Re: Lapatinib + Xeloda = any hope?

I haven't tried this combo yet...but I was just down to UCLA to see about a phase III clinical trial that compares T-DM1 vs Tykerb/Xeloda. So I am sure it is a good treatment option or they wouldn't run it up against T-DM1. (That's my thoughts on it.) I also know of one woman that told me Tykerb/Xeloda worked great for her and has her back to NED/stable.

As far as tumor markers many oncologist don't like to use them. They aren't always reliable. However they are a very reliable tool for many of us...including my self. My onc runs the CA27.29 and the only time it went up is when I recurred. Then dropped when chemo proved to be working. So for me personally tumor markers work great. Tumor markers should be used as one part of the picture. If scans show progression and markers rise together...chances are you know they work for you. Hope this helps.

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Rt. MRM on 1-3-06 -- No Rads due to compromised lungs.
Chemo started 2-7-06 -- TCH - - Finished 6-12-06
Finished yr of wkly herceptin 3-19-07
3-15-07 Lt side prophylactic simple mastectomy. -- Ooph 4-05-07
9-21-09 PET/CT "Recurrence" to Rt. axllia, Rt. femur, ilium. Possible Sacrum & liver? Now stage IV.
9-28-09 Loading dose of Herceptin & started Zometa
9-29-09 Power Port Placement
10-24-09 Mass 6.4 x 4.7 cm on Rt. femur head.
11-19-09 RT. Femur surgery - Rod placed
12-7-09 Navelbine added to Herceptin/Zometa.
3-23-10 Ten days of rads to RT femur. Completed.
4-05-10 Quit Navelbine--Herceptin/Zometa alone.
5-4-10 Appt. with Dr. Slamon to see what is next? Waiting on FISH results from femur biopsy.
Results to FISH was unsuccessful--this happens less then 2% of the time.
7-7-10 Recurrence to RT axilla again. Back to UCLA for options.
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Old 07-26-2010, 03:02 AM   #5
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Re: Lapatinib + Xeloda = any hope?

hi
I notice you are in the UK and I suspect that is why you only got xeloda originally. Now there are some trials available that combine it with tykerb (part of the same trials Chelee referred to ) As you are aware NICE do not believe that tykerb is a cost effective option for metastatic breast cancer despite positive views from most of Britain's top breast oncologists.
Good luck, this regime has proved very good hence why it is in trials against T-DM1

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Old 07-26-2010, 11:17 AM   #6
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Best wishes with NICE... hopefully you have been offered a trial. I did Tykerb/lapatinib w/ Xeloda for 19 months with fantastic results, but I did not have liver mets... then I moved on to Tykerb with Herceptin which I am on now with Tamoxifen, and still doing extremely well. I have had friends with liver mets who saw great results with Herceptin/Navelbine.
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JULY 2012 - 7 yr anniversary stage IV (of 50...)

Nov'03~ dX stage 2B
Dec'03~
Rt side mastectomy, Her2+, ER/PR+, 10 nodes out, one node positive
Jan'04~
Taxotere/Adria/Cytoxan x 6, NED, no Rads, Tamox. 1 year, Arimadex 3 mo., NED 14 mo.
Sept'05~
micro mets lungs/chest nodes/underarm node, Switched to Aromasin, T/C/H x 7, NED 6 months - Herceptin only
Aug'06~
micro mets chest nodes, & bone spot @ C3 neck, Added Taxol to Herceptin
Feb'07~ Genetic testing, BRCA 1&2 neg

