Update on Mom

Anne,
The question is do YOU trust the onc? If so, discuss your concerns. Then trust him to make the right decision. The MRI should tell him what he needs. If she does have bone mets, Zometa might well be the way to go. But it won't prevent them. If we knew what prevented mets, we would all be rushing to our local pharmacy.

My best advice to you is to get educated the best you can, trust your doc (or if not get another one) and relax a bit. Your anxiety will certainly affect your Mom if she sees/feels it.

Speaking of her, how does she feel about all this?

Love and light,

Lisa