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Old 05-10-2011, 02:27 PM   #1
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Frankly Speaking: Sex After Breast Cancer

From moisturizers and lubricants to decreased libido and UTI's, this talk was informative and may be helpful to many of you.

Frankly Speaking: Sex After Breast Cancer
2011-03-17

Speaker: Susan Kellogg-Spadt, CRNP, PhD

http://lbbc.org/Event-Archive/2011-0...-Breast-Cancer

Downloading the transcript and reading it that way was excellent and the speaker offers some outstanding information that is both healthy and tested.

Hope you enjoy!
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Old 05-10-2011, 03:32 PM   #2
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Re: Frankly Speaking: Sex After Breast Cancer

Thanks for posting Vic!
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Old 02-29-2012, 04:53 PM   #3
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Re: Frankly Speaking: Sex After Breast Cancer

Vic,
Thank you for posting this link to the podcast and script. this is the most "frank" and comprehensive coverage of the matter that I have ever heard
I wish I would have heard it a year ago
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Old 02-29-2012, 05:48 PM   #4
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Re: Frankly Speaking: Sex After Breast Cancer

Thanks very much for posting.
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Old 03-02-2012, 03:09 PM   #5
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Re: Frankly Speaking: Sex After Breast Cancer

There are so many things I knew nothing about until I read this. Sex education is a lifelong endeavor, isn't it?
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4/19/11 Diagnosed invasive ductal carcinoma in left breast; 2.3 cm tumor, 1 axillary lymph node, weakly ER+, HER2+++
4/29/11 CT scan shows suspicious lesions on liver and lungs
5/17/11 liver biopsy
5/24/11 liver met confirmed--Stage IV at diagnosis
5/27/11 Begin weekly Taxol & Herceptin for 3 months (standard of care at the time of my DX)
7/18/11 Switch to weekly Abraxane & Herceptin due to Taxol allergy
8/29/11 CT scan shows no new lesions & old lesions shrinking
9/27/11 Finish Abraxane. Start Herceptin every 3 weeks. Begin taking Arimidex
10/17/11--Brain MRI--No Brain mets
12/5/11 PET scan--Almost NED
5/15/12 PET scan shows progression-breast/chest/spine (one vertebra)
5/22/12 Stop taking Arimidex; stay on Herceptin
6/11/12 Started Tykerb and Herceptin on clinical trial (w/no chemo)
9/24/12 CT scan--No new mets. Everything stable.
3/11/13 CT Scan--two small new possible mets and odd looking area in left lung getting larger.
4/2/13--Biopsy of suspicious area in lower left lung. Mets to lung confirmed.
4/30/13 Begin Kadcyla/TDM-1
8/16/13 PET scan "mixed," with some areas of increased uptake, but also some definite improvement, so I'll stay on TDM-1/Kadcyla.
11/11/13 Finally get hormone receptor results from lung biopsy of 4/2/13. My cancer is no longer ER positive.
11/13/13 PET scan mixed results again. We're calling it "stable." Problems breathing on exertion.
2/18/14 PET scan shows a new lesion and newly active lymph node in chest, other progression. Bye bye TDM-1.
2/28/14 Begin Herceptin/Perjeta every 3 weeks.
6/8/14 PET "mixed," with no new lesions, and everything but lower lungs improving. My breathing is better.
8/18/14 PET "mixed" again. Upper lungs & one spine met stable, lower lungs less FDG avid, original tumor more avid, one lymph node in mediastinum more avid.
9/1/14 Begin taking Xeloda one week on, one week off. Will also stay on Herceptin and Perjeta every three weeks.
12/11/14 PET Scan--no new lesions, and everything looks better than it did.
3/20/15 PET Scan--no new lesions, but lower lung lesions larger and a bit more avid.
4/13/15 Increasing Xeloda dose to 10 days on, one week off.
7/1/15 Scan "mixed" again, but suggests continuing progression. Stop Xeloda. Substitute Abraxane every 3 weeks starting 7/13.
10/28/15 PET scan shows dramatic improvement everywhere. All lesions except lower lungs have resolved; lower lungs noticeably improved.
12/18/15 Last Abraxane. Continue on Herceptin and Perjeta alone beginning 1/8/16.
1/27/16 PET scan shows cancer is stable.
5/11/16 PET scan shows uptake in some areas that were resolved on the last two scans.
6/3/16 Begin Kadcyla and Tykerb combination
6/5 - 6/23 Horrible diarrhea from K&T together. Got pneumonia.
7/15/16 Begin Kadcyla only every 3 weeks.
9/6/16 Begin radiation therapy on right lung lesion that caused the pneumonia.
10/3/16 Last of 12 radiation treatments to right lung.
11/4/16 Huffing and puffing, low O2, high heart rate, on tiniest bit of exertion. Diagnosed as radiation pneumonitis. Treated with Prednisone.
11/11/16 PET scan shows significant improvement to radiated part of right lung BUT a bunch of new lung lesions, and the bone met is getting worse.
11/22/16 Begin Eribulin and Herceptin. H every 3 weeks. E two weeks on, one week off.
3/6/17 Scan shows progression in lungs. Bone met a little better.
3/23/17 Lung biopsy. Tumor sampled is ER-, PR+ (5%), HER2+++. Getting Herceptin and Perjeta as a maintenance treatment.
5/31/17 Port placement
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Old 03-03-2012, 02:25 PM   #6
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Re: Frankly Speaking: Sex After Breast Cancer

