Holiday Plans and Traditions.

[TiffanyS]

Hello all,

Since the holidays are fast approaching, I was wondering what everyone’s plans were for Christmas and New Year's? I am flying to a small town in Northern Ontario to visit my family. It’s very cold there, and they have a lot of snow. That being said, I love spending Christmas there as everyone gets into the spirit of things, and I love snow at Christmas time (it can disappear right after the New Year). I will be spending Christmas Eve with my mother and her husband, and our usual tradition is to have a nice dinner, watch a Christmas movie, open our gifts, and then drive around the city looking at the Christmas lights. This is one of my favourite things to do. My dad and step-mother are hosting Christmas Day, and we are expecting 15 people for dinner, including us. We will open our gifts in the morning, and then get the tables set and the turkey in the oven. We usually cook the traditional turkey dinner with all of the trimmings. After dinner, we will play our annual card game called Chase the Ace. The kids love it! On Boxing Day (Dec 26), I will be going for Brunch with my mother, and then we go shopping to check out the Boxing Day sales. The malls where she lives are not as crazy on Boxing Day as they are in the big city. After that, I will be going to my aunt’s house for another big meal! My step-sister is also hosting a big dinner on Dec 27, so I’ll be going there for more food! Overall, there is a lot of eating happening over the holidays, which is not really good for my diet, but that’s okay. I’ll cut back once I get back home!

I don’t have any New Year’s Eve plans yet, but I’ll be back at home by then, and my friends and I are talking about doing something fun. I’m sure something will come up.

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12/15 – First mammogram
01/16 – Second mammogram and ultrasound.
01/16 – Meet surgeon and go for third mammogram, second ultrasound and biopsy. Surgeon confirms cancer in left breast and lymph nodes and sets surgery date.
01/16 – Chest scan and bone scan done– all looks good.
02/16 – Surgery - left breast mastectomy and 16 lymph nodes removed (8 had cancer).
02/16 – CT scan done – small nodules on lung but Doctor advises it’s normal. They will continue to monitor just in case.
03/16 – Meet radiation oncologist and find out results of Pathology Report. I’m told that I have locally advanced breast cancer, based on the size of my tumour (7 cm!) and the fact that they found cancer cells in eight lymph nodes. I’m also told that I’m HER 2 positive, and that my cancer is stage 3, grade 2.
03/16 – Meet oncologist and am told that my cancer is actually grade 3, and that I should have done chemo before surgery. Too late now!
03/16 – Start first of six doses of chemo (Carboplatin and Docetaxal) and Herceptin (for one year).
04/16 – Have port put in.
04/16 – Get second dose of chemo, but Docetaxal is left out due to liver enzymes being high. I was unable to get a full dose of Docetaxal after my first treatment.
06/16 – Finished chemo! One month off and then I start radiation.
06/16 – Start Tamoxifen.
07/16 – First radiation treatment – 24 more to go!
08/16 – Went for Genetic Testing to see if I have the BRCA gene. Tested negative for BRCA I and II
08/16 – Radiation oncologist biopsies “scar tissue” on my scar.
08/16 – I am told that I have a “local recurrence” and need to have rush surgery.
09/16 – Meet surgeon who advises that I need to meet with a plastic surgeon, as they will need to do a skin graft to close me up after surgery.
09/16 – Go for rush ultrasound, bone scan, breast MRI and CT scan.
09/16 – Meet plastic surgeon and all looks good. A surgery date is set for October 4.
09/16 – Meet oncologist who advises that the ultrasound and bone scan results look good, and that MRI shows three small masses at surgery site, but lymph nodes are clear. Still awaiting the results of the CT scan, but we are positive it will look good.
09/16 – Get a call from my oncologist, who advises that CT scan shows small spots on my lungs, and a large lymph node in the middle of my chest. This means the cancer has spread! She looks into getting me funded for TDM1 and cancels my surgery.
10/16 – Meet oncologist, who advises that I have to take Perjeta before I can take TDM1. I start Perjeta/Herceptin every three weeks for an indefinite amount of time, and Taxol, which I will take two weeks in a row with one week off and then two weeks in a row for 8-16 treatments.
10/16 – Stop Tamoxifen.
10/16 – Meet surgeon, who reviews my CT scan and advises that the spots on my lungs may not be cancer, and that he doesn’t see a lymph node in my chest. He thinks it’s a spot on my lung. I’m feeling very confused! He advises that my oncologist doesn’t want me to have surgery to remove the three small masses on my scar line, as she wants to use them as a way to determine if the treatment is working. He advises that if they have not shrunk in 6 months, he will revisit surgery.
10/16 – CEA blood test to determine Tumour markers. Results were normal (2.7). My doctor advises that this could mean two things: (1) that the treatment is working, and the tumours are shrinking, or (2), that I'm one of those people who never get elevated CEA levels. Given that some people never get an elevated CEA level, this test doesn’t seem very accurate to me! Asked for PET scan, but am told I don’t qualify.
10/16 – Brain MRI – NED!
11/16 - CA-15-30 blood test – Tumour markers are normal at 19.
11/16 – Second CEA blood test – Tumours markers are still normal at 1.6
11/16 – Second CA-15-30 bloot test – Tumour markers are still normal at 19
11/16 – Develop lymphedema and have to wear a sleeve
12/16 – CT Scan scheduled for December 14. I can’t wait to find out if the Perjeta is working!