Apr'07~
MRI - two 9mm brain mets & 5 punctates, new left chest met, & small increase of bone spot C3 neck, Stopped Aromasin
May'07~
Started Tykerb/Xeloda, no WBR for now
June'07~
MRI - stable brain mets, no new mets, 9mm spots less enhanced, CA15.3 down 45.5 to 9.3 in 10 wks, Ty/Xel working magic!
Aug'07~
MRI - brain mets shrunk half, NO NEW BRAIN METS!!, TMs stable @ 9.2
Oct'07~
PET/CT & MRI show NED
Apr'08~
scans still show NED in the head, small bone spot on right iliac crest (rear pelvic bone)
Sept'08~
MRI shows activity in brain mets, completed 5 fractions/5 consecutive days of IMRT to zap the pesky buggers
Oct'08~
dropped Xeloda, switched to tri-weekly Herceptin in combo with Tykerb, extend to tri-monthly Zometa infusion
Dec'08~
Brain MRI- 4 spots reduced to punctate size, large spot shrunk by 3mm, CT of torso clear/pelvis spot stable
June'09~
new 3-4mm left cerrebellar spot zapped with IMRT targeted rads
Sept'09~
new 6mm & 1 cm spots in pituitary/optic chiasm area. Rx= 25 days of 3D conformal fractionated targeted IMRT to the tumors.
Oct'09~
25 days of low dose 3D conformal fractionated targeted IMRT to the bone mets spot on rt. iliac crest that have been watching for 2 years. Added daily Aromasin back into treatment regimen.
Apr'10~ Brain MRI clear! But, see new small spot on adrenal gland. Change from Aromasin back to Tamoxifen.
June'10~ Tumor markers (CA15.3) dropped from 37 to 23 after one month on Tamoxifen. Continue to monitor adrenal gland spot. Remain on Tykerb/Herceptin/Tamoxifen.
Nov'10~ Radiate positive mediastinal node that was pressing on recurrent laryngeal nerve, causing paralyzed larynx and a funny voice.
Jan'11~ MRI shows possible activity or perhaps just scar tissue/necrotic increase on 3 previously treated brain spots and a pituitary spot. 5 days of IMRT on 4 spots.
Feb'11~ Enrolled in T-DM1 EAP in Denver, first treatment March 25, 2011.
Mar'11~ Finally started T-DM1 EAP in Denver at Rocky Mountain Cancer Center/Rose on Mar. 25... hallelujah.

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Old 07-28-2010, 02:04 PM   #7
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Re: Lapatinib + Xeloda = any hope?

Thanks so much everyone who tryed to help me.
The thing is here in UK having treatment on NHS limits our options. While I'm still hoping to prolong my life my Onc says their aim to " make me feel well". They would not say but I feel they don't believe in any improvement at this stage. Don't get me wrong they are good and I'm greatful for treatment I got.
I had a lot of chemo, rad, herceptin.After 3 rounds of Taxotere+Herceptin was improvement in liver, CA down,but next 3 ones proved not working- progress in the liver, CA up again. 4 rounds of Xeloda didn't make any differens. Now my CA back to what it was in Dec.(when I was diagnosed with secondary) CT shows great progress in liver.
That's why my Onc would not give me Herceptin any more as he believes it doesn't work for me.By the same reason he refuses to fit me in any trial.
I was offered Tykerb just cos I asked to give me something as I'm not ready to give up, still not sure I'll get it.
Thank all of you again for your kindness and support. I don't feel alone any more and it really helps.
God bless
With love
Galina
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2.8cm Grade 2
ER+++/PR+/HER2+++
R. mast., 5 FEC, 6 Taxotere, 35 radiation
11 mth Herceptin
while on Arimidex 11/09 recurrence to bones (widespread), liver
5 rad. on spine, 6 Taxotere, Herceptin, Zometa
while on this, progression
Xeloda, Zometa every 3 weeks
07/10 stopped Xeloda - doesn't work
having just Zometa, waiting for another treatment
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Old 07-28-2010, 02:26 PM   #8
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Re: Lapatinib + Xeloda = any hope?

Dear Galina -

You just keep on telling them you are NOT ready to give up and insist that you don't want THEM to give up on YOU.