I enjoyed this article, and learned of some treatment options I was not previously aware of. However, there are some discondances between the ingredients that Dr. Kellog-Spadt recommends we avoid and the ingredients in the products she recommends. I have spent some time on-line at drugstore.com and in actual drug stores this morning reading the product labels, and this is what I found:

1. In her discussion of vibrators, she says to avoid products containing parabens. However, most of the lubricants and moisturizers she recommends contain parapbens: Slipperly Stuff, Wet, Astroglide (Natural) [although drugstore.com lists a different, paraben-free Astroglide], Replens and Me Again.

2. She specifically says to avoid moisturizers with Glycerin, however, one of her top choices, KY Liquibeads, contains glycerin.

While parabens are estrogenic, glycerin is not, so I am not sure why she says to avoid it unless it interferes with moisturizing.

What she liked about Me Again was the ingredient hyaluronic acid, which I found is available as a vitamin supplement, though I could not find it in a lotion.

I am going to try her remaining suggestions, and will post if I find anything that is really remarkable.

Read your labels!

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Old 03-03-2012, 03:06 PM   #7
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Re: Frankly Speaking: Sex After Breast Cancer

Hopeful,

Thanks for doing the detective work!

I bought a lubricant that was recommended by the hospital, only to find it has parabens.

On that same subject, I went to a special class called "look good, feel better" at the hospital. They gave me a whole bunch of makeup, most of which has parabens in it.
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4/19/11 Diagnosed invasive ductal carcinoma in left breast; 2.3 cm tumor, 1 axillary lymph node, weakly ER+, HER2+++
4/29/11 CT scan shows suspicious lesions on liver and lungs
5/17/11 liver biopsy
5/24/11 liver met confirmed--Stage IV at diagnosis
5/27/11 Begin weekly Taxol & Herceptin for 3 months (standard of care at the time of my DX)
7/18/11 Switch to weekly Abraxane & Herceptin due to Taxol allergy
8/29/11 CT scan shows no new lesions & old lesions shrinking
9/27/11 Finish Abraxane. Start Herceptin every 3 weeks. Begin taking Arimidex
10/17/11--Brain MRI--No Brain mets
12/5/11 PET scan--Almost NED
5/15/12 PET scan shows progression-breast/chest/spine (one vertebra)
5/22/12 Stop taking Arimidex; stay on Herceptin
6/11/12 Started Tykerb and Herceptin on clinical trial (w/no chemo)
9/24/12 CT scan--No new mets. Everything stable.
3/11/13 CT Scan--two small new possible mets and odd looking area in left lung getting larger.
4/2/13--Biopsy of suspicious area in lower left lung. Mets to lung confirmed.
4/30/13 Begin Kadcyla/TDM-1
8/16/13 PET scan "mixed," with some areas of increased uptake, but also some definite improvement, so I'll stay on TDM-1/Kadcyla.
11/11/13 Finally get hormone receptor results from lung biopsy of 4/2/13. My cancer is no longer ER positive.
11/13/13 PET scan mixed results again. We're calling it "stable." Problems breathing on exertion.
2/18/14 PET scan shows a new lesion and newly active lymph node in chest, other progression. Bye bye TDM-1.
