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Old 04-14-2013, 06:30 PM   #1
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number 8

Hi dear sisters,
Well, I have reached the 8th year. It seemed like yesterday in some ways and in others a blur. For the newer members, I post in the hopes that it will encourage you and offer support and strength while you are going through your treatments. It may seem as if there is no end to the treatments and the effects, etc. but I will share that time will help bring your confidence back and the worry & fearful emotions will become less and less.

To my older sisters members, thank you for your loving support, kindness, humor & wit. You never stop amazing me.

Hugs,
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Ki-67 40%
Arimidex 5/05
Radiation 32 trt, 5/30/05
Oncotype DX test 4/17/06, 31% high risk
TOPO 11 neg. 4/06
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TCH 5/06, 6 treatments
Herceptin 5/06 - for 1 yr.
9/06 Completed chemo
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Old 04-14-2013, 06:50 PM   #2
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Re: number 8

Congratulations Jean! Thanks for your words of wisdom
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Lumpectomy left breast
1 tumour 0.9 cm
Her2 negative
lymph nodes negative
venous/lymphatic invasion absent
ER+PR-
Stage I Grade 2
Radiation and Femara

November 2008
Lumpectomy right breast
2 tumours .03 cm and .05 cm and extensive DCIS
.05 tumour Her2+
lymph node negative
venous/lymphatic invasion "indeterminate"
ER+PR low postive
Stage 1 Grade 2

January 2009
bilateral mastectomy
chemotherapy taxotere
Herceptin one year
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Old 04-14-2013, 07:53 PM   #3
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Re: number 8

Congrats on this wonderful milestone!!!!!

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Old 04-14-2013, 08:55 PM   #4
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Re: number 8

Congratulations!!
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Biopsy- DCIS, IDC, er-/pr-/her2+++, grade3. 1 node suspicious on us. Biopsy +.
Plan was for Neoadjuvant TCH x6, Herceptin q3w x a year.
May1- first chemo.
May 5- I could no longer feel the mass. Really. Neither could my oncologist.
July 2- 4th TCH- Oncologist cancels last 2 tx due to "complete response"
August6- lumpectomy with axillary node dissection. No disease present in breast. 1 out of 14 nodes + (4mm)
MUGA #2- 72%
Finished 30 rads Oct '12. Mild lymphedema noticed when I had 2 rads left.
Continue Herceptin q3w until next May
April '13- first mammo since surgery- calcium deposits that are " not concerning." Well, they are concerning to ME! Turned loose from surgeon for 6 months! One more Vit H, will make plans then for port removal.
Oct '13- no change in calcium deposits. "See ya in 6 months!" Keeping port for now.
March '14- oncologist says return in 6 mo.
April '14- mammo unchanged. Surgeon will see me in 6 months but no mammo for a year unless something changes. Its getting easier, but oh, boydo i hate that scanxiety! Keeping port until 2 year anniversary of last Herceptin.
Sept'14- bloodwork good, return to onco in 8 months.
Oct'14- surgeon will see me in April '15. Moving on.
May '15- mammo unchanged, keeping same schedule. Tumor markers soon and if all is well port comes out.
July '15-tumor markers normal. See onco in a year. Appt. for port end of month. First grandchild born July 1st- for today, life is good.
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Old 04-14-2013, 08:57 PM   #5
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Re: number 8

Big congrats Jean! # 8 and doing great!

all the best
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3 x FEC, 3 x Taxotere
Herceptin - every 3 weeks for a year, finished May 8/08

Tamoxifen - 2 1/2 years
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Old 04-14-2013, 09:28 PM   #6
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Re: number 8

Congratulations, Jean
Its always good for long time conquerors to check back in and encourage others!
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two tumors; .7 cm and 1.0 cm, same duct
lumpectomy 2/09
10 positive nodes; scans show no further metastasis, Stage IIIc
AC completed 5/09
Tykerb/Taxol (trial) 6/09, terminated from trial (due to bad reaction to Tykerb) 8/09; switched to Herceptin/Taxol
Taxol finished 10/09
Bilateral mastectomy 11/09
Radiation 12/09 to 1/10
Herceptin finished 7/10
NED
Start Vaccine Trial at Hopkins 2/11
Finished Vaccine Trial 11/11
Continue NED
Port Out 11/11
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Old 04-14-2013, 10:16 PM   #7
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Re: number 8