This baloney about wanting you to "feel well" rather than "prolong your life" is just cost cutting. If you are well enough to hit your mets hard, then keep giving it a try. Worked for me, as you will see in my signature below. I had very extensive liver mets, got rid of them and they have never come back.

I send you hope for the energy to keep after your medical team for a different treatment.
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Found suspicious lump 9/2000
Lumpectomy, then node dissection and port placement
Stage IIB, 8 pos nodes of 18, Grade 3, ER & PR -
Adriamycin 12 weekly, taxotere 4 rounds
36 rads - very little burning
3 mos after rads liver full of tumors, Stage IV Jan 2002, one spot on sternum
Weekly Taxol, Navelbine, Herceptin for 27 rounds to NED!
2003 & 2004 no active disease - 3 weekly Herceptin + Zometa
Jan 2005 two mets to brain - Gamma Knife on Jan 18
All clear until treated cerebellum spot showing activity on Jan 2006 brain MRI & brain PET
Brain surgery on Feb 9, 2006 - no cancer, 100% radiation necrosis - tumor was still dying
Continue as NED while on Herceptin & quarterly Zometa
Fall-2006 - off Zometa - watching one small brain spot (scar?)
2007 - spot/scar in brain stable - finished anticoagulation therapy for clot along my port-a-catheter - 3 angioplasties to unblock vena cava
2008 - Brain and body still NED! Port removed and scans in Dec.
Dec 2008 - stop Herceptin - Vaccine Trial at U of W begun in Oct. of 2011
STILL NED everywhere in Feb 2014 - on wing & prayer
7/14 - Started twice yearly Zometa for my bones
Jan. 2015 checkup still shows NED
2015 Neuropathy in feet - otherwise all OK - still NED.
Same news for 2016 and all of 2017.
Nov of 2017 - had small skin cancer removed from my face. Will have Zometa end of Jan. 2018.
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Old 07-28-2010, 02:28 PM   #9
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Re: Lapatinib + Xeloda = any hope?

P.S. Can they give you more radiation for some of the bone mets?
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MY STORY SO FAR ~~~~
Found suspicious lump 9/2000
Lumpectomy, then node dissection and port placement
Stage IIB, 8 pos nodes of 18, Grade 3, ER & PR -
Adriamycin 12 weekly, taxotere 4 rounds
36 rads - very little burning
3 mos after rads liver full of tumors, Stage IV Jan 2002, one spot on sternum
Weekly Taxol, Navelbine, Herceptin for 27 rounds to NED!
2003 & 2004 no active disease - 3 weekly Herceptin + Zometa
Jan 2005 two mets to brain - Gamma Knife on Jan 18
All clear until treated cerebellum spot showing activity on Jan 2006 brain MRI & brain PET
Brain surgery on Feb 9, 2006 - no cancer, 100% radiation necrosis - tumor was still dying
Continue as NED while on Herceptin & quarterly Zometa
Fall-2006 - off Zometa - watching one small brain spot (scar?)
2007 - spot/scar in brain stable - finished anticoagulation therapy for clot along my port-a-catheter - 3 angioplasties to unblock vena cava
2008 - Brain and body still NED! Port removed and scans in Dec.
Dec 2008 - stop Herceptin - Vaccine Trial at U of W begun in Oct. of 2011
STILL NED everywhere in Feb 2014 - on wing & prayer
7/14 - Started twice yearly Zometa for my bones
Jan. 2015 checkup still shows NED
2015 Neuropathy in feet - otherwise all OK - still NED.
Same news for 2016 and all of 2017.
Nov of 2017 - had small skin cancer removed from my face. Will have Zometa end of Jan. 2018.
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Old 07-29-2010, 02:02 PM   #10
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Re: Lapatinib + Xeloda = any hope?