[MaineRottweilers]

You sound a lot like me. I live in Maine and I love snow the day after Thanksgiving right through to the New Year but on Jan. 2, it should all go away. Snow makes the season festive and being inside, with family, somehow warmer and more comfortable.

This year will be very strange, my daughter is in Japan. Sadly, my SO and I both have split families so our children might be with us or not. When we do all get together, it may not be on Christmas, I refuse to have multiple celebrations so we will wait for everyone to be together. "Santa" never forgets to stop at our house so we do stockings as a free for all over breakfast pastry, hot chocolate with candy canes. Even though the kids are all teens or twenty somethings, they still love this part. We'll take a break clean up and then we exchange gifts from under the tree. Then the games begin. Our favorite is Killer Bunnies, it's a cult card game. Google it, it's super fun and zany. We have a traditional dinner, turkey and all the fixings and continue our games into the evening. I'm sure we will have lots of fun but it will be very strange without my daughter. I suppose this is a taste of what's to come as they each grow up and develop their own traditions. I hope they always come home to see what Santa left.

[tricia keegan]

I live in Ireland so to us this is Christmas rather than a holiday. It lasts about two weeks and most office's will be closed along with Govt buildings but if you like to shop they do open on the day after Christmas. To most people Christmas lasts about two weeks here and is all about family. We usually go to my daughters house but this year we'll have our son and his family visit from Scotland so we'll all meet up here, it's challenging as some of them are vegetarians! We'll have a few lunches and dinners out too but for me it's all about a quiet time, just enjoying people we're with, remembering those we've lost and enjoying some Christmas songs and carols too.

[Pamelamary]

Christmas in Australia is very different; Melbourne's weather is extremely variable but the temperature is likely to be about 30C! However it is still all about family, with the eve spent with my husband's (Italian heritage) family and this year my family for lunch the next day at my house. Hard work, but fun to all get together. We usually have lots of seafood, cold ham and turkey, but manage to eat the traditional Christmas pudding with brandy sauce! Then of course, the long summer holidays begin.....
I would never have dreamed nearly 5 years ago that I would still be around - life is good.
Best wishes to all....... Pam

[TiffanyS]

It’s nice to hear about everyone’s different traditions over the holidays. Tracy, I’m sorry your daughter won’t be with you this year, but I hope you still have a great holiday with the rest of your family. I will have to look up Killer Bunnies.

Tricia, I work at a law firm, and we deal with law firms in the UK and Ireland all of the time. I’ve noticed that they tend to be closed from December 24 until the New Year. We only close for the stat holidays, which are Christmas Day, Boxing Day and New Year’s Day, although we do close early on Christmas Eve. I always take vacation on December 23 and 24 so that I can travel up north to spend the holidays with my family. I have to be there by Christmas Eve, as my family is half French, and we celebrate Christmas on the 24th, like the Italians and Portuguese do. I hope you can find some good vegetarian receipts for your family!