Jean, Thank you so much for you words of encouragement. I have a few questions if you don't mind. I see that your chemo was 10 months after dx, was that because of the onco test? And I'm not sure what the TOPO means.
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3/12/12 Found Lump Lt Breast (BSE).
3/13/12 44th Birthday, Mammogram, Ultrasound.
3/15/12 Needle Biopsy on Lump and Suspicious Node.
3/20/12 Dreadful "C" Word.
ER90% PR90% Her2+
1 cm, IDC, Stage 1, Grade 2
4/19/12 Portecath, Lumpectomy & Sentinel Node Removal. 0/4 Node Involvement...Yea!!
Margins Clear......Yea!!
5/17/12 Chemo Begins. TCH x 4.
Herceptin Weekly x 4, every 3 wks thereafter for 1 yr. Muga Scans every 3 mos.
8/13/12 Rads x 30
9/24/12 Start Tamoxifen
10/22/12 CT/Whole Body Bone Scan. No Cancer Detected......Yea!
1/31/13 Annual Mammogram and Ultrasound....NED....:)
5/23/13 Final Herceptin Appt
6/25/13 Port Removal
5/2017 Stop Tamoxifen (Thickening of Uterine Walls)
5/2017 Start Arimadex
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Old 04-15-2013, 12:37 AM   #8
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Re: number 8

Congratulations, Jean. I am glad that you and other old timers make time to visit the board and encourage others.
Very best wishes, Nancy
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29/11/06-WLE and then re-excision to get clear margins.
Tumour was 1.2cms; Grade3; Er+ Pr+ HER2 3+++; SNB negative out of 9 nodes.
Chemo was Epirubicin every 3wks x4 then Xeloda (2wks on, 1wk off) for 4 cycles. ( I am part of the TACT2 trial.)
Rads x25
Arimidex for 5 yrs.
Hoping to start Herceptin within the next 2 weeks (we have to follow the HERA protocol to qualify for Herceptin in the U.K.) I worry about the delay in starting Herceptin!! Started 8/10/07
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Old 04-15-2013, 02:25 AM   #9
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Re: number 8

Congratulations!

[Don't forget to answer the question about TOPO and your delayed TCH/Herceptin treatment]
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Old 04-15-2013, 07:04 AM   #10
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Re: number 8

Congrats, Jean. And thank you for advice and support you provide to newbies and everyone else

Best
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June, 2000: Tamox 4.5 years,Femara for 5 years (end in Jan. 2010)
Sept, 2012: 61, Via mamm, ultrasound, biopsy, right breast, 2.3cm tumor, ER+/PR-/Her2+++, poorly diff, KI67 60-70%
BRCA 1 and 2 negative
October, 2012: Bi Mast with tissue expanders, port placement
Final Path: IDC 2.8cm, DCIS, 1/4 sentinal nodes positive (@#$%). Stage IIB
Nov 29, 2012: Begin TCH/6x/every 3 wks, H for 1 year/every 3 weeks.
March 14, 2013: Finished chemo
April 9, 2013: Begin radiation 28x
May 22, 2013: Finished rads
June 1st, 2013: Started Aromasin for 5 yrs.
July 15, 2013: Switched to Letrozole (Femara). Probably for the rest of my life
October 16, 2013: Exchange surgery
October 31, 2013: Finished Herceptin
December 5, 2013: Port removed
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Old 04-15-2013, 07:13 AM   #11
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A milestone, indeed! I feel like we were early stage herceptin pioneers. You had to get it by coming in through the "back door" so to speak. I got it "off label" ! The important thing is that we fought for it and got it, before it was protocol. We are going to be around for many many years, celebrating!!! Hope you do something special to mark this momentous day!!! XO Suzan
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5/05 suspicious mammogram-left breast
5/05 biopsy-invasive lobular carcinoma with LCIS,8mm tumor,stage 1 grade 2, ER+ PR+ Her2+++
6/14/05 bilateral mastectomy, node neg. all scans neg.
Oncotype DX-high risk
8/05-10/05 4 rounds A/C
10/05 -10/06 1 yr. herceptin
arimidex-5 years
2/14/08 started daily self administered injections..FORTEO for severe osteoporosis
7/28/09 BRCA 1 negative BRCA2 POSITIVE
8/17/09 prophylactic salpingo-oophorectomy
10/15/10 last FORTEOinjection
RECLAST infusion(ostoeporosis)
6/14/10 5 year cancerversary!
8/2010-18%increase in bone density!
no further treatments
Oncologist says, "Go do the Happy Dance"
I say,"What a long strange trip its been"
'One day at a time'
6-14-2015. 10 YEAR CANCERVERSARY!
7-16 to 9-16. Extensive (and expensive) dental work done to save teeth. Damage from osteoporosis and chemo and long term bisphosphonate use
6-14-16. 11 YEAR CANCERVERSARY!!
7-20-16 Prolia injection for severe osteoporosis
2 days later, massive hive outbreak. This led to an eventual dx of Chronic Ideopathic Urticaria, an auto-immune disease from HELL.
6-14-17 12 YEAR CANCERVERSARY!!
still suffering from CIU. 4 hospitilizations in the past year

as of today, 10-31-17 in remission from CIU and still, CANCER FREE!!!
6-14-18 13 YEAR CANCERVERSARY!! NED!!