Dear Steph
You are an inspiration for me as you went through hell and won. But Herceptin worked for you.
Herceptin stoped working for me although I didn't had it long. So did hormon tabls.
I have HER2+++ and if Herceptin doesn't work not much can be done I suppose. I can see their point.
Yes, thank God, I feel well and not going to give up but they wouldn't even listen to me. They have their guesses about the lenght of my life and nothing will make them to change their mind.
I think it's not right cos they try to play God. He alone knows what's going to happen.
I'm greatful for treatment I got and I can't demand any more as it's FREE here(unlike your country).
Unfortunatly I cannot afford private treatment as my husband got rid of me when I become ill leaving me with nothing.Another sad story, sorry.
I have quite spread of bone mets, the worst in spine(collapsed T2), had 5rad treatments for the spine 7 months ago when just diagnosed with secondary cancer. Now I was told I can receive rad treatment for bones just if I have pain.For now I haven't. So not sure if it's good or bad.
Thank you for your kind support.
Praying for you.
With love
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2.8cm Grade 2
ER+++/PR+/HER2+++
R. mast., 5 FEC, 6 Taxotere, 35 radiation
11 mth Herceptin
while on Arimidex 11/09 recurrence to bones (widespread), liver
5 rad. on spine, 6 Taxotere, Herceptin, Zometa
while on this, progression
Xeloda, Zometa every 3 weeks
07/10 stopped Xeloda - doesn't work
having just Zometa, waiting for another treatment
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Old 07-30-2010, 06:31 AM   #11
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Re: Lapatinib + Xeloda = any hope?

Galina,
I have had great results with this combo, see below.
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5/06 Diagnosed IIIC, lumpectomy, 11/11 nodes HER2+
6/06 port placed. 4 Ad/Cyt and 4 Tax.
11/06 bilateral mastectomy
12/06 begin Rads
1/07 Finished Rad-started H, weekly for one year.
1/08. Finished H, scan showed activity in nodes, Doc says 'not to worry about it' and sends me on my way.
7/08 Scan shows numerous involvement in armpit, also large active nodes in supr. clav.
Doctor refused to give me HER2 meds.
8/08 fired doctor, found another. Started Tykerb/Xeloda. After one round, nodes are shrunk and normal sized!
12/08 NED continue Ty/X
3/09, 6/09, 9/09, 11/09, all scans show NED
Dropping X, continue Tykerb
As of 6/10, 3/11 still negative, continuing Tykerb...
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Old 07-30-2010, 12:38 PM   #12
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Re: Lapatinib + Xeloda = any hope?

Thank you for giving me hope.

Not sure that combo works the same way for other kind of mets.

Galina
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Dx 11/06 age 60
2.8cm Grade 2
ER+++/PR+/HER2+++
R. mast., 5 FEC, 6 Taxotere, 35 radiation
11 mth Herceptin
while on Arimidex 11/09 recurrence to bones (widespread), liver
5 rad. on spine, 6 Taxotere, Herceptin, Zometa
while on this, progression
Xeloda, Zometa every 3 weeks
07/10 stopped Xeloda - doesn't work
having just Zometa, waiting for another treatment
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Old 07-31-2010, 04:29 AM   #13
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Hi Galina
I was on Tykerb (Lapatanib)and Xeloda (Capcitabine) combination for liver mets for about a year and it was very successful, but I did show regression after a time. I live in Australia and we have a government Pharmaceutical Benefits Scheme that funds treatments that are rigorously evaluated. Lapatanib is only funded in combination with Capcitabine (Xeloda) as they consider that gives the best result.
Liver mets were found Dec 2006 (CA 15-3 was nearly 2000 at that time) and I had Herceptin alone and in a range of combinations. Herceptin/Taxol combo was the most effective and TMs dropped to 68 before they started climbing again. Herceptin was subsequently paired with Gemcitabine, Navelbine and Vinoralbine, Carboplatin and Taxol, but by December 2008 CA15-3 was 819.At that point I switched to the Tykerb/Xeloda combination. By mid January CA 15-3 had dropped to 228 but unfortunately during that time I had been hospitalised twice with dehydration owing to severe mucositis resulting in vomiting, diarrhoea and mouth ulcers. Once the dose was dropped (from 5 Tykerb daily i.e. 1250mg to 4 daily i.e. 1000 daily and Capcitabine from 4 to 3 daily the vomiting ceased and the diarrhoea became manageable.I did have hand/ foot syndrome and some worsening of my peripheral neuropathy in my fingers and toes that I originally contracted when I was on Taxol. However I found all these side effects tolerable. By Jan 2010 the liver mets had again progressed and CA15-3 had risen from a low of 58 in Oct 2009 to 124 in Feb 2010. I was started on Herceptin in combination with a trial drug but progression continued until April 2010 when I commenced Herceptin and Tykerb in combination. Unfortunately there has been further progression (CA 15-3 most recently 512) and I am now considering an Abraxane/Tykerb combination. In short I would recommend try the Tykerb/Xeloda combination as it gave me a progression-free year. I am now prepared to pay for Tykerb myself as it seems to have benefit for me. I would only suggest you ask if there are any trials of TDM-1 that you would be eligible for before you begin. I am hopeful that one day I will have access to TDM-1 as from reading this site it looks very promising. I plan to do what I can to remain healthy enough to benefit from that drug.
I wish you the very best for your treatment.I have had enormous benefit from my treatments to date and am enjoying every day with my husband, children, extended family and friends.
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Old 08-02-2010, 02:06 PM   #14
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Re: Lapatinib + Xeloda = any hope?