Pam, I have some friends from Australia, and they do a big traditional meal on Christmas Eve, with ham and turkey, and have a seafood buffet on Christmas Day. They complain about the heat at Christmas, and as someone who has always spent Christmas in a cold climate, I can’t imagine spending Christmas in 30C weather. As much as I hate the cold, I like having snow at Christmas, and getting all bundled up in boots and a parka, etc. Of course, as soon as New Year’s is over, I can’t wait for the cold to end and Spring to arrive.

I am glad that we are all still here to celebrate another Christmas season, and I hope that we have many more Christmas celebrations to look forward to in the years to come!

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12/15 – First mammogram
01/16 – Second mammogram and ultrasound.
01/16 – Meet surgeon and go for third mammogram, second ultrasound and biopsy. Surgeon confirms cancer in left breast and lymph nodes and sets surgery date.
01/16 – Chest scan and bone scan done– all looks good.
02/16 – Surgery - left breast mastectomy and 16 lymph nodes removed (8 had cancer).
02/16 – CT scan done – small nodules on lung but Doctor advises it’s normal. They will continue to monitor just in case.
03/16 – Meet radiation oncologist and find out results of Pathology Report. I’m told that I have locally advanced breast cancer, based on the size of my tumour (7 cm!) and the fact that they found cancer cells in eight lymph nodes. I’m also told that I’m HER 2 positive, and that my cancer is stage 3, grade 2.
03/16 – Meet oncologist and am told that my cancer is actually grade 3, and that I should have done chemo before surgery. Too late now!
03/16 – Start first of six doses of chemo (Carboplatin and Docetaxal) and Herceptin (for one year).
04/16 – Have port put in.
04/16 – Get second dose of chemo, but Docetaxal is left out due to liver enzymes being high. I was unable to get a full dose of Docetaxal after my first treatment.
06/16 – Finished chemo! One month off and then I start radiation.
06/16 – Start Tamoxifen.
07/16 – First radiation treatment – 24 more to go!
08/16 – Went for Genetic Testing to see if I have the BRCA gene. Tested negative for BRCA I and II
08/16 – Radiation oncologist biopsies “scar tissue” on my scar.
08/16 – I am told that I have a “local recurrence” and need to have rush surgery.
09/16 – Meet surgeon who advises that I need to meet with a plastic surgeon, as they will need to do a skin graft to close me up after surgery.
09/16 – Go for rush ultrasound, bone scan, breast MRI and CT scan.
09/16 – Meet plastic surgeon and all looks good. A surgery date is set for October 4.
09/16 – Meet oncologist who advises that the ultrasound and bone scan results look good, and that MRI shows three small masses at surgery site, but lymph nodes are clear. Still awaiting the results of the CT scan, but we are positive it will look good.
09/16 – Get a call from my oncologist, who advises that CT scan shows small spots on my lungs, and a large lymph node in the middle of my chest. This means the cancer has spread! She looks into getting me funded for TDM1 and cancels my surgery.
10/16 – Meet oncologist, who advises that I have to take Perjeta before I can take TDM1. I start Perjeta/Herceptin every three weeks for an indefinite amount of time, and Taxol, which I will take two weeks in a row with one week off and then two weeks in a row for 8-16 treatments.
10/16 – Stop Tamoxifen.
10/16 – Meet surgeon, who reviews my CT scan and advises that the spots on my lungs may not be cancer, and that he doesn’t see a lymph node in my chest. He thinks it’s a spot on my lung. I’m feeling very confused! He advises that my oncologist doesn’t want me to have surgery to remove the three small masses on my scar line, as she wants to use them as a way to determine if the treatment is working. He advises that if they have not shrunk in 6 months, he will revisit surgery.
10/16 – CEA blood test to determine Tumour markers. Results were normal (2.7). My doctor advises that this could mean two things: (1) that the treatment is working, and the tumours are shrinking, or (2), that I'm one of those people who never get elevated CEA levels. Given that some people never get an elevated CEA level, this test doesn’t seem very accurate to me! Asked for PET scan, but am told I don’t qualify.
10/16 – Brain MRI – NED!
11/16 - CA-15-30 blood test – Tumour markers are normal at 19.
11/16 – Second CEA blood test – Tumours markers are still normal at 1.6
11/16 – Second CA-15-30 bloot test – Tumour markers are still normal at 19
11/16 – Develop lymphedema and have to wear a sleeve
12/16 – CT Scan scheduled for December 14. I can’t wait to find out if the Perjeta is working!