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Old 04-15-2013, 07:20 AM   #12
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Re: number 8

Congratulations, Jean! As my oncologist used to say, "Keep up the good work!"
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Old 04-15-2013, 08:29 AM   #13
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Re: number 8

So happy that you are at the 8 year mark and NED. Such a wonderful post to read!
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Old 04-15-2013, 08:38 AM   #14
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Re: number 8

Yay, Jean!
I want to be YOU when I grow up!
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3/11 - Post-op staph infection,cellulitis, lymphedema,seroma,ARRRGH!
4/12/11-A/C x 4, then T/H x 4, H only,Q3 weeks
8/26/11 finished Taxol!!!
10/7/11 mastectomy/DIEP recon
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1/12 Low EF/Herceptin "Holiday" :(
2/12 EF up - Back on Herceptin, heart meds
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6/17/12 Fall, shatter wrist,surgery to repair/insert plate :(
7/10/12 last Herceptin
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Old 04-15-2013, 12:21 PM   #15
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Re: number 8

yay!! I love hearing good news
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stage II - invasive ductal carcinoma ER/PR+ HER2+
10/01/10 - BRCA test - Negative
11/3/10 -2.5cm tumor removed via lumpectomy, clear margins. sentinal node biopsy - nodes clear!
12/2/10 - port placement
12/2/10 to 3/17/11 - 6 rounds of taxotere, carboplatin & herceptin every 3rd week.
04/20/11 - 6/6/11 - 33 rounds of radiation
4/6/11 to 11/2/11 - 11 additional rounds of herceptin every 3rd week
7/15/11 - port removal
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9/4/11 -1 yr Chest MRI - CLEAN!!!!
9/5/12 -2 yr Chest MRI - CLEAN!!!!
8/29/12 - Started spotting after being in chemopause 1.5 years. Ultra sound detected 6cm ovary mass & very thick lining. YIKES! Taken off Tamoxifen
9/6/12 - Full abdominal hysterectomy. Pathology report came back clean... thank you baby Jesus!!
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Old 04-15-2013, 12:36 PM   #16
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Re: number 8

My how time flies when you're havin' fun, right Jean? I hit the 5 year mark in beginning of May. Hardly seems possible it was that long ago. Memory is still fresh but fading a bit with time. Newbies, there is life after BC.
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Dx'd w/multifocal DCIS/IDS 3/08
7mm invasive component
Partial mast. 5/08
Stage 1b, ER 80%, PR 90%, HER-2 6.9 on FISH
0/5 nodes
4 AC, 4 TH finished 9/08
Herceptin every 3 weeks. Finished 7/09
Tamoxifen 10/08. Switched to Femara 8/09
Bilat SPM w/reconstruction 10/08
Clinical Trial w/Clondronate 12/08
Stopped Clondronate--too hard on my gizzard!
Switched back to Tamoxifen due to tendon pain from Femara

15 Years NED
I think I just might hang around awhile....

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Old 04-15-2013, 02:34 PM   #17
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Huge congrats from me Jean and I'm right behind you and hope to celebrate this summer and like you never thought I'd get here. I'm sure we have our Vit H to thank for that as Andi would say and wish you many many more healthy years!!!
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Rads x 36 ..oophorectomy August '06
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Stopped Arimidex July 2014- Restarted Arimidex 2015 for a further two years on the advice of my Onc.
2014 Normal Dexa scan
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Old 04-15-2013, 06:47 PM   #18
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Oh dear friend. It seems like only yesterday all this was happening but we got through it. I am so happy you have reached this milestone. I think about you everyday with love and affection.
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Diagnosed 8/04 at age 45
1.9cm tumor, ER+PR-, Her2 3+(rt side)
2 micromets to sentinel node
Stage 2A
left 3mm DCIS - low grade ER+PR+Her2 neg
lumpectomies 9/7/04
4DD AC followed by 4 DD taxol
Used Leukine instead of Neulasta
35 rads on right side only
4/05 started Tamoxifen
Started Herceptin 4 months after last Taxol due to
trial results and 2005 ASCO meeting & recommendations
Oophorectomy 8/05
Started Arimidex 9/05
Finished Herceptin (16 months) 9/06
Arimidex Only
Prolia every 6 months for osteopenia

NED 18 years!