Thank you Trish so much. The information you given is really helpful to me.

Wish you to find the right treatment to have many years to enjoy.

Praying for you and your family.

With love

Galina
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Dx 11/06 age 60
2.8cm Grade 2
ER+++/PR+/HER2+++
R. mast., 5 FEC, 6 Taxotere, 35 radiation
11 mth Herceptin
while on Arimidex 11/09 recurrence to bones (widespread), liver
5 rad. on spine, 6 Taxotere, Herceptin, Zometa
while on this, progression
Xeloda, Zometa every 3 weeks
07/10 stopped Xeloda - doesn't work
having just Zometa, waiting for another treatment
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Old 08-03-2010, 12:30 PM   #15
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Re: Lapatinib + Xeloda = any hope?

Hello Galina -
How are you coming with getting Tykerb? Any movement in that direction.

If "pain" is the only symptom under which your bone mets can be radiated, maybe you should develop some "pain." Why wait until you start to have trouble walking or start to loose feeling in your legs?

Also, I am sorry to hear that you had a bad egg for a husband. There are several members of this site who had similar experience where their man could not/would not deal with the cancer and left the relationship. Very sad when they are so selfish.

Lots of prayers being said for you.
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Live in the moment.

MY STORY SO FAR ~~~~
Found suspicious lump 9/2000
Lumpectomy, then node dissection and port placement
Stage IIB, 8 pos nodes of 18, Grade 3, ER & PR -
Adriamycin 12 weekly, taxotere 4 rounds
36 rads - very little burning
3 mos after rads liver full of tumors, Stage IV Jan 2002, one spot on sternum
Weekly Taxol, Navelbine, Herceptin for 27 rounds to NED!
2003 & 2004 no active disease - 3 weekly Herceptin + Zometa
Jan 2005 two mets to brain - Gamma Knife on Jan 18
All clear until treated cerebellum spot showing activity on Jan 2006 brain MRI & brain PET
Brain surgery on Feb 9, 2006 - no cancer, 100% radiation necrosis - tumor was still dying
Continue as NED while on Herceptin & quarterly Zometa
Fall-2006 - off Zometa - watching one small brain spot (scar?)
2007 - spot/scar in brain stable - finished anticoagulation therapy for clot along my port-a-catheter - 3 angioplasties to unblock vena cava
2008 - Brain and body still NED! Port removed and scans in Dec.
Dec 2008 - stop Herceptin - Vaccine Trial at U of W begun in Oct. of 2011
STILL NED everywhere in Feb 2014 - on wing & prayer
7/14 - Started twice yearly Zometa for my bones
Jan. 2015 checkup still shows NED
2015 Neuropathy in feet - otherwise all OK - still NED.
Same news for 2016 and all of 2017.
Nov of 2017 - had small skin cancer removed from my face. Will have Zometa end of Jan. 2018.
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Old 08-03-2010, 02:53 PM   #16
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Re: Lapatinib + Xeloda = any hope?