2/28/14 Begin Herceptin/Perjeta every 3 weeks.
6/8/14 PET "mixed," with no new lesions, and everything but lower lungs improving. My breathing is better.
8/18/14 PET "mixed" again. Upper lungs & one spine met stable, lower lungs less FDG avid, original tumor more avid, one lymph node in mediastinum more avid.
9/1/14 Begin taking Xeloda one week on, one week off. Will also stay on Herceptin and Perjeta every three weeks.
12/11/14 PET Scan--no new lesions, and everything looks better than it did.
3/20/15 PET Scan--no new lesions, but lower lung lesions larger and a bit more avid.
4/13/15 Increasing Xeloda dose to 10 days on, one week off.
7/1/15 Scan "mixed" again, but suggests continuing progression. Stop Xeloda. Substitute Abraxane every 3 weeks starting 7/13.
10/28/15 PET scan shows dramatic improvement everywhere. All lesions except lower lungs have resolved; lower lungs noticeably improved.
12/18/15 Last Abraxane. Continue on Herceptin and Perjeta alone beginning 1/8/16.
1/27/16 PET scan shows cancer is stable.
5/11/16 PET scan shows uptake in some areas that were resolved on the last two scans.
6/3/16 Begin Kadcyla and Tykerb combination
6/5 - 6/23 Horrible diarrhea from K&T together. Got pneumonia.
7/15/16 Begin Kadcyla only every 3 weeks.
9/6/16 Begin radiation therapy on right lung lesion that caused the pneumonia.
10/3/16 Last of 12 radiation treatments to right lung.
11/4/16 Huffing and puffing, low O2, high heart rate, on tiniest bit of exertion. Diagnosed as radiation pneumonitis. Treated with Prednisone.
11/11/16 PET scan shows significant improvement to radiated part of right lung BUT a bunch of new lung lesions, and the bone met is getting worse.
11/22/16 Begin Eribulin and Herceptin. H every 3 weeks. E two weeks on, one week off.
3/6/17 Scan shows progression in lungs. Bone met a little better.
3/23/17 Lung biopsy. Tumor sampled is ER-, PR+ (5%), HER2+++. Getting Herceptin and Perjeta as a maintenance treatment.
5/31/17 Port placement
6/1/17 Start Navelbine & Tykerb
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Old 03-04-2012, 11:50 AM   #8
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Re: Frankly Speaking: Sex After Breast Cancer

Amy,

I was surprised, because it certainly sounded like the doctor was familiar with the ingredients when she discussed them. That is why I wanted to post what I found.

For the record, I am not anti-estrogens altogether. With my medical team's consent, I have used Estrace cream for VA, which worked very well. However, I think that once the atrophy is dealt with initially, there should be some way to maintain the cellular integrity that does not involve hormonal preparations. At least with the Estrace (and similar products like vagifem and e-string), the production is regulated, and when I use it, I know what the dosage is. With estrogenic compounds like parabens, there is no way to know the relative strength of the compounds and how much estrogen-like substances you are using, because there is no regulation of it and no standardized dosing. I would rather use the real thing, when I know what I am getting, than guess about these other preparations.

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