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Old 11-08-2008, 04:16 PM   #1
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Wink Holidays and Celebrations

I have been thinking that it might be a good idea for us to share our favorite holiday and/or cultural celebrations now that we seem to be in the swing of winter observances. You don't have to limit your contributions to winter celebrations------just whatever comes to mind. Some suggestions are descriptions of celebrations, your memories and personal traditions associated with your favorite celebrations, poems, stories or recipes for your favorite holiday or cultural celebrations.
If we are lucky we wil end up with a wonderful multi cultural mix of things to read about and enjoy.
Now, I have to go look for a recipe for my favorite holiday, which is Christmas.
Have fun everyone !!
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Old 11-09-2008, 04:22 PM   #2
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I have been thinking about my favorite celebrations.
Of course Thanksgiving is one of my favorites. It is the last Thursday in November for those of you who do not live in the U. S. I am a vegetarian, so I don't eat Turkey, but I do eat all the other traditional Thanksgiving foods.
Thanksgiving reminds me of my own blessings. I like the period from Thanksgiving until New Year's because everyone is more jolly and friendly. One of my traditions is watching the Macy's Thanksgiving Day Parade from New York. We can usually get that on T. V. in Hawaii. My aunt told me it has been a family tradition since she was a little girl. My grandfather used to take his children to watch it in New York every Thanksgiving morning.
Okay. Anyone else for sharing?
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Old 11-11-2008, 10:26 AM   #3
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Christmas Cookie Party

Every year I have my kids(2), kids in law(2), grandkids(4), my daughter-in-law's sister, her husband and 7 kids, the oldest of whom is married and has a baby, my daughter-in-law's parents, and my husband's "Hooter Girls" in to decorate cookies. It is soo much fun and I would recommend it for anyone wishing to really enjoy the meaning of Christmas.
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Old 11-11-2008, 11:46 AM   #4
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My favorite has always been decorating the tree. My hubby hated it...until I made the tree-trimming tradition include a big pot of hot mulled wine! Of course, now I have to make sure he puts the lights on the tree before he himself gets too lit!
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Old 11-23-2008, 06:28 PM   #5
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Smile Holidays and Celebrations

HAPPY THANKSGIVING TO ONE AND ALL !!

I am thankful to be able to celebrate Thanksgiving !!
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Old 11-24-2008, 06:14 AM   #6
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I too am thankful for family, friends, warmth, and each and every day!
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Old 11-24-2008, 07:02 AM   #7
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When I was little we lived in Wisconsin (first Milwaukee then we moved to Menomonee Falls). We did 3 things that I didn't do with my kids and people just don't do today.

First, my mom used to buy us Christmas dresses and new "shiny" shoes. We would go see Santa and get our picture taken all dolled up.

Another thing we would do is my dad would drive us downtown at night and we would walk around and look at all the windows. The big department stores all tried to outdo each other with the decorations. It was a big deal then to have a mechanical reindeer. The window dressings were just spectacular. Department stores don't do this anymore and its quite a shame.

Lastly, on a weekend night just before Christmas, my dad would take us all in the car to ride around and look at people's houses' decorations. We would always debate whose was best. Year after year we would know where to go as most people who did a great job one year did a great job the next year. This is one thing I still do - check out the surrounding area for nicely decorated houses.
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Old 11-27-2008, 12:02 PM   #8
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This year I decided to shoot my own turkey for Thanksgiving. You should have seen everybody duck for cover in the meat department!

Having a wonderful Thanksgiving everyone, even the people in Canada who celebrated it early.
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Old 12-04-2008, 03:18 PM   #9
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I'm sipping and smelling in my mind already! Everything sounds devine!!! ma
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Old 12-04-2008, 05:40 PM   #10
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I love my Haggis, Jeannie! I like it with a little "sauce" on it once in awhile, though. I've never made my own, but I think I need to learn. I have an aunt who makes the best, but she does it in secret and won't give out the recipe!
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Old 12-04-2008, 05:48 PM   #11
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Glad you like Haggis Bill. First you need a sheeps bag and pluck, LOL I think I will leave it at that. Jeanette
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Old 12-05-2008, 10:48 AM   #12
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Every Christmas morning I get up and put coffee on and after I have had my coffee, I pop open a bottle of champagne and celebrate with a little bubbly. Then, we all open our gifts while I sip away on my special gift to myself. P.S. It also tastes better with chocolate covered strawberries!
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Old 12-09-2008, 09:23 PM   #13
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In my mind it is not Christmas without a tree. I dragged my tree and decorations out of storage yesterday even though I had to move alot of things to do it, so I am in the middle of decorating my home these days. It is a lot of work, but worth every bit of it. I never take my tree down or put away my decorations until after the 12th night (around January 6th or 7th). One year I had it up until the end of January when I had bronchitis !! I had a real tree that year. My neighbors must have wondered about me when they saw me dragging it out to the trash on January 31st. Oh well.
I also love Christmas Eve or Christmas Day services.
Church on Christmas felt like something miraculous when I was a child. It still does.
Mele Kalikimaka (Merry Christmas)
Hauoli Makahiki Hou (Happy New Year)
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Old 12-10-2008, 08:45 AM   #14
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For our family, the start of the holiday season is a huge shopping trip to the grocery store. Our grocery store has a 20% off coupon it mails out the first of December. We get all the kids packed up and we go to the store. Each child gets their own cart and they get to put anything they want in the cart. We usually buy a years worth of canned goods and all sorts of meat for the freezer. We usually end up with four or five carts filled to the brim. It is a great time for everyone and it also marks the start of the Christmas season. This year we spent about $1,200 and with coupons and 20% off, the bill came down to $750. By the way, our family motto is, "Never pay full price for anything".
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Sentinal node biopsy and lymph node removal with 3/18 positive in October 2007
4 TAC infusions
lumpectomy March 2008, bad margins
Re-excision on June 3rd, 2008 with clean margins
Fitted for compression sleeve July 16, 2008
Started the first of two TCH infusions August 14, 2008
Done with chemo and now a member of the blue dot club 9/17/08
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Old 12-16-2008, 06:38 PM   #15
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The Christmas Pickle...years ago I found this ornament in a specialty Christmas shop...my boys were about 3 and 5 (now 30 and 33). The legend said on Christmas Eve, Santa hid the ornament...a lovely glass pickle...on the tree. The first child to discover the ornament on Christmas got a special little gift! When my boys got married, they each got their own pickle ornament...and the tradition continues!
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