Hi Steph

So glad to hear from you as most of the time I'm on my own. My children live abroad, they visit me whenever they can, so do I and we speak by Skype.

Still not sure I'll get my Tykerb as it was refused and now I have to wait if appeal will work. No treatment for 3 weeks already, just may guess what's going on with my CA.

Yes, I had a hard time with my husband, used to cry a lot as I was going through the treatment at the same time, but now feeling better. Moving closer to God helped greately, also having antidepressants.

About "pain" I know you're right, this is good advice, just having difficultes with pretending. Still will think.

Thanks and all my love from my greatful heart.

Galina
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Dx 11/06 age 60
2.8cm Grade 2
ER+++/PR+/HER2+++
R. mast., 5 FEC, 6 Taxotere, 35 radiation
11 mth Herceptin
while on Arimidex 11/09 recurrence to bones (widespread), liver
5 rad. on spine, 6 Taxotere, Herceptin, Zometa
while on this, progression
Xeloda, Zometa every 3 weeks
07/10 stopped Xeloda - doesn't work
having just Zometa, waiting for another treatment
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Old 08-03-2010, 06:08 PM   #17
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Re: Lapatinib + Xeloda = any hope?

Dear Galina -
I am glad to hear you have children who communicate with you.

About the idea of "pretending" we have a symptom. With this disease, we need to use all the possibilities. Some of the members here developed "headaches" so they could have an MRI to check their brain. A few of these ladies DID actually have tumors WITHOUT symptoms.

Just pointing this out as we can have dangerous tumors that do not cause pain. In my case I had two tumors in my brain and I had NO symptoms. Never had any kind of headache.

These tumors can respond to treatment, and the most dangerous tumors should be treated.

The health care system is going to do the minimum unless we push them for more.
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MY STORY SO FAR ~~~~
Found suspicious lump 9/2000
Lumpectomy, then node dissection and port placement
Stage IIB, 8 pos nodes of 18, Grade 3, ER & PR -
Adriamycin 12 weekly, taxotere 4 rounds
36 rads - very little burning
3 mos after rads liver full of tumors, Stage IV Jan 2002, one spot on sternum
Weekly Taxol, Navelbine, Herceptin for 27 rounds to NED!
2003 & 2004 no active disease - 3 weekly Herceptin + Zometa
Jan 2005 two mets to brain - Gamma Knife on Jan 18
All clear until treated cerebellum spot showing activity on Jan 2006 brain MRI & brain PET
Brain surgery on Feb 9, 2006 - no cancer, 100% radiation necrosis - tumor was still dying
Continue as NED while on Herceptin & quarterly Zometa
Fall-2006 - off Zometa - watching one small brain spot (scar?)
2007 - spot/scar in brain stable - finished anticoagulation therapy for clot along my port-a-catheter - 3 angioplasties to unblock vena cava
2008 - Brain and body still NED! Port removed and scans in Dec.
Dec 2008 - stop Herceptin - Vaccine Trial at U of W begun in Oct. of 2011
STILL NED everywhere in Feb 2014 - on wing & prayer
7/14 - Started twice yearly Zometa for my bones
Jan. 2015 checkup still shows NED
2015 Neuropathy in feet - otherwise all OK - still NED.
Same news for 2016 and all of 2017.
Nov of 2017 - had small skin cancer removed from my face. Will have Zometa end of Jan. 2018.
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