[tricia keegan]

Lol Tiffany, Christmas does tend to go on here a bit, have a happy Christmas and enjoy!

[TiffanyS]

Thanks Tricia, you too!

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12/15 – First mammogram
01/16 – Second mammogram and ultrasound.
01/16 – Meet surgeon and go for third mammogram, second ultrasound and biopsy. Surgeon confirms cancer in left breast and lymph nodes and sets surgery date.
01/16 – Chest scan and bone scan done– all looks good.
02/16 – Surgery - left breast mastectomy and 16 lymph nodes removed (8 had cancer).
02/16 – CT scan done – small nodules on lung but Doctor advises it’s normal. They will continue to monitor just in case.
03/16 – Meet radiation oncologist and find out results of Pathology Report. I’m told that I have locally advanced breast cancer, based on the size of my tumour (7 cm!) and the fact that they found cancer cells in eight lymph nodes. I’m also told that I’m HER 2 positive, and that my cancer is stage 3, grade 2.
03/16 – Meet oncologist and am told that my cancer is actually grade 3, and that I should have done chemo before surgery. Too late now!
03/16 – Start first of six doses of chemo (Carboplatin and Docetaxal) and Herceptin (for one year).
04/16 – Have port put in.
04/16 – Get second dose of chemo, but Docetaxal is left out due to liver enzymes being high. I was unable to get a full dose of Docetaxal after my first treatment.
06/16 – Finished chemo! One month off and then I start radiation.
06/16 – Start Tamoxifen.
07/16 – First radiation treatment – 24 more to go!
08/16 – Went for Genetic Testing to see if I have the BRCA gene. Tested negative for BRCA I and II
08/16 – Radiation oncologist biopsies “scar tissue” on my scar.
08/16 – I am told that I have a “local recurrence” and need to have rush surgery.
09/16 – Meet surgeon who advises that I need to meet with a plastic surgeon, as they will need to do a skin graft to close me up after surgery.
09/16 – Go for rush ultrasound, bone scan, breast MRI and CT scan.
09/16 – Meet plastic surgeon and all looks good. A surgery date is set for October 4.
09/16 – Meet oncologist who advises that the ultrasound and bone scan results look good, and that MRI shows three small masses at surgery site, but lymph nodes are clear. Still awaiting the results of the CT scan, but we are positive it will look good.
09/16 – Get a call from my oncologist, who advises that CT scan shows small spots on my lungs, and a large lymph node in the middle of my chest. This means the cancer has spread! She looks into getting me funded for TDM1 and cancels my surgery.
10/16 – Meet oncologist, who advises that I have to take Perjeta before I can take TDM1. I start Perjeta/Herceptin every three weeks for an indefinite amount of time, and Taxol, which I will take two weeks in a row with one week off and then two weeks in a row for 8-16 treatments.
10/16 – Stop Tamoxifen.
10/16 – Meet surgeon, who reviews my CT scan and advises that the spots on my lungs may not be cancer, and that he doesn’t see a lymph node in my chest. He thinks it’s a spot on my lung. I’m feeling very confused! He advises that my oncologist doesn’t want me to have surgery to remove the three small masses on my scar line, as she wants to use them as a way to determine if the treatment is working. He advises that if they have not shrunk in 6 months, he will revisit surgery.
10/16 – CEA blood test to determine Tumour markers. Results were normal (2.7). My doctor advises that this could mean two things: (1) that the treatment is working, and the tumours are shrinking, or (2), that I'm one of those people who never get elevated CEA levels. Given that some people never get an elevated CEA level, this test doesn’t seem very accurate to me! Asked for PET scan, but am told I don’t qualify.
10/16 – Brain MRI – NED!
11/16 - CA-15-30 blood test – Tumour markers are normal at 19.
11/16 – Second CEA blood test – Tumours markers are still normal at 1.6
11/16 – Second CA-15-30 bloot test – Tumour markers are still normal at 19
11/16 – Develop lymphedema and have to wear a sleeve
12/16 – CT Scan scheduled for December 14. I can’t wait to find out if the Perjeta is working!