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Old 12-16-2003, 03:57 PM   #1
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Well ladies I am sitting here on my own and just got the news I didn't want to hear. I can't ring anyone and tell them the bad news because I haven't got over it yet myself. The lump on the right side of my neck, which I have been trying to get sorted out since June has cancer cells. Radiation has been suggested. I rang for the result at home because if I am to get bad news I would rather not be in a public place. So much for my CA-15 marker being 7. I guess I need encouragement now, I still have my fractured left shoulder which has now caused me to have RSI in my right shoulder because I have to use it more and I can't take anti-inflammatory tablets because it causes fluid on my lungs and around my heart, where does it all end. One good thing my Thyroid is beautiful but I now have 2 leaking Mitral valves instead of one, I don't do anything by halves. I see my onc on Friday and she tells me to remain positive, I don't know where this will put my reconstruction or should I even bother, this year has been one of the worst since I can remember. Looks like I am going to have to surf the net for some more big guns. No doubt I will back to my old self soon, but I just had to share with someone, and wipe the tears off my key board.

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Old 12-16-2003, 10:40 PM   #2
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Lyn,

So sorry to hear about your news. Hang in there. You've beat this thing so many times and you'll do it again. You've just got to put those ole boxing gloves back on. Just wanted you to know I'm thinking of you and keeping you in my prayers.
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Old 12-16-2003, 10:42 PM   #3
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Hang in there Lyn.....
we're all rooting for ya!
You're going to get through this!!!
Lots of hugs
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Old 12-16-2003, 11:04 PM   #4
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Lyn,
You surely received some rotten news. The news is something we all dread and worry about. I am sorry that you can't have a bit of a break from all of this. But, with faith and hope and courage, you will persevere!!! Pull out the ammuntition you've had in reserves for this possiblity and go after this crummy disease. You CAN put yourself back to NED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
God Bless and Keep you.
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Old 12-16-2003, 11:10 PM   #5
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I'm so sorry, Lyn. I wish I could give you a big hug. Just hang in there and stay positive. You'll get through this!!

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Old 12-17-2003, 12:00 AM   #6
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Lyn, I am sorry. I know you will get your emotions on track again soon and that you will return to your fighting self! We are with you.

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Old 12-17-2003, 02:07 AM   #7
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Hi Lyn: I am with you, am going through, the same thing myself. Its sucks to be going through all this around the Holidays. Trying to determine which way to turn. Have to keep our heads up and be brave. All my friends say maybe, there will be a cure over night!! You are in my prayers. Big hugs to you. Sandy
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Old 12-17-2003, 02:33 AM   #8
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Lyn, I'm so sorry to hear this. I'm sending you BIG, BIG HUGS...I know you will find something to knock this on it's keester. You've been such an inspirition for all of us when we needed you, now I hope we can return the favor and give you the boost you need. The tears are good, they'll help wash away the despair and then you'll be ready to fight, fight, fight!
Love and more BIG HUGS,
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Old 12-17-2003, 04:52 AM   #9
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I hate to hear this. Such a rollercoaster we're all on. Just remember to breath and take this one day at a time.I'm sure you will continue along the healing path after this detour.

Much love and light,

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Old 12-18-2003, 03:06 AM   #10
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Lyn,

Sorry to hear of your news. It always seems to knock it out of you just when you think things might be going along just fine. There's always hope - please do not give up. We are all pulling for you.

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Old 12-18-2003, 05:09 AM   #11
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Hi Lyn: I'm so sorry that you have recieved such depressing news. I wish I had some kind of magic wand that I could wave for you (and everyone else) and make this horrible disease go away. We try to appear strong for loved ones when we are really crying on the inside. Remember, whenever you need to talk about how you REALLY feel or just to get things off your chest we will always be here for you. Be gentle with yourself and give yourself some time to adjust to this new set of circumstances. I really do feel that there is a combination of drugs out there that will do the trick for you. Take Care, Linda
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Old 12-20-2003, 03:52 AM   #12
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Dear Lyn
you have been so supportive to so many including myself. i wish I could help you now. I know you will get throught this and we are with you.

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Old 11-01-2007, 04:59 PM   #13
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Dear Lyn,
I'm new here, but not to this beast called breast cancer. In my mind I am giving you a hug and telling you I will be there for you, my hand is offered. You and all are in my prayers. LizDT
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Old 11-01-2007, 05:46 PM   #14
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Oh, Lyn, what a deal! I'm so sorry that you got rotten news. But I just know that you will fight the good fight and do battle once more. Please be sweet to yourself and call someone who can put their arms around you and hug you tight! Lots of love, ma
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Old 11-01-2007, 06:14 PM   #15
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Lyn, it's okay to have that cry tonight too. Then start tomorrow ready for action.
Keep the faith.
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May 2007 Core biopsy, Rt breast
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"suspicious area" left breast
Bilateral mastectomy, (NED on left) May 2007
Sentinel Node Neg
Stage 1, DCIS with microinvasion, 3 mm, mostly removed during the biopsy....
Femara (discontinued 7/07) Resumed 10/07
OncoType score 36 (July 07)
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Began Herceptin alone 10/07
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D/C Femara 4/10 (joint pain/trigger thumb!)
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Old 11-01-2007, 07:37 PM   #16
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Lyn;

I am so sorry to hear your news. I had a tumor in my supraclavicular node which they blasted with radiation. It's a bit of a mess there but that was three years ago nearly and my most recent ultrasound of the neck showed no tumors.....SO.....in addition to all the other stuff they will give you....radiation does work!!. Hang in there. We're all here for you.

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Old 11-01-2007, 07:55 PM   #17
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I am so sorry, it's got to be awful to get this news. Once you digest it, you will be ready to fight again. you are in my thoughts and prayers..sherryg
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Old 11-01-2007, 08:28 PM   #18
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Maybe I am wrong, but isn't that post a old one from our dearly missed and loved Lyn? Its dated 2003.

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Rt. MRM on 1-3-06 -- No Rads due to compromised lungs.
Chemo started 2-7-06 -- TCH - - Finished 6-12-06
Finished yr of wkly herceptin 3-19-07
3-15-07 Lt side prophylactic simple mastectomy. -- Ooph 4-05-07
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11-19-09 RT. Femur surgery - Rod placed
12-7-09 Navelbine added to Herceptin/Zometa.
3-23-10 Ten days of rads to RT femur. Completed.
4-05-10 Quit Navelbine--Herceptin/Zometa alone.
5-4-10 Appt. with Dr. Slamon to see what is next? Waiting on FISH results from femur biopsy.
Results to FISH was unsuccessful--this happens less then 2% of the time.
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Old 11-01-2007, 08:38 PM   #19
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OK I have noticed several times that OLD, OLD posts just show up all of a sudden.

This particular one was dated 2003.
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MRM 4-5-05 w/ 2 tumor's 5cm, and 6 cm (right side)
IDC (poorly differentiated infiltrating ductual carcinoma)
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Abdominal MRI Oct. 2007---2 Right Kidney Cysts
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PET/CT Scan 6-2008
Sept. 8 2008, 4CM area removed from mastectomy scar line. Proved to be B9.
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Old 11-01-2007, 08:57 PM   #20
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These old posts do come up once in a while. What happens is that someone reads the message and doesn't notice the date and replies to it.
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Neoadjunct chemo: 4 A/C; 4 Taxatore
Bilateral mastectomy June 8, 2006
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