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Old 11-20-2006, 11:31 AM   #1
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Sad news,Prayers please..

Dear Her2 family,
I just recoeved news of my brothers passing from lung cancer. I was with him this past weekend and we made amends for the many years we were estranged.
My daughter got spend time with him on the two visits we had recently and my heart is full with love we all rekindled.
Tell those you love... NOW...that you love them,as you all know tomorrow may never come.
Please keep us in your prayers in the coming days,

Marcia
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Old 11-20-2006, 11:41 AM   #2
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Marcia
You and your family are in my prayers at this time...I am so glad you were able to come together before his passing.....it will help you heal.
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Core Biopsy 2/22/02
L. Mastectomy 2/25/2002
Stage 1, 0.7cm IDC, Node Neg from 19 nodes Her2+++ ER PR Neg
6/2003 Reconstruction W/ Tissue Expander, Silicone Implant
9/2003 Stage IV with Mets to Supraclavicular nodes
9/2003 Began Herceptin every 3 weeks
3/2006 Xeloda 2500mg/Herceptin for recurrence to neck nodes
3/2007 Added back the Xeloda with Herceptin for continued mets to nodes
5/2007 Taken Off Xeloda, no longer working
6/14/07 Taxol/Herceptin/Avastin
3/26 - 5/28/08 Taxol Holiday Whopeeeeeeeee
5/29 2008 Back on Taxol w Herceptin q 2 weeks
4/2009 Progression on Taxol & Paralyzed L Vocal Cord from Nodes Pressing on Nerve
5/2009 Begin Rx with Navelbine/Herceptin
11/09 Progression on Navelbine
Fought for and started Tykerb/Herceptin...nodes are melting!!!!!
2/2010 Back to Avastin/Herceptin
5/2010 Switched to Metronomic Chemo with Herceptin...Cytoxan and Methotrexate
Pericardial Window Surgery to Drain Pericardial Effusion
7/2010 Back to walking a mile a day...YEAH!!!!
9/2010 Nodes are back with a vengence in neck
Qualified for TDM-1 EAP
10/6/10 Begin my miracle drug, TDM-1
Mixed response, shrinking internal nodes, progression skin mets after 3 treatments
12/6/10 Started Halaven (Eribulen) /Herceptin excellent results in 2 treatments
2/2011 I CELEBRATE my 9 YEAR MARK!!!!!!!!!!!!!
7/5/11 begin Gemzar /Herceptin for node progression
2/8/2012 Gemzar stopped, Continue Herceptin
2/20/2012 Begin Tomo Radiation to Neck Nodes
2/21/2012 I CELEBRATE 10 YEARS
5/12/2012 BeganTaxotere/ Herceptin is my next miracle for new node progression
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Old 11-20-2006, 12:38 PM   #3
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Marcia,

Please accept my sympathies to you and your family. I am so happy that you got to spend time with him and share your feelings.

Hugs and Prayers,
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Old 11-20-2006, 12:48 PM   #4
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I am so sorry to hear of your brother's passing, but am glad that you were able to make amends. Please know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.
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Old 11-20-2006, 01:22 PM   #5
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Marcia,


I just wanted to say how sorry I am for your loss. I will say a prayer for you and your brother today.

Thinking of you
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Old 11-20-2006, 04:51 PM   #6
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Marcia,

I am so sorry to hear of your brother's passing. May you and your family be comforted by happier memories which will always be with you.

I will keep you in my prayers.

Linda
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Old 11-20-2006, 05:55 PM   #7
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Condolences

Dear Marcia,

Please accept my sympathy on the loss of your brother. I believe God steps in and helps us in ways we would never believe. He had a hand in your time spent with your brother. May he rest in peace. Thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Sincerely,

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Old 11-20-2006, 08:08 PM   #8
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So very sorry Marcia. More thoughts and prayers. Bev
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Old 11-21-2006, 06:34 AM   #9
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Marcia-

You are in our thoughts and prayers - I'm glad you were able to reconnect with your brother.

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Old 11-21-2006, 10:01 AM   #10
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Marcia, my thoughts and prayers are with you, too. I know your greatest comfort will be the last days you had with your brother and the peace of reconciliation with him. It is such a blessing that you had that time together. Hugs, Tricia
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Old 11-21-2006, 11:31 AM   #11
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Dear Marcia

Please accept my condolences for your loss, and bravo to you and your brother for being able to put aside past differences. God bless and keep you and your family.
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8/06 - 10/06 tamoxifen, herceptin, oophorectomy & zometa
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Old 11-21-2006, 11:44 AM   #12
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I am so sorry for your loss. Please accept my condolences. I am happy for you that you got to make amends with your brother prior to his passing and I am sure it meant as much to him as it did to you. Take care.

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Old 11-21-2006, 01:00 PM   #13
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very sorry to hear your sad news.
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Old 11-21-2006, 01:54 PM   #14
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Marcia ..... My prayers are with you and your family ....Glad
you were able to spend time with your brother ...Dwell on all
of those great memories you have with your brother and know that one day you will be able to see him again ....

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Old 11-21-2006, 09:47 PM   #15
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Thank you one and all for the words of comfort.
I will travel on Thanksgiving day to Pennsylvania, funeral will be on Friday.

Warmly,Marcia
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