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Old 04-15-2013, 08:15 PM   #19
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Hi All,
Huge thank you for your so very kind posts.
All put a big smile on my face and some tears (happy)
also. I never forget for one moment how fortunate I am am and so glad that I fought hard to get herceptin.

lasarles: The reason for my delay in herceptin/chemo was that back in 2005 it was not standard of care or what we call protocol. I had decided to have the Onco DX test done because my instincts were shouting at me. Once I began to do my homework on Her2 I could not understand why an early stage patient was not permitted that treatment. So I went to 2nd, 3rd and yes even 4 opinions. All said that herceptin was only for later stage patients. I then thought the Onco test would be wise to glean more information on my tumor.
That test was also new at that time. The test came back with a high recurrence. With that knowledge I then called Dr. Slamon in Calif. and the wonderful man said he would see me. So I flew out to Santa Monica to his office and Dr. Slamon advised that he do a TOPO2 test, since he said that depending on that test A/C chemo
would not benefit me if I were TOPO 2. Also, at that time Dr. Salmon had just completed the trials for TCH treatment. The results had not been published and he explained to me how exciting this new and outstanding treatment would be for the patient and the treating dr. So, depending on my TOPO2 test that would be a deciding factor for my treatment. It turned out that TCH was the best treatment for me and today is for the most part the standard of care. Back then this was cutting edge. Dr. Salmon was way ahead at the time and his exact words, which I will never forget, were "the other doctors are wrong, you must have herceptin, I wish more women would question their dx." It was such a relief for me - because can you imagine what it was like then to continue to see top doctors and then continue to question them? I had one dr. say to me that I was not accepting my breast cancer dx. Well, yea in a way she was correct. I was not accepting that there was not more I could do to save my life. I even had close friends think I was losing my senses by not listening to the first 4 top dr. That I was obsessed with my breast cancer dx. I realized they did not understand the difference - that new cutting edge tests, treatments were out there and maybe I really needed them.
It took great strength and giving in to people saying negative things to me about my continuous searching. I had people tell me to stay off the internet, stop reading about breast cancer, sounds so silly doesn't it. But you have to realize so much has changed in just short 8 years in so many ways.
So yes, it took 10 months and flying out to Dr. Salmon to arrive where I needed to be. Of course I found this Her2 site and that only gave me more strength and knowledge. I will never forget Becky who was the first to reach out to me and our friendship began that moment. Dear sweet Sheila, who encouraged me to fight back (she was stage 1 and had progressed) who became my second new Her2 friend and sister. Our founder Christine even called me to say don't give up fight for herceptin. Susan
who like me, was an early stager and was also treated.
My heart breaks for those that are no longer with us. These past 8 years are bitter sweet.

I will share this also, at the time Onco DX was new as I mentioned. I had requested and told my breast surgeon to send a sample of my tumor out for the OncoDX test. Well, I called two weeks later only to be told by his nurse, oh the dr. decided not to send the sample as he does not believe in the test and besides your insurance will not pay for it. I was furious that a doctor would not follow his patients request. So it took another few weeks just to get that test done. When the results came back he was shocked it was so high.

Another point that I was trying to make at the time was that having a small tumor matters not when it comes to breast cancer...much like being a little pregnant. I had asked another dr. how many cells are there in a small tumor like mine. His answer was millions. When I heard that I knew while catching the cancer in the earliest stage is good, it is still a serious disease. The doctors were sort of blowing me off since my tumor was small. Her2 didn't seem to matter very much to them. Again, Dr. Salmon agreed that having Her2 in a small tumor was serious as it loves to travel. So, I am a strange one in that I had my treatment later and radiation first.

Susan, lol - you are not kidding when you said, "the back door ...you made me laugh so hard!"

Tricia - You keep bringing up the rear!!!

Laurel - 5 is a big milestone I will be cheering for you.

Nancy Dip - Big thanks for calling me OLD timer I love it.

Becky - you make me smile, thank you for your friendship and love all these years.

Dear newer members, it is a long and often scarey walk
on this breast cancer journey, just fight back hard and never give up. Come often to the site and you will always have your sister here to support you and give you the courage or just kindness when others just don't understand what you are feeling. We have all walked the journey so we "get it" and understand.

Love to all,
Jean
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Node Neg. (Sentinel node)
ER+ 90% / PR-, Her2+++ by FISH
Ki-67 40%
Arimidex 5/05
Radiation 32 trt, 5/30/05
Oncotype DX test 4/17/06, 31% high risk
TOPO 11 neg. 4/06
Stopped Arimidex 5/06
TCH 5/06, 6 treatments
Herceptin 5/06 - for 1 yr.
9/06 Completed chemo
Started Femara Sept. 2006

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Old 04-15-2013, 08:53 PM   #20
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Jean,
Many congratulations and best wishes.

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