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Old 10-21-2006, 08:54 PM   #1
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Life can turn on a dime

Life can turn on a dime.
Last week I found a shiny new dime. My father died the next day.

I finally got to a Gastroenterologist (sp) yesterday after months of belly area pain. Looks like I'm headed for the hospital soon. Something is wrong between the liver and the gall bladder, possibly a clogged bile duct. And possibly with cancer cells.

His very mention of the words cancer and metastatic threw me for a loop. It was the first feeling of fear in a long while. This doc is young, smart, caring, but needs just a WEE bit more bedside manner. Or I need to be a LOT tougher.

At any rate, surgery is around the corner.

I'll keep you posted,

Love and light,

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Old 10-21-2006, 09:14 PM   #2
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Dear Lisa,

I wish you didn't have this to face so soon after losing your dad. Sometimes the curves come up a little fast and sharp, eh? I'll be keeping you and Mel in my thoughts and prayers.

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Old 10-21-2006, 09:58 PM   #3
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Lisa,

Just out of curiosity, how does he know that it is the bile duct that is clogged? Did you have some scans?

You will be in my thoughts and prayers.

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Old 10-22-2006, 01:33 AM   #4
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Lisa,
Sorry to hear about your dad.
Here's hoping your medical problem isn't serious.
all the best
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Old 10-22-2006, 04:40 AM   #5
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Lisa...

Prayers are coming your way. Take care and God bless.

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Old 10-22-2006, 05:46 AM   #6
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Dear Lisa

you have been through so much. Its so unfair to have this happen - you deserve a very long break from it.

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Old 10-22-2006, 08:13 AM   #7
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so sorry to hear your most recent news and after the great loss you just had. wishing you the best and prayers your way.
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Old 10-22-2006, 08:21 AM   #8
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Your dad is your angel now. And I hope you just have a gall stone!

Best wishes for good healing!
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Old 10-22-2006, 09:48 AM   #9
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you certainly have more than enough in the stress-area of your life right now! So sorry about your Dad...sending positive energy to your belly..."life is what happens when we are buly making other plans" John Lennon
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Old 10-22-2006, 09:49 AM   #10
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oops!"life is what happens when we are BUSY making other plans!!!" and our fingers aren't so stiff
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Old 10-22-2006, 12:27 PM   #11
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Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers,
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Old 10-22-2006, 02:10 PM   #12
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Praying that it is only a clogged duct. Please keep us informed.
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Tamxofin till 2001
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Old 10-22-2006, 03:22 PM   #13
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Hopefully it's only a gall stone! Hoping only good things for you.
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Old 10-22-2006, 03:46 PM   #14
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Hi Lisa,
You have had just too too much to deal with lately. I hope that all goes well with this latest ordeal. My thoughts are with you and please keep us updated.
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Old 10-22-2006, 04:29 PM   #15
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Prayers and best wishes are being sent your way from me, too. I hope it turns out to be something simple. It is time you had a big break! Hugs, Tricia
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Old 10-22-2006, 05:15 PM   #16
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Thinking of you and hoping for the best. Sincerely, Susan
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Old 10-22-2006, 06:42 PM   #17
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More prayers coming your way.
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Old 10-22-2006, 06:46 PM   #18
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I'm keeping everything crossed for you Lisa. So sorry to hear about your dad.
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Old 10-22-2006, 08:01 PM   #19
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Lisa, praying for you and Mel tomorrow!


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Old 10-22-2006, 08:31 PM   #20
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